 Hello you guys, welcome to another video. I'm gonna be showing you guys, telling you guys how to not give a shit about what anybody thinks about you, the art of not giving a shit, because it is an art. I wanna teach you guys that you do not need to give a shit about what other people think. You do not need to let other people hold you back from doing whatever you want to do, because others' opinions do not matter. The only thing that matters is that you're happy and you're doing what makes you happy. This is like such a fiery topic, like I could enrage for hours about this kind of subject, because I struggled a lot with letting other people's opinions affect my actions, the way I addressed my life, literally everything. I used to be like that and I used to take everything so personal and I would be just so offended over everything. It would literally affect the way that I live my life every single day and now that I look back on that, it's kinda sad and I wish I realized sooner, I wish I can go and tell my younger self, like look, you do not need to listen to anybody. I wish I can do that, but now that I do have the knowledge, I just want to share this and talk about it with you guys, so yeah. If you guys are in high school, which I know that personally I struggled with letting other people's opinions affect me, especially during high school, I don't even think I made an opinion for myself in high school because I just went with what everyone, like I was not a leader in high school, I was a follower. Looking back at high school, everybody cared about their status, everyone cared about popularity, other people thought of them, were afraid to express themselves because of what other people think. Looking back on it, it's so sad because high school can be such a toxic culture because of the way that everybody is separated into groups. At least when I was in high school, that's how it was. It was the popular kids and then there was like the loners. That is just horrible. Literally those things would be judged based on people's appearances, based on how they dress, based on their social skills and it's so freaking sad looking back on that now. If you guys are watching this and you're in high school, listen up please, this is what I've learned. For example, when I was in high school, I really wanted to start this YouTube channel. I remember putting out one video, I don't know how, but this girl in my grade found it. I don't know how she found it. It was literally the day after I posted it and she confronted me about it at school. Me and this girl hardly really talk so I got so embarrassed. I didn't really say anything in the moment because I was just so caught off guard and embarrassed that she found the video. I went home right away and deleted it. That feeling of feeling so ashamed because of what she thought. She was not making fun of it to my face because she was like, oh, like I signed your video type of thing. So it made me like literally shrivel up into a ball and I did not want to go to school for the next few days because I don't know who she told. I literally cried about it. That's how bad it was. That's how much I cared about what other people thought. I'm here to tell you guys that nothing in high school matters. The popularity does not matter. Popular kids and the loner kids, there's no difference between them. We're all human beings on a life experience. Like there is no difference between the popular people and the not popular people. The only thing is the societal high school status that we have made up and divided ourselves into these groups, but it's not actually real. People are going to talk behind your back no matter what. If you're trying to please everybody, you're still going to get talked behind your back about like someone is still going to not like you. Someone is still going to make fun of you. That is inevitable. People are still going to find something to gossip about you. I just found personally high school with such a toxic place and I just want to say do not give a shit. This is what I would tell my younger self. None of this shit matters. The people who are in the positions of power and popularity in high school, once you graduate that school, none of that power comes with you. None of it comes with you. Once you go into college, you have a fresh start. I went to college for one year and I didn't really stay like on campus or anything. It was just like a local college, but from my experience, there was no, there's no popular people in college. Everybody is just chilling. So once you graduate high school, no one fricking cares if you were the popular kid. No one literally cares. It does not matter. Do what you want to do because it's funny how in high school, people want to fit in, but once you graduate, people want to stand out. In high school, everything is just about fitting in, doing what everyone else is doing. Be a leader, not a follower. We are living in a floating earth, like a floating earth, you guys. Like we are in space. Like think of the universe and how far it expands. Like the universe is for what we know right now. It goes on for forever. And we are fortunate enough to live in a planet within the universe. So why would you care about a few humans not liking you or making fun of you? You have to know that no matter what they say about you, that all comes from their own insecurities. Them being potentially jealous of you. Them maybe even wanting to be or be as bold and courageous as you. When I look at someone who does their own thing and does not give a shit about what other people think, I look up to them and I'm like, wow, that is amazing. These bullies that you may see in your everyday life or high school might