 When the narcissist doesn't want to see you anymore, this is something that People call the discard phase, which is when the narcissist just Disappears and doesn't come back They cut contact with you They don't want to see you anymore They don't want to talk to you and Just makes you wonder why makes you wonder What you did wrong because many times you haven't really done anything wrong You're just catching on to them You're starting to figure them out And they don't like that so that's really the main reason Why they don't want to see you anymore, but sometimes they will make personal attacks They'll make you feel like there's something wrong with you You're not good enough for them And that's why they don't want to see you But you've got to think that they stayed with you this long This is what has changed in that time is it because You're tired of dealing with them You're under a lot of stress You're depressed Because you've lost a lot of money in dealing with them because these are things that If they were a normal Healthy person they would stick by you doing this difficult time They wouldn't jump ship They wouldn't throw you under the bus They wouldn't leave you there to die. So this is how you know that whatever they're saying in It's just a load of BS They will give you personal attacks insults They'll try to make you feel small, but don't personalize it It really has nothing to do with you They do this to everyone They did it before they met you And they will do it again to someone else. I'm just here in the gym doing some weights So yeah, I don't think that's personal They don't want to see you anymore. I mean, of course I completely understand Every in there myself I Know what it's like when someone just goes to you They just walk away They leave you without any explanation Well, they make you feel like something is wrong with you You're not good enough Of course, I know what it's like to go through that Understand but try not to take it personal because Despite what they're saying it really has nothing to do with you Even if there was a perfect person walking the earth The narcissist would still find something wrong with them because it's no analysis problem to fix Something wrong with them They can't be happy They can't be satisfied and they're always looking for the bigger better deal They're always looking for the next shiny new toy But they're never happy but of course if you go on their social media You will see the orchestration They're very good at portraying the same edge that they've moved on And they're so happy without you, but it's not real and I'm not just saying this to make you feel better It's the truth I'm sure you will remember that when you first met them They were saying to you about How their ex is crazy And they did all of these things to them And then they got with you and then They were acting like they were so happy and things were so much better with you You didn't do the things that their exes did And then they took all of these pictures with you And maybe put the pictures on social media And then their ex saw it and their ex got angry It's just the same thing again. It's an endless cycle It never changes It's just now You're seeing it from a different point of view so it might look different It might be more Effective on you, but you have to remember that this is just Another part of the cycle Another part of the cycle of abuse And their ex may have gone through that already And you may have believed the narcissist that may have looked like their ex was bad or crazy And Maybe they weren't perfect, maybe they did make mistakes Maybe their ex was a narcissist too It's possible, but don't worry too much about that Just remember How you were portrayed to their ex They didn't want to see them anymore And They started this new fantasy This new orchestration with you and now they've got bored of you and they're just doing the same thing With with someone else That's all that is so don't take it personal Don't think too much about it Don't let it bring you down Please let me know your thoughts on this Show your experiences in the chat And I will respond to them Leo knows Oliver Says I wish I could apologize to his ex-girlfriend Because he did her so bad and I was a new supply Within a week he was treating me worse than her I got it really really bad Yep, that's it It's divide and conquer The narcissist Turns everyone against each other And sometimes this person Who you think is your enemy Your opponent Because the narcissist pitted you against them So that they could control The both of you Sometimes that person Was in the same boat as you In the same boat that you're in now But at the time you couldn't see it Because you didn't go through what they went through You didn't experience Abandonment But once you finally go through that That's when you begin to understand Alicia Field says so true My ex told me I was crazy and stuff I'm happy I'm cutting him off today Yeah, that's what they always do at the end It's the same thing every time They always blame their victim You're always bad or crazy You did something to them Something is wrong with you It's the same story every time So yeah, please don't take it personal When the narcissist doesn't want to see you anymore It has nothing to do with you They do it to everyone And most often it's because you started to catch on You started to figure them out And actually You should see it as a blessing It's a good thing that they don't want to see you anymore That's much better Than you having to leave them You having to discard them Because trust me If you have to be in the possession where you have to do that They're not going to take it lightly They will hunt you down They will make your life hell Honestly the best thing that you could wish for When you are dealing with a narcissist Is that they get bored of you Is that they no longer want to deal with you And that they discard you And they just find a new supply and forget about you You may not see it right now But I'm speaking from my own experience here And what I've seen in other victim situations It's really the best thing that you could wish for Is when the narcissist What's nothing to do with you anymore 100 live viewers in here Please give this video a thumbs up Let's get this important message out there So it can help other people as well I'm just going to finish my work out here in the gym Again thank you all for joining me On another Narc Saviva live video And I look forward to talking with you in another one Very soon