 we won't learn how to open up or we don't learn how to open up from our male friends, from our father figures. It's very rare that a man will learn from another man how to emote his feelings learning it through a man. It's only through a woman. I shouldn't say only, that makes it an absolute. Most likely the way to a man's heart is going to come from a woman. And what I mean from his heart is being able to express himself.