 What's going on you guys, welcome to the Single Guy channel. I have a very interesting, this might be intriguing, subject today and that's why women love psychopaths. So I know I said this in the title, women don't love psychopaths, they actually try to avoid them actively. But a lot of insecure, sometimes troubled women do, they end up falling for them. Okay, the perfect example of this is like guys like Jeffrey Dahmer and Ted Bundy, very frequently you'll find prison inmates getting love letters from women who start fantasizing about them. Ted Bundy received dozens, maybe even hundreds of love letters from women. He was a national figure that people find out about. Women always tend to have a very intriguing and sometimes disturbing relationship with like fucked up shit that happens for lack of a better term and you see this all the time. Now the average woman is usually intrigued by it but doesn't really, is actively looking to avoid people like that. Okay, but I'm going to describe why women find it intriguing and also why some women find those very reprehensible and despicable human beings appealing. Okay, so we're going to get into some dark stuff today but hopefully by the end of this you will not be so suspicious of women and you'll end up seeing kind of why they do the things and you know be able to spot women that you know might be falling into that category. Okay, because men do a lot of bad things and then there are a lot of women that go after these guys that do a lot of bad things unfortunately as is with everything. So we'll get into the video right now. Okay, so let's talk about why women love psychopaths. Psychopathy as defined by Wikipedia so it's probably accurate. Sometimes considered synonymous with sociopathy is traditionally a personality disorder characterized by persistent antisocial behavior, impaired empathy and remorse and bold disinhibited and egotistical traits. So a couple key words there antisocial lack of empathy and disinhibited egotistical traits. These are serial killers, these are rapists, these are people that in society we have decided that they do not belong because they harm people and rightfully so. They should not be a part of an acceptable society that we live in. We cannot have people like that in there. But why are some women drawn to these types of people? Well psychopathic behavior is very very common among men. You don't see it as much in women. It does happen but it's a lot less. Serial killers are usually almost always men. There have been some women serial killers but not quite as many. Men when it comes to the masculine. The masculine a lot of people like to especially in today's day and age they like to hijack the term masculinity and define it whatever they want but masculinity is neither good or bad. There are very masculine men that do horrible things and there are very masculine men that do amazing things. Masculinity is not good or bad but what it is is it is an ability to do things that maybe aren't necessarily part of the traditional grain of society. A very masculine man isn't afraid to stick out of the norms and so just by that alone like a lot of the bad boys you see in high school who like don't who show up late to class smoke weed or maybe smoking weed is not being a bad boy anymore maybe that's just being normal in high school but you know what I mean. They tend to fantasize about these guys and when young girls look at them and they're riding a motorcycle or whatever like they're doing some bad boy stuff like they're into that because it's a very very masculine trait. Now as women get older they learn that these bad boys aren't necessarily like good to get with and so they don't get with them anymore but even farther down than that you find women that are even more troubled or disturbed or they don't have a good they don't have they have no father figure within them. They tend to gravitate towards these like very aggressive kinds of men and it's because it's hitting them at a biological point and because they have these unsatisfied needs they look for they're looking for them in the wrong area. It's like if you're starving and somebody's dangling the recess in front of you you know recess isn't the best thing for you to eat but you're going to eat it even though it's bad for your health okay even though it's going to harm you even though it's going to do all those things because you have such an insatiable need for something and the most obvious thing in front of you is is dangling in front of you you're probably going to take it okay. Now I hopefully I wish I could think of a more aggressive or worse example than a recess piece for the first psychopath but I could so that's the general idea behind it is that it's very very hardcore like masculine traits that women are going for to a ridiculous extent okay. Now there's also the side that women see that's you know not very anti-social they can't fit in this is actually unattractive for most women okay but if they don't understand social cues too if they don't understand societal things then it's not a detriment for them they see it as fine or maybe oh he's anti-social too like maybe he's like me that's kind of what they go for so women will get suckered in to a lot of these kinds of guys like Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer, Charles Manson was another one a lot of the women who joined his cult were of this category you know they were very anti-social they didn't understand social cues and they were very very troubled they were women who you know didn't grow up in very good environments yes they came from households a lot of times they were like middle-class households but they were basically neglected like they didn't have parents in the picture at all so they have this insatiable need to find someone who will lead them and the only person that they could follow or go for was a very anti-social person who fit outside of the grain. Now I am not saying that to get these kinds of women you need to be this kind of guy and by the way you don't want to get these kinds of women but is there anything that we can learn from psychopaths without necessarily being a psychopath hopefully hopefully for the love of god I hope nobody watches this video and thinks being a psychopath is the way to go because it's not like I said there's a lot of bad traits that psychopaths have that women are not into okay almost always when the women find out that they actually murdered people they're not into it okay what we can learn from psychopaths is that we can learn that going against the grain of society is sometimes okay okay it's okay to do it in certain in in in in measures it's okay to do it's okay to be yourself you don't always have to fit in you can't embody those bad boy traits without necessarily being a bad boy by going for what you want to do and who you are if you're also a kind social and caring person but you're not all you're not afraid to go against the grain of society that is the most attractive guy that you can be that guy beats the psychopath any day of the freaking week okay and for some of you guys what I invite you to do is also don't be afraid to be disliked by some people you know for a lot of my students I find that they're so they're so afraid to upset other people that they don't do the things that they want to do a psychopath has no problem with that all right too much so but I would like some people who are watching this video maybe and you know who you are if you're walking through life and you're feeling scared constantly about upsetting others you have a lot of permission seeking behaviors what you need to do is you need to not like I would invite you to to actively go out there and express yourself and be okay with people not always liking you because if you try and be liked by everybody you're gonna be you're not gonna be loved by anybody okay no one's gonna really go for you you're not gonna be desired so women recognize this and although the troubled women go for the psychopath a healthy smart intelligent beautiful woman is going to go for a guy who is like what I described not the psychopath but someone who is also like able to go against the grand society and is someone who goes on their own path and is not always looking to other people to try and be a certain way okay so don't be a psychopath psychopaths are terrible but take some of the going against the grandest society and doing your own thing and I think you can add it to your game I think you can add it to your life and it's going to make your dating life a whole lot better cool well thanks for watching you guys hopefully you learned a little bit from this hopefully you've learned why women you know wrote all those love letters to those crazy guys and why they're obsessed with those kinds of characters you know there is a sexual component to it but it's something that you can all have and not be as dislikeable and reprehensible as those people that we just mentioned so thanks for watching