look at that and make fun of you for doing that because they're jealous that they can't do that themselves. You can never lose with being yourself. Confidence is key, you guys. When you walk into a room, your vibrations, your aura just speaks for itself. If you walk in a room with your head up high, minding your own business, not caring if other people are staring, looking at you, that speaks for itself. Like when I see someone confidently walking down the street, confidently walking in a room, I'm like, look at them and I almost feel like lower than them. Like because they're vibrating so high and I'm like, damn, wow. Just because of their aura that they portray when they're so confident like that. You might be asking like, how do I get there? How do I be confident? How do I not care about what other people think? You have one life, okay? Whether you believe in past lives or not, right now we're living on this earth and for all we know, it could be our last time, it could be our one life. So let's just say we have this one life. If you base your life off of what other people think and other people's opinions of you, if you base your whole entire life around that and you conform yourself to what other people want you to be and to what other people think about you, if you conform yourself to that, you are not living your own life. You're not living it. You're living your life based on how other people want you to live it, not what you want to do. Like wouldn't you wanna give your one life, be the best version of yourself, not give a shit about what other people think? Because who cares? Who cares what other people think? It's in their heads. It's literally in their heads. Anyone could think anything at any different time. It's literally impossible to please everyone. So who cares? Who literally cares? Just think about that. You have this one life. You have this one body. Be confident within it. Learn to love yourself and be fricking bold. Own your own decisions. Own what makes you happy. Okay, so this might sound weird, but for example, when you think of a time, let's say you went to the beach with your friends, you watched an amazing sunset and then a month or even a year later or a few days later, you are thinking back to that time or you saw a picture from that time and you think to yourself, like, oh my God, I wish I can go back there because that was such a fun time. Like I wanna relive that. One day, you're going to be looking back at your whole entire life. Like it was that one memory. You're going to be looking back at your life and you're gonna miss it. We're all going to die one day. So it's like when you're looking back at your life as like a memory, what are you gonna want to remember? Are you gonna want to remember being a follower, caring about what other people's opinions are? Or are you gonna want to remember being that leader, being bold, loving yourself, being confident, not caring about what other people think because who fricking cares in the end? We're all gonna end up dead, literally dead. At the end of the day, whatever makes you happy is all that matters. No one's opinion should matter. You have the advantage. See, the thing is that once you start doing what you want to do, once you start getting on a flow and a grind within yourself, once you start working on yourself and blocking out all those negative thoughts about people, negatives, opinions and you just work on yourself and become the best version of yourself. People are literally gonna start to get jealous of you and they're gonna envy you because of that. Some people don't realize that everybody has an equal chance. You right now watching have an equal chance at becoming your best self than me or anybody else on this earth. Everyone here has an equal chance of becoming their best self. Everyone has a chance of completely blocking out other people's opinions and what they think. You can do it. Nothing differentiates you from me or you from another person that hinders you from doing that. So I'm making excuses like, oh, I can never get to that point in my life because you can, you can. It's baby steps. You can work towards it every single day by doing something small. Honestly, I find that to find your own confidence and to stop caring about what other people think about you, you have to start that journey from within. You can get a new haircut or you can't put makeup on. Yes, that does maybe boost confidence but it has to come from within first. You need to work on yourself. You gotta love yourself as cheesy as it sounds. You have to love yourself because if you don't love yourself enough to be confident, then you're always gonna be caring about what other people think and then it's gonna be that endless cycle. So it has to start from within. You have to work on yourself. You have to start doing what makes you happy and block out all of those people's opinions on what they want you to do or what you think they're gonna think of you for doing that. And you just got to hyper focus on yourself for a bit and just think, okay, what can I do to better myself? What can I do to make myself happy? And everything will come into flow. You will slowly start noticing that difference from within and it's gonna glow. Like it's gonna glow from within out. I promise you. Also, you have to realize that everybody has a different life experience. No one has the same exact life. Like no one has gone through the same things in life. Like it's impossible. Everyone has slightly different experiences in life or very large different experiences in life. What one person might think is crazy for you to do based on their life experiences might be completely normal for you because of your own life experiences. So