 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والصلاة والسلام وعلى أشرف المرسلين سيدنا ونبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم يا ربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم افتح علينا فتوح العارفين اللهم علمنا ما ينفعون ونفعون بما علمتنا يا رحمة الرحمن يا رب العالمين هند بنتو عطبه رضي الله عنها هند بنتو عطبه هند بنتو عطبه رضي الله عنها هند بنتو عطبه رضي الله عنها هند بنتو عطبه رضي الله عنها هند بنتو عطبه رضي الله عنها هند بنتو عطبه رضي الله عنها فالتالي في سيديها was with her second husband, أبو سفيان، the leader of the non-believers in Mecca. وفي سيديها الثالثة في حيثها أقصتها في حيثها when she embraced Islam. وعندما سيديها إسلام، سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم. والآن كانت أمي of the first caliph of Muslims after the four Rashidi caliphs to be of the Umayyad leaders. والآن كانت أمي of the first caliph leader after the Rashidi leaders after the Rashidi caliphs who were سيدنا أبو بكر سيدنا عمر سيدنا أثمان and سيدنا علي. لنتحدث عن الأمام من حياتها. أولاً كانت أنها كانت أمي of the first caliph of the first caliph of the first caliph of the مغيره وحده أنه دخلت أنه لم يكن أصدقائه. وكان ذلك when he came back to his home and his home was a place where anyone can come in, anyone can come in without permission. They were so generous, so they were very good hosts. وكان ذلك one day when she was in her house in this house she sat down to get some rest and her husband Fecke went out for some stuff to do some stuff and was very tired so she slept. And some people arrived at the house just to come in as usual, no permission needed. And when they saw her sleeping they went back. The last one of them was someone who came out but when he came out Fecke her husband was coming and he saw this man going out. So he got into the house, he found him in the deep sleep and he kicked her and he asked her about that man who went out from the house. And she said I didn't see anyone, I didn't pay attention, I was sleeping, how would I see him. So her husband got so mad and he asked her to leave to her mom's home. There were a lot of rumors about her and her father at that time decided to go to a fortune teller and to tell them what happened. And so he would give him the truth. And when that fortune teller was sitting with one of the ladies, he came to her and said come get up, you are not a bad person and you will give birth to a king and his name would be Muawiyah. So when her husband heard that he apologized and he wanted her to forgive him but of course he asked her to come back to his home but she said very proudly she said no I will never have that child from you. You don't deserve to be the father of the king. And she divorced him, she looked at her father and she said I am a free woman, if someone wants to propose you tell me before you give your word. She was very strong and he said to her I accept. So many suitors come to propose from everywhere, they came to propose to hint, they knew how eloquent she was, how beautiful, how honorable so they wanted to get married to her. Until Abu Sufyan proposed and she accepted him as per the description that her father has given her and she accepted him as her husband and she moved to his house to start a political life. He was the leader of Makkah, the leader of the non-believers. So this was the first and the second stage of her life. All her life she was always known and she always kept very hostile, she was very hostile for Muslims from the very first days of Islam. And that hostility doubled after the battle of Badr. Do you know why? Because in the battle of Badr, her father عطب ابن ربيع, her uncle شيبة and her son حنزلة and her brother الوليد were all killed in that battle. So such are the dearest relatives to her who were all chiefs in Quraish. And this matter actually left her heart full of hatred. And the ranker continued from the day of Badr until the day of opening Makkah. So what happened later? In Uhad, Hind went out with the army of Quraish, promoting them. She was doing her utmost to eradicate Muslims. And when her army fled away from Muslims at the beginning of the battle, she began pouring dust up on them, promoting them to continue fighting. She wanted them to fight, she didn't want them to run away. So on that day, she did not flee like the men did. And at the end of the battle, when the non-believers won Muslims, Hind committed a very disgusting act. And you all know that. She began maiming the crops of Muslims one by one. She was cutting ears, she was cutting noses. And when she approached Hamza Ibn Abdul-Muttalib, she, what did she do? And we all know that her servant Wahshi killed Sayyidina Hamza ر. So what did she do? Upon seeing his body, she split open his interiors. She pulled out his liver. And out of hatred, she chewed it, but she spit it out as it tasted unpleasant to her. Of course, she was a non-believer. And her liver of the amazing Hamza رضي الله وعن would not be in her body. So this attitude of Hind affected the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم too much and left him distressed. And in this respect, Abu Huraira رضي الله وعن narrated that the Prophet stood at Hamza's body upon seeing his body. And Abu Huraira said, we noticed the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم, he was too depressed that we never saw him like this before. And the Prophet said, may Allah be merciful with you, my uncle. Indeed, you were maintainer to the ties of kinship and always doing the good. Hamza رضي الله وعن was amazing support to Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. So now imagine how angry the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم was with Hind. So this was her, she did during Guhad. Another incident about Hind was when