 You should just be trying to model yourself after Jesus and what did Jesus do? He literally loved and accepted and hung out with every single person. Literally every single person down to the person who was being crucified right next to him who was an awful sinner in the world's eyes. He even told him, hey, you're going to be in heaven with me. Was Jesus about love and acceptance? Absolutely. God demonstrated his own love for us that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. He welcomed us into his family despite our sin, rebellion, and flaws. Through his grace we are totally accepted. However, it's important not to minimize other aspects of God's character. Jesus was about love and acceptance, but he was also about repentance and truth. Jesus never approved of every behavior. In fact, he called out people that were living contrary to his commands. He called the Pharisees to repentance for their pride. The woman caught in adultery was shown Jesus grace, but she was also called into repentance when he said, go and sin no more. Jesus love isn't just warm and fuzzy. It is grounded in truth. When we try to minimize aspects of God's character to make him seem more appealing, we're actually creating an idol. I want to encourage you to embrace all of the attributes of God, his holiness, his wrath, his love, his acceptance, his grace. He is amazing. Follow for more Christ-centered content.