 there was a cat here somewhere so I just went into the shop to get some tuna and salmon but now the cat's gone maybe if I just leave it here the cat will come back how's everyone doing hope everyone's okay let me know how you're doing down below in the comment section I hope that my videos have been helping you and this mask is just coming off as I'm talking so I think I'll just take it off now yeah as you know what as you should know by now I am in South Korea having a blast having a great time down here but you may notice that I've got two jackets on because it is pretty cold here it's actually colder than the UK but it's a nice change from Malaysia where it was really hot oh we have a cat coming in don't worry I'm not gonna hurt you just want to fill your belly he or she will come out when they're ready and then they will eat we don't have to worry about that but yeah I'm out here in South Korea they landed about two days ago and it's pretty cold but as I said I'm enjoying the change in temperature and yeah I'm having a great time out here it's been a lot of fun and just picked up this new ride they say this is the most luxurious car in South Korea and it's made in South Korea as well and it's a first for me I've never driven a Korean car before I just drove it down the road and it drives really well it's really comfortable I think it's pretty fast too but I haven't had the chance to try it out just yet looking forward to it but yeah this is the beast this is the big boy right here but they drive on the right-hand side of the road so that's another first for me and not only that if we look inside the car the drivers side is on the left side and as many of you have probably seen from my videos I always drive on the right side so this is my first time driving a car with the driver side on the left side but not only that driving on the right side of the road but I know that is the case in a lot of countries I think that's how it is in the US and a lot of European countries so I've got to get used to it and I'm always looking to learn new skills challenge myself so give it a try yeah I'm still waiting for this cat to come out and get the food maybe I need to put it out of view maybe that will help put it in the dark then it's pretty cold out here now so I'm gonna get in the car and then we can begin okay so oh it makes a noise when you get in the car yes the narcissist wants you to sacrifice your life for them and I think if you have been involved with a narcissist you know there's nothing more true than that they have this arrogance and entitlement as though they deserve everything that you have worked so hard for they just expect you to hand it over to them even though they haven't done anything to earn it they haven't done anything positive for you they've just caused you so many problems they've made your life hell and yet there they are with their hands out expecting you to do whatever it is that they may be expecting from you but it's funny when you think about it because if you look back you've already done so much for them you've probably already sacrificed your life about a hundred times and yet here they are wanting you to sacrifice yourself one more time and then there's gonna be one more time after that and then another time after that it just goes on and on and you're just thinking when will it end when will I finally get some something out of this when will I get something in return for my hard work like why am I doing all of the work and at the same time I'm paying the price when is this hard work gonna pay off at the narcissist is thinking like no that's what you're supposed to do you're an object that exists to meet my needs that's your purpose in life but you look at it like no you want freedom you want the freedom to make your own choices and decisions to live your own life instead of just being at someone's will being under their authority under their control because that's no life to live I mean people are supposed to work together but what the narcissist is like you always have to follow their demands you always have to do what they want you to do and you just don't have any time to be your own separate person and live your own life I mean I can understand you should support your partner and you should make sacrifices sometimes but with the narcissist it's like you've got to sacrifice your entire life and not only your entire life you've got to sacrifice your identity your individuality everything you'd like everything you're interested in everything you're passionate about everything that means something to you you have to give all of that up just to please this unpleasable person and it's just not worth it because you're giving everything out and you're getting nothing back so when you look at it it's like what's the point it's like if you're working at a job you work hard every day to please your boss but at the end of it they don't even pay you why would you bother staying at that job there would just be no purpose to it but when you look at it this is how it is with these narcissists they want to be the boss and you know what it's okay sometimes if someone wants to lead someone wants to direct you if it's in your interest and you're happy with that you don't mind going along with it because you can see that it's serving you that that's fine there's nothing wrong with that but the problem is they abuse their power they want to be in a authoritative position but it is not in your interest they're not thinking about your future they're not thinking about how things are gonna be for you and that's a problem that means it's going to harm you I mean it's different if someone wants to be the boss in a relationship and they've planned things out like how things are going to be and they're considering you and they're talking about your future and how things are gonna be for you that's completely different thing but yeah I mean with narcissists it's just all about them and all about what they want and it's often at your expense so yeah they want you to sacrifice your entire life for them and even when you do that they're still not gonna be happy you're still not gonna get anything out of it they're not gonna be loyal and devoted to you yeah they want you to sacrifice your life for them but they're not gonna do the same for you they're not gonna sacrifice anything for you it's a one way street so yeah that's my little rent that's what I've got to say on this topic and yeah I hope that it's resonated with you steady pace there's in the comments lock that car when you are in it in this lots of crazy jealous knocks around enjoy your time there you know actually well I've only been here for a couple of days in South Korea but people are very kind and friendly here they really are a lot of them don't speak full English at least at the places where I've been so far as I've come more into the city there are more more people who can't speak English and they are very friendly you walk into the shop and they say hello to you very kind very helpful they go out of their way to help you and I think it's very rare that I've seen anyone who appears to be jealous of me in any way I mean people here when they look at foreigners it's usually just with curiosity so yeah I mean from my experience so far I would say that Korean people are very friendly and I highly recommend if you haven't been here yet you should definitely come it's just a great place from what I've seen and I haven't really traveled at all yet I'm looking forward to doing that but yeah in the city people are really nice and as you probably know the women are very beautiful they have long legs bright white skin and he's really amazing Asian eyes which I like a lot and from what I've tried from the food so far the food is good but I haven't tried actual Korean foods I think I did try more it was more Chinese but yeah there's just so many reasons to come to South Korea it's not just about the K-pop there's so much more than that but I've seen that actually yes you can have a tour where you go to the studios and you can actually see the celebrities in real life as they're going into the studio maybe even black pink BTS so maybe I'll head down there but yeah I mean I'm just having a great time seeing new places meeting new people and the different cultures the food honestly I just have to thank God I have to thank God for everything I have and all of you as well couldn't have done it without your support changed my life and I am eternally thankful for that and I think that's another reason why I wake up every day so early in the morning and I jump on to my laptop to make these videos put these messages out there because I know I just have to repay God's and repay all of you I have to do that and I wish you all blessings in your life as well whatever you're going through right now I hope that things will get better for you just as things gradually got better for me so yeah thank you all for watching another nark survivor lie video thank you all for your support I hope the message helped you if it did please share it and give the video a thumbs up as well you all have a great day