 Why in the morning today? I said it's the ninth day of January. I'm feeling very very good I'm giving thanks for life first of all, and I'm giving thanks for the chance to get to see you Hi, my name is Valentine or at Color Me Val. You can get us at Y254 on Facebook at Y254 channel on Twitter Of course the hashtag is a YNZ morning. How are you doing? It's the Queen's Wednesday And by the way, I hope you're noticing that we're playing a hundred percent Kenyan music Oh, finally guys in a situation. Yeah, you know how I like it That's how you can find me at Color Me Val and everything Meanwhile, so what girls talk time and the topic of discussion is keeping safe Now there's a good belief that's out there that if you do everything right Nothing will happen to you and if it does it's not really your fault and you shouldn't be doing But life is different or life doesn't work like that. So we're gonna take out Parts anybody parts of this type of life so we can figure out how to keep safe as flowers Okay, let me introduce my panel. Hi guys. Hello. What's your name? My name is Beth Mm-hmm, Beth Njoki. Beth Njoki. What do you do? My student at Kenya Institute of mass communication. I'm doing a course in film and video production directing option Oh Actually, one of our able producers and director My name is Simon Masila. I'm a communication student, but I recently graduated so we can say it's my passion Journalism. Yeah, you're all in the right place. Yeah, congratulations. Thank you Have you given us your social media handles? I'm Masila. Masila my dear Twitter Simon my dear Facebook. Press that follow button. I follow back by the way And yours Beth Padau Facebook, Beth actress Instagram. Beth, when you get actress. I'm also an actress I like it. And you are I managed to boost your sound. There you go. My name is Ivika Gendo. I'm a journalism student at Multimedia University of Kenya But right now I'm supposed to be starting my internship here at KVC I'm so excited. Yes On Instagram you can find me at ivy underscore Kegendo on Facebook. You can find me at ivy Kegendo. Thank you Alright, so we're talking about keeping safe. What does keeping safe mean to you Ivy? Okay, according to me keeping safe is knowing your limits Protecting yourself from things that you know that they can harm you in future and Sticking to your morals. Yeah. Yes. I have so many questions guys. I feel life is a One it's one giant double standard But we are still talking about keeping safe so maybe you are coming So we're going to try and figure out where the middle ground is For example, my dress my choice me and Benny survive designing in any Kitten Bear places in Guinea. Okay, fine But I also know that you can be assaulted when you're wearing jeans and and pull neck sweaters So really what what are we saying? How do we keep safe? I'm going to ask the king Well for me my dress my choice was what I can say a bit part of because first of all you see We in Africa and we have a very conservative culture So when you go in town, let's say strutting Ministers cuts and you know even from the fathers for fathers Women are supposed to be conservative. Yeah, you will never see women walking around but for men. It's allowed because Once you're a man even the Bible says it I Mean it's a feminist but you know the Bible says the man is on top So and it's naturally speaking. That's why it's supposed to be so it's a matter of respecting yourself Respect your husband and once as a lady you respect yourself. Everyone around you would respect you So it's as easy as that Okay, me as long as I'm comfortable in it I'm okay with that, but he be a story. I might dress my choice. Okay, Nipua, but Nimbaya at the same time Because okay as a lady you don't have to go showing off yourself So last my one I can a every part of your body. This body is a temple for one It's a temple of God. That's the one thing God created a lady. I come create come a mowa You see so mowa I I take you quite exposed just any howly Anywhere you have to preserve yourself. You have to value yourself. We love Miss Emma if you respect yourself people will respect you So it starts with within come on me naji respect I couldn't let any disrespect if I don't respect myself It's if I just wear any howly then people take me the way the way I'm taking myself Yeah, but above you naji baby. Exactly. Okay. We've gotten we are we in agreement to that one What happens now to kiss him? Oh my gosh. We are done dying. We are going First of all, you're told you go See your drink for more than I don't know. I don't know how many seconds do we okay exaggerate But you know for cool meaning and if you can't see it you take another one That same breath at the But So as you see drinking culture come a day I'm a juicy so I'm not as a dema too much vulnerable that is why I can never advise a lady when they do not pick her a few let her be the first vocal is a pick a pick a pick a pick a pick a around N that ou n a a my you use you can say take advantage I think the most painful part of of such a story me maybe we'll make a home a lot for the team take advantage have taken advantage and