 5 reasons why the narcissist can't stand you. Every relationship has problems sometimes. We all have arguments and disagreements but narcissists take it a step too far. They cross the line of what is acceptable. They end up becoming your enemy and they do whatever they possibly can to hurt you because they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy and they enjoy seeing you suffer because there are a number of reasons why they can't stand you. 1. You're more successful. You may have gotten a promotion at work or maybe your business is doing well but the narcissist will not congratulate you because they hate your success. They're threatened by it. They feel like you're taking the spotlight away from them so they will try to make you feel inferior by criticizing your success because they're very insecure. 2. You expose them. If you have exposed the narcissist they will feel insecure so they will try to regain their control and they will do that by putting you down because it makes them feel better about themselves and they want to win back their approval and admiration. 3. You realise you don't need them. The narcissist needs you to need them. They can't let you be happy without them because seeing that makes them feel unimportant which will make them turn against you but this is how you reverse the effects of their silent treatment or ghosting because they want you to feel down without them. It gives them supply but when you're happy without them they feel irrelevant. They're jealous. They can't stand you because they're jealous and you will know when they're jealous because they will try to make you jealous of them and they will do that because they're very insecure and they're trying to get your attention. 5. You said no. The narcissist wants you to do what they desire despite how it may affect you so if you say no to a narcissist they will get mad and they will begin to see you as their enemy. Thank you for watching. If you found this video helpful please give it a thumbs up. Share your thoughts in the comment section. Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications. If you would like to support the channel you can donate at paypal.me slash Narc Surviver. You can book a one-on-one with me on my website it's narcsurviver.co.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.