 What's up you guys welcome to the single guy? I'm Lloyd and today I'm going to be talking about a trend or a Movement that's all over the internet when it comes to getting women in pickup and that's social circle game now There's a lot of people that's talking about this There's a lot of people that's saying it's like the be all end all when it comes to pick up and the number one thing That attracts women a lot of big companies are saying this I'm not gonna mention any names or SD now Todd Valentine had a great video where he talked about the truth of social circle game So if you want to check that out. It's on his a winner game website. It's a great video having said that Let's get right into it now But I want to talk to you about is I want to tell you what the reality of this situation is now I'm not saying that social circle game is bad I'm not saying it doesn't work what I am saying is that what they are Advertising what they're saying is going to happen is a little bit exaggerated and on top of that I just don't think it's practical for the average human being to execute when it comes down to it For the average guy out there I don't think social circle games should be your primary focus now having said that there's tons of good things about social circle game First of all, it's if you see a lot if you see a guy walk into a room with a lot of hot girls around him Do you think he's gonna be more attractive than a guy who's not? Obviously social proof definitely makes sense having meeting women that are friends through friends is Definitely the best way to meet people some of the hottest girls that I've ever gotten have been through that What I'm saying is that the amount of effort to make it your primary focus and make it the primary way that you get women is Just not worth it I mean I think having some of the principles in there making sure that you have friends making sure that you're meeting people in Your life and meeting women through them who you can start a relationship with or sleep with or whatever it is I definitely think it's a good thing in life But I don't know if the ends justify the means quite in the way that they're saying them first of all The guys who do really well at social circle game They usually have a job in the nightlife industry or they're usually some sort of like promoter or coke dealer or Maybe they're like a photographer for like some model company or whatever they have Or maybe they're just famous, you know, and maybe like they spend a lot of time going out and partying all the time Okay, these are the types of people that succeed in when it comes to social circle game Most people if you have a nine-to-five job or you're pursuing something a business in another category I mean, it's just not going to work for you You're not gonna be able to put in the amount of hours if you do your business or whatever your career is gonna suffer tremendously if you do this and The hey, you know this thing is the ear the average guy that for you're the average person of the people you spend the Most time with and quite frankly if you want a couple strippers promoters and a coke dealer to be your best friends I mean, what do you think that's gonna turn you into? So you have to ask yourself these questions Also the end results that you're gonna get from doing this So I know a lot of guys who plan events and do that sort of thing or promoters I kind of know their lifestyle and yeah, sure the girls that they get are hot like their tens They're the hottest girls in the group, but they don't get that much of them They usually like I'll sleep with more women than they do buy a lot And they're just constantly surrounded by women and their days consist of doing favors for other people Their days consist of like, you know, organizing events and trying to get people to come constantly on the phone They're always on the phone and I just don't know if I'm putting that much effort in to get the You know the five girls that they sleep with that year Unless they're in a relationship. It might even be less The if that justifies the means right now They're talking about I see a lot of like the death of text game around where people just the idea behind this is you just use your social media profile To get to get girls that way You don't even really text them They just kind of hit you up or you hit them up and they see your social media profile And they say how dope you are and they see your snaps and everything and you meet them that way and you sleep with them That way if you want to make that the primary way where you're meeting women It's gonna take you a lot of work You're gonna be on your phone constantly the more time you spend on your phone the less time You can have meeting real women and having real sex As well if you're the type of guy who's making it your mission to be friends with people that are high up in the social ladder Or they get the super hot girls or whatever there are always guys in the group that don't get laid There's always guys in the frat house who aren't pulling there's always guys at like that You know big big big shot company that still have trouble at the parties that they go to You shouldn't be making friends and just by association think that you're just automatically gonna get girls from that you still need to have Conversational skills you still need to have game and all the stuff that we talk about the fundamentals on this channel If you leave the spot that you were from that's the other big social circle built up You're not gonna have that social circle anymore What happens if you're put in a different location where you don't have those friends or connections that you made You know you're still gonna have to work on the fundamentals. So what am I saying? I'm not saying that social circle game is a is a complete waste of time I'm just saying it shouldn't be your primary focus because once you put in this much effort You're gonna get the results. You're gonna get are not gonna be what you want So I in my life. I've definitely gotten laid through Instagram I've definitely gotten laid through my friends and they've been really hot girls But if I make it my primary focus, I don't have as much success I don't have as much fun and I end up actually like hurting my life in the long run So that's my advice to you guys. I'm not gonna tell you you shouldn't do social circle game If you're a guy you still think it should be your primary focus good luck to you But I want you to know the results that you're gonna get from it So thanks a lot you guys. Let me know what you think about this Let me know what your experience is when it comes to getting girls through your friends If you made it to the end of this video consider subscribing I come out with videos like this every single week and I'm coming out with an e-book on how to talk to girls So stay tuned for that as well. Thanks a lot and good luck out there