she went out with the non-believers, and she continued confronting Islam shortly before the opening of Makkah. Even she refused her husband's attitude when he asked the people of Makkah to enter their homes seeking the protection from Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. She asked them to kill him. And it's very bad the history of Hind with Muslims. She was a very bad person to Muslims. And she would always encourage the chiefs of Makkah to be bad to the Muslims. So after this long course of confrontation of the Islamic call, the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم, what happened? He opened Makkah. And thus the people came from everywhere accepting Islam. So Hind has been taught about what happened to her. Allah سبحانه وتعالى would want to guide her. So why she came to Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. And there were some women also who wanted to become Muslims. So she was completely veiled and not identified wishing, she didn't identify herself. She wanted to be a Muslim. So the rules and the homage of women was to abstain when they weren't becoming of course Muslims. And it was to abstain from polytheism, theft, fornication, killing their children, not uttering slander. And also intentionally forging falsehood. That was not acceptable. That was something forbidden. And as I said intentionally forging falsehood. And that would happen by making illegal children belonging to their husbands. So that was forbidden. And also what was forbidden also was disobeying the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم in what's right. So disobeying Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. Anyone contemplating on the incidence of hint she did her hostility to the Muslims. So anyone contemplating on that would clearly be convinced that she's coming only seeking protection from being killed. Everybody knew how bad she was to Muslim, how the worst hostility she had to Muslims. So anyone would think that she is coming not to become a true Muslim, but to protect herself from being killed. However, what wasn't expected, the attitude of Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. So what was the attitude? Now women started to plead Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. And that was conducted as follows. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said تبا يعبني على أن لا تشركنا بالله شيء. A woman let you not to ascribe partners with Allah. And hint completely veiled. And the Prophet had not identified her that time still. So she said والله إنك لا تأخذوا علينا أمرا لا تأخذوا على الرجال. By Allah, you ask women for things different from men. And hint by this when she said that she meant that the blood of men was abridged by the blood of women is detailed. So the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم went on did not comment. And he said ولا تسرطن. And do not steal. Here. Hint. Student. And she said يا رسول الله إن أبا سفيان رجل ميسيك فهل علي من حرج أن أصيب من طعامه من غير إذنك. All messenger of Allah, my husband is very stingy man. He does not supply me and his children the sufficient provision. So am I sinful if I took from his wealth sufficient provision informing him and I do not tell him. Would I be sinful? What happened? At that moment say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم Said to her Is that you hint being taught about And she replied yes, it's me hint. Forgive me. Forgive me يا رسول الله. So the Prophet gave her permission to take only the sufficient provision of dates. Imagine the sufficient provision of dates for her and her children without telling her husband. So imagine this crucial moment in the life of Hint. What's your opinion? What is the Prophet going to act? How is he going to act? What's he going to do? And bearing in mind who Hint was towards Muslim And her mutilation of his uncle. So what do you think he's going to do? When she said يا رسول الله. Forgive me. So the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم Forgive her and gave her No word reflecting his sadness But rather he simply accepted her Islam. So Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم Continued and he said So women do not commit fornication And Hint stopped here and she continued wondering Oh Messenger of Allah, does the good woman of honor commit fornication? Again. Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم Continued without commenting And do not kill your children Now here look at what Hint did. Hint once again interrupted Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم And said يا رسول الله قد ربيناهم صغارا وقتلتهم يوم ذدر كبارا Oh Messenger of Allah We raised them when children And you killed them when adults You killed them in a better Have you left behind any man of ours Say be killed by you You have killed their fathers on the day of better And instructing us now concerning their children right now So what do you think happened The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم Did not become angry with Hint Neither did he say Why we killed them on the day of better Have not we have not the They were not the Your father, your son, your brother, your uncle Confronted us on the day or night during They wanted us to turn away from Islam Haven't they persecuted and tortured Muslims Haven't they done so and so Oh Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم Did not do that He did not say He did not become angry with Hint And the Prophet Did not say anything And his reaction was astonishing He smiled He just smiled And he commented with the words He did not give any words So the Prophet acted simply And how difficult Islam is for her Who she was And how she is How she is leaving everything behind Then the Prophet continued