 Stop opening other people's mail If it wasn't said to you it wasn't meant for you has become a mantra of my life That I'll so help me to age well mentally and emotionally because I don't care What John said to someone about me if John didn't say it to me It's not for me and for me to open that mail by getting involved with what John said Via the person he told that to is like opening mail that wasn't meant for you and when you open that mail It may be awful It may be something terrible someone said who wouldn't dare say it to your face But you heard it anyway by opening mail that was addressed to someone else And it wasn't said to you so it's not for your house not your address