 When you're not there The narcissist does this When you're not there The narcissist is a very different person It's like they have another personality, but it's all fake They are insincere and Deceitful They're not expressing their genuine feelings They are deceiving people They're giving them the wrong impression They're hiding who they really are They're hiding what they're really about They're fake people They're not real or genuine to you or anyone else They're just putting on an act They're pretending to have an emotion, illness or injury To gain attention from other people The narcissist will give people Whatever they think they want to see They will display this selfless, kind, caring character Who is more concerned with the needs and wishes of other people than with their own Which is intended to manipulate people into doing what they want They will pretend like they care They will pretend to be respectful They will pretend to have values and morals Which is why other people may see them as someone who is caring and respectful Someone who has their best interest in mind Because they accept their false character as being real and genuine Which is why other people listen to what the narcissist is saying They accept the narcissist's actions Because they believe that the narcissist is who they say they are but what they don't realize Is that the narcissist has been studying them They have studied other people's likes and dislikes So they already know what they want to see And they display that to them So these other people are being tricked and deceived They're being fooled Because they don't know the narcissist's true nature They don't get to see what you see Because they don't spend a lot of time around the narcissist So they don't know that there is another side to the narcissist That is opposite in nature Because the narcissist hides that from other people They don't reveal that they have anger issues or drug addictions They trick people into thinking that the false character is who they really are Rather than someone who acts foolishly and recklessly And doesn't think about the consequences of their actions When you're not there The narcissist is out being someone else Being whatever they think other people want to see They're indulging in their many addictions They're addicted to people They're addicted to sex They're addicted to alcohol and drugs They're always engaged in some form of escapism They're not happy with themselves So they're trying to escape from reality And they don't care about what is right or wrong They will do anything to feel better about themselves The character they displayed to you in the beginning Was not real or genuine They don't have any values or morals They don't really care about you That was just to keep you around So they could keep extracting fuel from you You may think that you know them You may think that you know what they're capable of But there's really no way to know Narcissists are pathological liars They are hiding a lot of things from you that you don't know about What you think you may know about the narcissist is only the tip of the iceberg There are a lot of things that you may never know Because they only show you what they want you to see Which means that you never really knew the narcissist When you're not there You may never know what the narcissist is really doing But you can be sure that they are up to no good They're doing something that could be potentially harmful to you And that is why they do it when you're not there But they're not really concerned about you They have no consideration for you even when they're with you So why would they think about you when you're not there? Why would they consider the consequences of their actions? It wouldn't make any sense for them to do that If they're not even concerned about your emotions while they're with you So when you're not there You can be sure that they're not concerned about you They're not thinking about how their actions might affect you All they're concerned with is indulging in their addictions And doing whatever they think will get them what they want Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching Inquiries You can email me at coaching.narc-survivor.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon