 Growing up, I really felt misunderstood by a lot of people. Even my mom now, I'm older, I've really gone through some traumatic stuff that's really just, you know, changed my whole outlook of everything. I mean, I was talking to one of my friends yesterday, he's going through a really, really rough time now. And I mean, last year he was packing his bags off and he went and moved somewhere new and he was starting something exciting for himself. And he was talking yesterday, you know, he's back here right now, he needs his support unit. And it's, those kind of things, those traumatic events, I know that for him, he would have taken that a certain way, but for me, if that was me in that situation, I would have talked to that a lot worse than he did. And it's that that helps me get that, you know, kind of view and outlook on things. Yeah, so we can put a lot of pressure on ourselves. Way too much.