then you wake up confused you maybe you drank too much maybe they drugged you after you drank too much and then maybe they took advantage of you after you have drank too much now you're confused ma'am kind of drink you know fuck fire now maybe you didn't want to report at all they assaulted but still you come to I don't like these stories let's keep safe 2019 you want to say something okay I would add to what he was saying okay as for me so we go like a squad and people as in when you train because you just can't go out with a stranger it's quite risky because you don't know you don't know his or her intentions afterwards and then take a home you're like hey and it's go home and then again I'm at the chick is like okay let's go home you've heard of many cases of girls being raped girls being cook at many cool their throats being slit you see those kind of stories when you know I'm a trooper come here I'm a co-bush as in one of the cup at a lake only put up two days two days after and the last place in Yalone can and is in a certain club with a certain person X of which how I dream in any so when that don't assume by a lucky me take care of yourselves know the people you're going with be safe as in tell other friends like tell your mom tell your auntie tell like I'm going this place because come on me when I took a quendah date I have to tell my mom I'm a my aunt like I'm going on a date here and I'll be coming to a routine time I'm going to ready come I say ready to the good a successful date yes okay I like you have something to add yes personally see was he advocate for ladies when that guy don't have to care what they're all man say you know you don't have to drink to be drunk you just come a little too quick tipsy tipsy I mean one is a manage you can you know what you're doing because a book you can laugh with a drunk you don't know anything you can follow them that's how men take advantage because that I could buy a drink mojambili on the other can only work on the other can only work on the next thing so if you have to drink if you just really have to drink tipsy you can manage yourself you can control yourself you can you don't have to be drunk on Facebook on first it was around 8 a.m. in the morning why I'm a good and brutal cover-up so I'm a mama had one I'm chapter because I look when I say ma he only be shahdy was channa see I'm just you was channel to go evil I'm too a cunevo cover up but I mean by at work any night be shahky lambs channel so it's not advisable them cook you are you not a little too kid over quick tipsy you can manage yourself I don't know if it's alcohol, but just go buy alcohol from the store. Yes. If you want to get drunk, you can trust people. Yes, if you want to get drunk. If you must get drunk. If you must get drunk and you want to get drunk, yes. What it says out there. Yes, and also what do I advice for the ladies? Leave the heavy stuff for men. That's why we have something like wine, Guarana, but I see, for example, for example, I'm 100% sure that this is wine. Yes, exactly. She took stuff for men, so you see. The stuff for men. When you try to compete with a man on something, there are some things naturally, naturally a man can handle and a lady can't handle. So, if you want to get heavy stuff, you can't, if you want to get drunk, you'll be left behind and you'll be in a very sorry state. Low town. This is why you can't get drunk. Guarana, you can't get drunk and you'll be in a very bad state. You can't get drunk. Relax, you guys. By the way, hydrate. Hydrate. Hydrate at all times. You can't get drunk and you'll be left behind. Then after that, you'll be left behind. You can't get drunk. Yes, if you want to get drunk, you can't get drunk at least. You can't get drunk. But to see that you're drunk, you can't give tips. You can't get drunk. Please, because for men, you can't get drunk. You can't get drunk and you'll be in a very bad state. It's not going anywhere. Relax. Relax. Alright, so we have a couple of slides ready for you. At White 54, you can find us there on Facebook. At White 54, channel on Twitter. Hashtag is white in the morning. So, let's check them out. So, some tips, maybe if you feel very vulnerable, you walk with your keys in between and you don't know. So, you can't get drunk and you'll be in a very bad state. So, you can't get drunk and you'll be in a very bad state. We are trying to keep our girls safe, okay? Alright, it's allowed. Alright. Keep an eye on your drink and don't drink too much. I know it sounds like there's a punishment. But just imagine, in moderation, it's a good thing to do things in moderation. So, there's a false sense of belief that when we do things right, bad things would happen to us. So, to be honest, oh my gosh, I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't know what's wrong with me. That means nothing bad will ever happen to you. That's not the truth. It's not. That's a lie. Because a wrong is a wrong, even if everybody is doing it. And a right is a right, even if you are the only one doing it. So, it depends with you. In a talk of from within. If you know this is right, do it. If