 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at CommitmentConnection.com and in today's video we're gonna talk about how to keep a man interested in you. And so I'm gonna give you four very important things to do to keep a man interested. If this is your first time to our channel, make sure that you go and hit the subscribe button on the bottom right hand side of this video to get more videos on how to have the relationship that you've always wanted. So let's get started. So there are a lot of reasons why a guy might lose interest in a woman and not all of them have to do with you. But I'm gonna give you some tips on how to keep a guy interested with things that you specifically can do. So tip number one is to learn to become in sync with him. And so what this really means is that there's there's a lot of there's a couple different aspects to this. One is his communication, right? And I know that there are some women out there that are just totally oblivious to everything going on around them. But a lot of women are very intuitive and they kind of have this really great secret of or this like super, I like to call it a superpower, the super power of being intuitive and being able to read things and understand and get subtle nuances with body language and people and stuff like that. And if you can get into a guy's subtle nuances and really start to get him, get to understand what's going on with him, like you can just kind of feel what's going on with him. You can start to understand his language and start speaking his language. That can be a really really powerful thing to do. There are other types of ways of being in sync to some that we're gonna talk about a little bit here in a minute. But one of them is just like there's this thing that this relationship coach used to teach. And I can't remember who it is anymore, but it was really, really powerful. And what you do is you kind of sink your breath with your partner, like when you're laying together something and you just get on the same kind of beat with each other. And that's another really, really, it seems almost like, what is that do? But it's a really powerful way of getting, it's almost like this emotional or spiritual way of getting onto the same page with each other. Tip number two is to learn to enjoy some of the things that he enjoys. So a really powerful way of being able to connect with a man that a lot of women don't really get or understand is being able to just hang out with him and not even necessarily converse or talk to each other. And for a guy, this can be really, really powerful. A lot of guys really love this. And a lot of them wish that they had women that would be able to do this. So like the classic example is like going fishing with him and just hanging out there and not even talking or watching something with him or doing something with him, hanging out with him and just being there with him during some type of activity or habit or a hobby that he has that he really loves and you being a part of it without necessarily digging into it can be just incredibly attractive to a guy, especially putting you into this category of somebody that he wants to be with long term. So tip number three is to, it's called mirroring. And what you want to do is when he's hot, you want to be hot. And when he's cold, you want to be cold. And one of the biggest mistakes a lot of women make with guys is when a guy pulls back, they try to like go forward. But instead what you want to do is if he moves closer, you want to move closer. And if he pulls back, you want to pull back and just let it be more of a mirror than a chase. Because if he starts pulling back and getting cold and you chase him, that's really unattractive. A lot of guys need independence, they need space, they need time to themselves, they need time to recharge by themselves in isolation. And you want to be able to give a man that if that's something that he needs. Tip number four is connecting with his family and falling in love with his family or specifically his mom, but not becoming his mom, not trying to replace his family. What a lot of guys really want is for you to be like a part of the family and a part of or you know, depending on the way that he sees it, maybe his friends or his family, but they, he wants you to be a part of that, not the replacement of that. And a lot of women try to kind of replace that or they fall into like this mother category and it just, it turns out bad from there. So what you want to do is become a part, you know, learn to love his family, learn to become a part of it, but not to try to replace it. Thanks for watching this video. If you're ready to know exactly what to say and do to attract the man and the relationship you've always wanted, click on the button on the right hand side of this video and go to our website.