 All right question. I'm long-distance dating. It's costly and we're meeting for the third time soon I'm ready for sex, but I'm afraid of asking commitment too soon. What's one question. I should ask for I Would simply ask what does what? Well, I would come back to the same question. Are we going to is this are we looking to explore a Fully committed relationship. What does that look like? What does commitment look like and what would be the plan for changing this now? Is that would that scare him away? If somebody is afraid to talk about this, don't let his penis get inside your vagina folks If you can't listen, it's funny how we're afraid to talk about real things But yet we get to do this all the day, which is the most intimate thing you can do to another person is to have sex