 As I got older, college, being on TV, I started to take it personal and that's when it became toxic. And you can Google to see the toxic comparisons out there. At that moment, that's when I asked my mother, how do I deal with this? She dealt with it, but in a different way. She saw it. She saw how it affected us. She gave me one of the greatest advice I could have ever heard. Comparison is the thief of joy. Even though I'm a twin, God made each of us different. We may have the same DNA, but we have different gifts.