 Hey guys this is Mary again with the 21 Convention. We're here with Rebecca So this is one of our small times that we get to talk to a female coach and get her perspective She's with socialcoaching.com So a social coach not coaching don't add that you won't find their site And so I was just wondering how do other females react about you being a social coach How do you approach that when you're telling them? Yeah When I tell other women what I do the reactions often shock And then curiosity And then there seems to be a sort of split between women So there's a percentage that aren't that comfortable with the idea of guys learning these kinds of skills Usually because they think it's about manipulating women or I'm trying to get girls to do something they wouldn't otherwise. Yeah Or you know, they feel like you should guys should just know this stuff Intuitively and or you know, it should just happen like magic And but once once I get a chance to sort of explain that it's not about manipulating women and it's really about sort of skill sets and conversation skills and learning confidence They're pretty supportive. I mean they can't not be because we're essentially sort of increasing the Desirable men in the dating pools. Yes. You are you're taking guys who don't know what they want and showing them what they want And then they're more confident and we love a guy who's confident everybody does so then you teach Men along with male coaches. So how did the the clients find you as a female coach? How did they find that they treat you different or they're nervous at first and then they warm up? Yeah Kind of depends on the guy. It's quite interesting Some clients really respond well to female Feedback they'll only listen to me and the other female trainers and they won't listen to James And others just they sort of want advice from a man So they'll listen more to what he has to say and still keep an open mind and they'll Do what I tell them to do But um, yeah, it seems to have more of an impact when James James talks to them So sort of takes takes both types. I think okay That's fantastic And so what do you want our audience to know and to take away from this like a big thing that you see that you want? Everybody to know right now What do I want people to know right now? You mean in terms of I mean like is there something that somebody does that? They shouldn't be doing because there's something there's something that you know They can stop doing right now and that would be great. Okay. Um, yeah, I mean A bunch of stuff comes to mind No, a bunch of stuff comes to mind. I mean in In sort of Western cultures like English-speaking cultures Guys just don't don't seem to lead very much They're always looking to women to like throw them signals and all the women I speak to feel like they're just banging their heads against Or trying to get a guy to notice them or notice that they like them but guys don't Either they don't see it or they need further confirmation or something before they'll actually take the leap and Lead go up to woman and approach her lead a conversation ask her on a date all of those things They're just I think guys are a bit more passive like to see a bit more action So they get that from you when they do the coaching they understand how to how to get that more how to do that properly Yeah, absolutely. They're our clients work with our team of eight or and growing Female trainers. They're just wonderful and they get to walk through every step of an interaction with a woman from sort of first eye contact to how to approach her to How to build a conversation build rapport touch her socially then romantically sexually, you know How to ask her on a date they get to we sort of show them the steps that are involved in being that confident man who can lead Fantastic, and how are you finding the 21 convention? You've not been here before no first time. It's really wonderful really really great I'm really impressed with the level of the speakers and it's been really nice to see the Guys in the audience and their reactions and what they're taking away from it. I spoke to two guys at lunch who um Who I tried I tried to get them to single out like what's the one thing that they they're taking away from 21 and They just sort of said They've got a clearer idea a clearer vision of who they want to be as a man and how to get there So I just think that's great. Yeah, I think that's a great thing, too I love that about the 21 convention. So if people are seeing this and they're like, oh my gosh I love Rebecca. I have to have her train me. Where would they go to do that? They would go to social coach.com you can find out all about our female trainers myself and also James that had Mail coach and all the information there. That's fantastic. Bye guys from the 21 convention Melbourne. Bye