 So what if you're exclusive and then suddenly he needs a break? This is happening to me. It's been a few days since I've heard from him. Yeah. I mean a few days isn't really The biggest thing in the world, right? Like I'll get these women that are like, oh, yeah This guy ghosted on me for like four days and it's like Okay, you know, is that really ghosting, you know normal kind of relationships They don't most people don't need to be kind of connected to each other Like every minute of every day, right? And some people that like actually I was just Talking to this men's dating coach not too long ago and we're talking about kind of like Texting and calling practices that men have and what he's teaching and one of the things that he was talking about was He actually especially for the initial parts of a relationship. He doesn't have met he tells men not to text more than Like once a week, so he tells his guys don't reach out to a woman more than once a week and initiate a conversation which You know, I don't particularly agree with however It goes to show you that there's a lot of stuff out there where people are like, okay Well, this is a normal conversation and she wants to talk more She'll contact you for if she wants to have more of a conversation with you then You know something that's once a week and so it's one of those things like I wouldn't worry so much if it's only been a few days Since a guy started talking to you then, you know, just give him some time, right? Like give it just let him kind of back off. Let him kind of go and do his thing You know if you really feel like you need to contact them and reach out to them It's not like leaning back We were just talking actually in our community about leaning back and leaning back doesn't mean that you can't Like reach out and connect with a guy. You can't like contact him What it does mean is that he needs to be putting an effort and energy when you are Connecting with him if he wants to connect with you and so if if a guy hasn't I mean if it's just been a couple days I wouldn't even worry about it, you know That's another one of the things that I was talking about with with the whole scarcity thing, right? Have other things that are going on in your life. So it's not you're not just so focused on this guy like oh my god It's been two three days since he's contacted me. Oh my god. I'm freaking out right now It's like you should have other things going on in your life You should be meeting other people you should be going out and doing and having other interests so that it's not like You're so stuck on whether this guy has contacted you In the last couple of days or not and so that you can you know, it's not a problem You're not freaking out. And so, you know, I get it. I get it when you freak out and You know, it's been like that, but you need to like have a bigger life have a bigger life than just him That way it kind of sucks all that out and it's like, oh, yeah, he hasn't contacted me in a couple of days Wow, that's weird. I Wonder if everything's okay instead of like, oh my god He hasn't contacted me in a couple days and I'm freaking out right now And and I need to fight, you know, like does he not love me? You know, like all those things that start going through your head if you've got an amazing Life and all these kinds of things that are going on for you Then it's you're not gonna be freaking out if a guy takes a couple days And has to go and sit in his man cave or his cocoon or whatever it is that you want to call it