if someone thinks that you're crazy for doing something that doesn't seem crazy to you, then you just got to realize that everyone is in a different phase of their lives. And even though they're maybe judging you for doing that, let them judge you. Once you rise up to the top, then they're gonna take a step back and be like, shit. You can either follow the trends or be a trend set or you guys confidence is attractive. It's so attractive. Just know that you're exactly where you're meant to be in your life right now. If you're looking up to someone that has your dream job and you're jealous of them and you think you can't have that, you're wrong because there's room for everything in this life. The energy is limitless. It's always expanding. The universe is always expanding. There is room for everything. There's room for so much growth in this world. There's room for so much growth in you. Once you realize that you can do that too, nothing is stopping you from doing that. It's just these mental roadblocks that we make up that are not real. It's literally all in your head. And once you rewire your thoughts and the way your perspective, you can realize that you can do it too. There's no point of giving a shit about what other people think about you. Why? Because there's no need in wasting your time. You literally have the power within yourself to form opinions within yourself. You know what makes you happy. So go and be freaking confident, okay? Confidence, like I said, is attractive. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, okay? That's like one of my favorite quotes. People are judging you for what you do and who cares about them. That's their fault. They're literally wasting their own energy judging you. We're talking behind your back and they're surrounding themselves with negativity. So that's on them. Leave them figure that shit out for themselves while you work on yourself and do what makes you happy, okay? I just want everyone to thrive together. People are gossiping about you. People are talking about you behind your back, especially in high school. I know how disgusting it is. You have to know that puts them down here and that puts you up here. You are higher than them. You are automatically higher than them. Honestly, if I get a negative comment or I know to this day, there's probably people from maybe my high school or wherever who make fun of my YouTube channel and who talk behind my back or whatever. And now when I think of that, I just think to myself, like, oh, okay, I literally feel bad for them. They're making fun of something that makes me happy, meaning that they either have to deal with their own insecurities or they're just jealous. So I literally just sit back and I'm like, well, I feel bad for them. Whereas in high school, I literally would take that to heart, go cry about it in my room, never let it go, never let myself down about it. Now I realized I can do whatever I want. I can do whatever I want and no one can stop me. And it is the best feeling of power to be unstoppable, you guys. I have realized I am unstoppable and you can become unstoppable as well. I promise you. You just gotta block out those what other people think about you. And seriously, this works. If you guys, if someone's talking behind your back, you're up here, they're down here. Know that one day they're gonna realize it and they just have to do some work on themselves and maybe self-reflection because there's obviously a deeper cause to why they're doing that. And I'm always sending my good vibes to even the people that make fun of me or that don't like me. I'm still sending them my good vibes because I know that they're only making fun of me or whatever because of the place in their life that they are in at the moment. Maybe it's not so great and maybe they need to do more self-reflection or whatever it may be. So I'm sending positive vibes to every hater out there. I'm sending positive vibes your way. There's a little kiss for you. And it's honestly like a, it's literally, it was literally a flick in my brain, like a, literally like a flick, like a switch in my brain. One day I just realized, why am I caring about what other people think? Why? I literally can't even go sit down and jot down on a piece of paper, even like one reason why it's beneficial to care about other people's opinions. Can't even think of one. But the benefits to not caring about what other people think, I can write infinite, infinite possibilities on that. So my best advice to you guys, be bold, be confident within with who you are, because you are you for the rest of your life. You are, you're literally you for the rest of your life. So why don't you be the best version of yourself? Why don't you be the most confident version of yourself? All right, you guys. So I hope you enjoyed this little video in my car. I thought that I would sit in my car just because I don't know a different change of scenery. And I honestly love when people do videos in their car. I don't know why. It's just kind of like a comfy cozy vibe. So I really hope you guys enjoyed this video. If you guys want me to talk on any other topics, leave them down below because I want to incorporate more sit-down videos on my channel, maybe a couple of times a month even. So let me know any other topics that you guys want me to talk about because I definitely want to do more of these types of videos if you guys like them. So let me know your feedback. And yeah, give this video a thumbs up if you liked it. And I will see you guys in my next one. I love you guys so much. You guys are boss ass bitches. And you can do whatever you say you're mine to, regardless of anyone's opinion. So love you guys so much. Peace out.