 Just about a week or two ago, Trisha Paytas made a video about me, which a lot of people asked me to respond to and while in this video I'm not going to be really doing a direct response to that video, I do want to address a really big issue which is Trisha Paytas consistently playing the victim. What is up everybody? This is Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem, but focus on the solution. And if you're new to my channel what I like to do is take a look at what's going on in the YouTube community and try to see what lessons we can learn from them. So if you're into that stuff make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and if you're not yet make sure you follow me on social media at the Rewired Soul on Instagram and Twitter. So yeah I was sitting back I was watching the premiere of the new Spill video where they were talking about the situation between Trisha Paytas and Nikocado Avocado. It's part one but anyways I'll link it down in the description. So check it out like Spill is the best tea channel out there alright like just so much research and information and sometimes I'm like what new thing are you going to add to this conversation right? And she always does. Flawless. Mwah. But anyways as I watched it I started to recognize a pattern of behavior and this pattern of behavior is calling people a stalker and trying to push that narrative whenever she doesn't like somebody. And I saw this I saw this happen in the Spill video she brought up instances of Trisha Paytas doing this to Nina Unrated to Daniel E. Carroll to Nikocado Avocado and I bet you didn't know this she even labeled me as a stalker. Oh my god it's kind of just like to the point of almost like borderline harassment just like constantly coming for us it's like if it's not harassment it's very stalkerish behavior it's scary it's like it's scary. What we're seeing aside from this pattern of behavior of calling people she doesn't like a stalker is she is consistently playing the victim and here's one of the issues that Trisha Paytas has as well as many other public figures and YouTube creators as a whole have is they want everything both ways and here's what I mean by that they want to be able to be in the public spotlight get all the fame the admiration the money that comes along with it but they don't want to be talked about in any kind of negative light and you can't have that you can't have it both ways all right and something that I've been thinking about quite a bit lately and it goes back to some of the controversy I had a couple months ago is where's this line where's this line where people mind who you talk about and if it hurts their feelings or not right like Trisha Paytas although we can say she is a YouTuber she is being talked about in mainstream media all right so just the other day I saw that E news tweeted out about her all right not only that but Trisha Paytas just tweeted out before I made this video that she has a big announcement coming that's going to be announced on E all right so she is kind of in the mainstream but she also happens to be a YouTuber so she sees videos like mine now are we not allowed to talk about her because some things we say might hurt her feelings I don't really think that's right I really don't think that's fair like what if no journalist could talk about anybody in a negative way if it were to hurt their feelings you see what I mean like that's not how this works if something is being put out there in the public we have the right to discuss it to analyze it say whatever the heck we want about it all right it is purely based on our opinions as well as the evidence that is presented through recorded videos one of the other things that really really bothered bothers me about the whole playing the victim idea is the trolling right like Trisha Paytas will be labeled as a troll she will say she is a troll she said she makes trolling videos and this comes up quite a bit I've had people leave me comments on like this and like oh no she's just trolling she's just trolling and like here's the thing that is like the perfect disguise that is the perfect thing to do right and like obviously like this this video right here like if you haven't watched it yet it's Trisha Paytas smashing her face into a pizza quite interesting but anyways this is like the perfect alibi because whenever she does something like this she doesn't have to take any accountability any responsibility for that because she easily sweep it on the rug and just say hey I was just trolling bro that's all it was you see what I mean and like that is what she's doing to protect herself from criticism so speaking of criticisms one of the main criticisms I got was people said that I diagnosed Trisha Paytas with borderline personality disorder first off I can't diagnose anybody but second off when discussing this I used a clip of her saying she has borderline personality disorder now after all of this the most controversial part was when Trisha came out and basically said that the rewind soul lied about her having borderline personality disorder and I'm a I'm just gonna roll a clip from Chris's channel now we do put our lives out there but to diagnose someone he puts in the description like Trisha has borderline personality disorder I don't it's messed up it's gross it's honestly so disgusting but I do want to say this Trisha there was absolutely something that you were wrong about in your video which is that I never ever ever speculate about a person's diagnosis you'll you'll you'll if you're in a good mood you're gonna love it it's not the fun part though about dating someone with like borderline personality is like you don't know what mood they're gonna be in are they gonna be mad you're always in a good mood and let's say that to be