 So my favorite story of medical gaslighting was the time that a drain was removed from my leg after surgery as an inside of my leg without any pain medication or anesthetic. The day before the doctors told me this was going to have to happen but not to worry I'd be properly medicated I wouldn't feel anything it would be fine. But I woke up at 7 a.m that next day with two doctors in my room saying we're going to do this now. And when I expressed concern and frustration saying I don't have any medication you said this was going to hurt a lot. I am worried. They told me that they were on a schedule and didn't have time to take care of it so we were either going to get this done or it wasn't going to get done. So it got done it didn't feel great and when I asked to speak with the doctors about this they told me Joe no one ever told you that that was going to happen. We never said you'd have medication for this and honestly you seemed pretty doped up yesterday so I think you're just mis-marrying things and thank god my husband was in the room both times because he was able to step in and be like no no absolutely not she wasn't doped up that's exactly what you said you just lied. Don't get us like patients dude.