you know this is wrong, what's wrong with you? To see compete up, baby. Alright. So, what else do you think we should do to keep safe? At 2-5-4 on Facebook, at 2-5-4 on China, on Twitter. Hashtag is why in the morning. I remember when I was with Rende, like all girls, she was just like, she was like, she was just like, she was just like, she was just like, she was just like, she was just like, she was like, she was just like, she was just like, as again, she was just gent, for me that is aland of opportunities. So, you have to socialize. So, you never know your friend, either you are the house ... But this one is unopportunist. I can't even be mad by the way, like you. I like it. I really do. But there's something that touches my heart. There's some cases of rape I have heard. They say it's by people that they know. People that they've known for a while. Now what do you do there? How do you even know? Help us on that. We're coming. But start IV. Okay. Okay. For me, it's just kind of like cases, but I'm sure there are cases that happen. So if someone like close to you does something like that to me, someone close to me does that to me, I would really be shocked because I need to disturb that punishment. You know, and okay, okay. Even though it's a server, but if it happens to me, maybe there's something I did wrong of which I'm trying to figure out. You see, Victor, you're always going to think maybe it's something you didn't, it's something you said. I might not blame myself. So I would say I'm on the safe side, but I don't know. For guys, okay, guys, I'm sorry to say, not all, but they take advantage of ladies when they're drunk. Not all, but there are cases like every day, every day, every day. Love, like you call someone to a club and then you don't even pay for her Uber, Kurodi. So like any other person, that's any other person that kind of mess. So, but come on, it's like very bad because I don't deserve that. I'm so good to him or her, so why should I like deserve that punishment? But I have, I have also heard of, of these cases, maybe. And, okay. So, I don't know if you're more impressionable than the rest of us. I don't know. I don't know what's happening, but so. It's a big deal, maybe, for example, I can do this, I'm very expensive. You care so much about me. Now on the way home, he was like, we are going out to my home because I want this, this and this. So, that was not part of the deal. You have to go to the highway, like go to Garriango, and find your way now where you want to go. How do you start from there? I would say it's okay since it's in Akuja, and first of all trying to fit in. Oh, yeah. It's a good point, Mami. You're trying to fit in. Because I'm in Akuja, I'm in school. When I'm in school, I don't have to compare myself with other people. But I don't have to compare myself with other people. Because I'm in school. I think it's nice to watch you wear the hat. I think if you are carrying a hat, you know what? You're taking things from a dark story. Because you don't have to keep thinking about what you are doing here. You're going home. You know where you're going. So don't try to fit in. If you're in a situation like this, you might have to wear a dress, or a suit. It's hard to choose. Stick to your own lane. Let them stick to their own lane which are to put on a pomegranate But what about my mom? I'm a little blessed. I saw we get that you know and you know I'm still beautiful my friend See last morning I am the cushukan that you find and you know I'm beautiful with the hair So don't try to fit in Stick to your own lane. Let them stick to their own lane Munga to bless a pomegranate you are going to make up a school. So my party is up as I go. Do you know that? Yes, it might take a longer time, but we will reach the end result is the same exactly Do you never know what happens? So as it never puts yourself in a situation You can say let's say like 600 DV Come and be a third to evil and then we can scan you up or I can ask you to try to sell your kids and get some of the money So as in I stay safe I stay safe I stay safe. I just in case. Do you never know? Stuff happens so So when stuff happens you just be ready for for anything so for any So that in case of anything you don't have to depend on summer So always be prepared for anything My name is Bailey When you go to a date, you just take the extra money and you're free to ask for your own money I am not sure And you just go out and ask for your own money It's not fair It's not fair anything So it's up on your own money and your money If you're going for a date, you just be prepared for anything You just be prepared for anything But you just say it in case of anything Yeah. Okay. All right. No, I still support her. Can the place at least have can the place at least have can the place at least have something might have an N foster to Apple. I love when I talk but we should be safe. We're keeping safe this 2019 guys. White five on Facebook at White 5 for tell you why in the morning we're going to take a very, very short break and co back in our little bits. Okay. So be texting text then was night before