honest in this specific situation I don't actually believe that the rewind soul is exactly speculating because as you've seen he has provided actual clips and evidence to suggest that Trisha Paytas might possibly have borderline personality disorder now when I released that I had quite a few Trisha Paytas fans coming at me and saying even though many other creators have made videos showing the multiple times where she admitted to being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and in recent videos she has also said she's never been diagnosed with anything so we have to ask ourselves which one is it and here's the thing when it comes to trolling it's one of it's one of two ways right you're either trolling and it doesn't matter because this was an act this was a show none of it is real so people can say whatever they want to about it because it was a fake fictional made-up video but then on the other hand if it is real right then you're not trolling so which one is it because you can't get upset if it's about a fake video that you did so I hope you see what I mean where she's using this this trolling facade to cover up anything she wants whenever she wants and it bumps me out so those of you who haven't been paying attention I keep getting comments like I thought you weren't gonna talk about Trisha Paytas anymore I thought you weren't gonna talk about Trisha Paytas anymore so let me address that real quick when the controversy with me first kicked off all right a lot of it centered around Trisha Paytas and my stupid DM that I sent to the drama channels about Trisha Paytas it kicked off Trisha Paytas was upset I made an apology video to Trisha Paytas all right but recently I asked you the viewers what your thoughts were about it and 90% of you said listen she's a public figure you're doing commentary you can talk about it but here's the thing like yes I initially felt bad but the more information that is coming out like when I first started making videos about Trisha Paytas I knew absolutely nothing about this woman all right I was covering a lot of different mental health topics people kept recommending me talk about Trisha Paytas videos especially her toxic ass relationship with Jason Nash that is all I knew about her all right but now as I'm getting to know her more especially with this nicocato avocado situation blowing up and so many videos coming out you know backing up what nicocato was saying and how she's done this to many many other people like if I would have known that originally I would have pretty much said what PewDiePie said in his video where she's not really a good person so I'll end with this in no way do I hate Trisha Paytas I always try to say this I love everybody but I don't like everybody all right and in my opinion in my opinion Trisha Paytas needs a lot of work and she might even need a break Trisha Paytas has been talking a lot about therapy lately and it's something I've been staying away from but I could do a whole video about that but like I've worked in addiction treatment I've worked with many therapists I've worked with many people who are going to therapy because I'm not a therapist and you can always tell people who are twisting what their therapist says it's something that you kind of start getting a knack for you can hear them talking about therapy and you ask yourself like are they telling their therapist the whole truth does their therapist know everything that's going on what did their therapist really say because don't get me wrong there are some terrible therapists out there but I'll ask you this do you have anybody in your life who started seeing a therapist and whatever that person would talk to you they would tell you that their therapist said that you're the problem most therapist will not do that unless it's some kind of like brutally abusive relationship and they want you to set up boundaries and they want you to get out of it right like when I was working at the addiction treatment center I would tell my clients constantly constantly to beat that accountability into their heads I'm like don't you ever ever go back home until your family that what we talked you here was was that your family needs to change for you to stay sober because that's not how it works all right we all need to take personal responsibility and accountability for our actions and our mental health and the work that we're putting into it but this pattern of behavior with Trisha Paytas shows that she does not like to take personal responsibility or accountability for anything so whenever I see new videos coming up reminding me that she is refusing to apologize to Nick for what she did like I could do a whole video about how she skirts around all of the main points to try to make it seem like she just felt unsafe right there are so many contradictions but anyways check out this spill video spill like has a whole segment like talking about the different contradictions that Trisha Paytas said and did and everything like that in the scenario but at the end of the day for anybody defending Trisha Paytas don't worry Trisha Paytas is a big girl she's not a victim she could take care of herself and like she said countless times she has a massive support group around her to help her through these difficult times all right but I wish her the best I hope therapy works out for and that's all I got for this video so if you like this video please give it a thumbs up if you're new make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell because I make a ton of videos and a huge huge thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon you are amazing and if you would like to support what I'm doing here pick a tap on that patreon icon right there all right thanks again so so much for watching I'll see you next time