 Sex means love it means giving it often means motherhood sex is great It's a driving biologically impelled force sex is marvelous. It is it is the great force In the sexual activity at a rate never before are known in the history of mankind Teenages today are using sex Get the sort of pleasures that they want dates and so on The boys seem to be using it in order to establish their virility. I don't know how much there is that's real Impulse of the old drive I'm concerned because There seems to be a decline in the moral standards Great many teenagers don't think anything of going all the way anymore sometimes watching them. It seems to me that they're very Sad and guilt written and fear written. I think that they're having much less guilt about Engaging in sex relations such as petting and premarital intercourse The ancient times and completely Different kinds of societies than which we live in today and that we have vested Socioeconomic interests in not changing these taboos. I think she's very wise To feel that the person with whom she enters into an intimate relation is going to become a part of her in an extremely subtle sort of way and that It's wisdom to make a choice about the conditions and the circumstances and the continuity of it Yeah, I'd like to I Think that girls should realize often when they entertain thoughts of a sexual relationship with a 17 or 18 year old boy They should know that the boy isn't thinking of this sexual thing in the same terms that they are thinking of it in Okay, I'll be ready then See you. Bye, Peter. I think the men and women are Biologically different and not exactly the same and as the French saying goes evil the difference It's an appraisal for Paris I'm going to be pretty He may be It's a relative to Vera He'll never do anything And then he'll open the mouth I'm going to say that it's been ten years that he's been waiting to say what he had to say I've never really embraced a torture for each mediation Push I can dig Look at all the people He goes right by my with the wild goose grass is growing I like it here with all those people. Would you rather go somewhere else? No. No, it's okay Alongs in marriage. This is what it's for I would recommend the teenagers be encouraged to pet to Climax and I'd be trying to say look my dear if you don't have to don't without a good Spiritual and emotional Relationship is just like sneezing. It's just something that you get Over but it doesn't mean anything. There is no evidence whatsoever that people who do experiments actually have miserable sex or love lives later on I would hope that youngsters would have a Clear enough idea of what was necessary in order to establish a good joyous awarding sexual relationship That they would postpone it. I think there's something in sublimation As a good thing not nasty or wicked or evil and therefore made to seem very enticing It's made me go up north with them for the weekend Are you going? I don't know. I don't think it's right. And Besides my parents wouldn't approve Look, this is your decision. It has nothing to do with your parents. I know It's just I'm a little bit afraid There's this problem of clumsiness the girl doesn't know quite what to do or how to do or the boy doesn't know quite what or how to do What happens? It's terrible. I've done it. I'm all right. I just feel you wouldn't respect me afterwards Don't be silly. Peter really loves you listen to a marriage But I would not like the idea of thinking that my husband has been around A great great deal before I marry him the double standard of sex morality is Fortunately disappearing. It's the boys responsibility the girls responsibility In our society There's a great deal of guilt and there's a great deal of fear And there's a great deal of unsatisfied desire There was a time of course I think in the history of European society whenever the young man got his experience from the mature woman You got an immature boy and an immature girl and You're almost bound to get another stultifying relationship We better let them know that a very good thing that they can do and that they can do it without any harm whatsoever to themselves And with almost any frequency they personally prefer is masturbation It seems to be so common so natural that I don't think we can say it's wrong But I think we'd have to admit it's fairly unsatisfactory Sex is supposed to have a purpose. It's supposed to say something It's supposed to say I love you therefore I am giving myself to you and only to you this is very special I wouldn't so much ever advocate sex relations before marriage for anybody has Allow them to select it if they want to do so Well sex of course is only one part of the individual and sexual relationship demands a great deal of maturity Sensitivity, unselfishness, willingness to accept responsibility Which at the age of puberty most children don't have I don't know I'm looking for this girl but so high babysitting for this couple that are out How are you? Fine, how are you? Is everyone asleep? Yeah, baby is Can I come in? Yeah, I guess I'll come in Yeah, I know What's in there? It's milk that I'm heating for hot chocolate Do I pass inspection? Yes you do I say have something to do, keep busy Go to a movie, go to a lecture, go to an art museum, go to a play Go to a party, go bowling, go cycling, go walking Talking, this is great and it's cheap, it's free Have something to do Don't just go out in some lonely road and park Well, you certainly need to be having a good time Oh, excuse me Well, who are you? What are you doing here? He's a friend of mine Will you please leave? Forty, why don't you forget about it? Your mother will never find out anyway Rolling all over our sofa? God knows how far they would have gone if we hadn't come home Well, I don't know Accept your sexuality Then realize the power of it And don't let it carry you away Be in control of the situation Don't get yourself into a spot from which there may be no retreat Accept the fact that the sex drive next to the drive for survival is the most potent The strongest drive in every human being And every normal human being has it So learn how to handle it Learn how to live with it Make this drive a productive, a use for, a beautiful, a wisely handled thing And don't play games with it Because if you do, you will lose I would like to see them really stop and think to themselves and ask themselves Why they should or should not have intercourse Or any other kind of sex relations before marriage Not because their parents or other authorities told them not to But because they can figure out for themselves the advantages and individual disadvantages in each of their particular cases The only thing I think I would try to say is that human beings have a choice And this perhaps an intellectual choice is what differentiates them from the rest of the animal species So make your choice, choose under the best circumstances that you can Choose your mate and then I would just sit back and hope for the best for them And hope, I think, is the one four letter word that we're entitled to use in this context Why don't you take your coat off? No, no, it's okay, I'm cold Guilt written, fear written, prestige seeking Where should I draw the line? What's wrong? What's right? sex can be harmlessly engaged Out of marriage, sex is wrong Chastity, what do you think? It's a sex reaction This is your life I believe you The sun and the shine into the night And I can do this song