 When you leave the narcissist Your life will change completely While you are with them They have to put you under their control They have to have influence and authority over you because that How they is how they can control How things are going to pan out for them They need to be able to influence your behavior So that they can direct the course of events And by doing that They limit you They restrict you They put you in the box And in this box You cannot grow You cannot make any progress You cannot become the person That you were destined to be But when you leave the narcissist Your life will completely change Everything will come together for you Because you're no longer in the box You're no longer under the narcissist's spell You're no longer being controlled by them You will be amazed How much your life can change when you leave the narcissist But if you're in a trauma bond It may be something that you fear You may feel like you can't live without them, and I'm not saying that it will be easy It takes hard work But in time You can completely change everything Once you leave the narcissist And everything is in your hands Where you have that power to make decisions And direct where your life is going to go It's only when you get involved with a narcissist That you then start experiencing all of these issues You lose confidence in yourself Your physical and mental health deteriorates It's like you can't do anything right You experience all of this bad luck But when you leave them The problem goes with them They take all of their baggage with with them and then you're left To start Making decisions for yourself to take responsibility for your own life You just can't believe what the narcissist has said about you You can't do that Because that's only going to push you down If you believe everything that they're saying You're not going to get very far You're just going to finish the job for them You're gonna drive yourself into the ground as long as you believe what they're saying But you're not good enough for anyone or anything that you need them and you can't live without them But you were so worse off until they came into your life As long as you believe that stuff You will forever be stuck You have to trust yourself See, that's the thing with these narcissists As long as you trust them as long as you believe in what they're saying You're never going to go anywhere You're going to stay stuck But when you believe in yourself That's when your entire life can change my life Changed entirely When I pushed back with the narcissist that I was with a few years ago And then she chose to discard me Although you could look at it as though I discarded it first since I took a step back and stopped answering her phone calls but either way She chose to leave she didn't come back And it wasn't long Until I discovered that she was working in my local supermarket and when I discovered that I then moved to a Higher-end supermarket Where they sell better food so she left me and she chose To do that and she ended up working in a supermarket Well, my life completely changed I Ended up inspiring Millions of people around the world Changing people's lives While changing my own life at the same time as many of you will know I Am now very successful on YouTube I have a website as well, and I'm also starting another channel, and I've got the tiktok And my life has completely changed I Traveled the world now I Get to drive luxury cars I just picked up this one the Mercedes My life has completely changed It's completely Turned around it was just three and a half years ago Where I would be with her in the apartment, so we would go out somewhere for food And I just wasn't doing anything with my life Because I didn't believe in myself Because I was around her and I went from just having 350 pounds a month to look after myself and my cat to now Haven't been able to earn Over half a million pound in just that short amount of time While she works in my local supermarket and yet Just like any narcissist. She was so arrogant grandiose She made it seem like she would be so much better off without me As though anyone would be better than me and for a while. I actually believed it. I Thought maybe she's right But then I started to believe myself And my entire life Turned around and of course, it's not just about money. It's not just about driving luxury cars Although that is fun too, but it's about Feeling good within Feeling complete as you are Not needing anything outside of yourself to complete you And when you leave these narcissists You will get to that place Where you feel confident You feel happy You feel like you don't really need anyone or anything To make you feel complete And while that can happen for you It's never going to happen for the narcissist They're never going to feel complete They're always going to need something outside of themselves to give them temporary relief whether that's you or Someone or something else But for you Yeah, your life will completely change and improve When you leave the narcissist Everything will turn around They may have led you to believe That they were the missing piece to the puzzle They were the wrong piece They were a piece from a different puzzle altogether. I Didn't even belong in the box in the first place So it's no good for you. You might as well just throw that piece away Because it's only going to cause a delay an obstruction in your life in The progress that you could potentially make So yes, when you leave the narcissist Your life will change completely You will be so much happier so much healthier It might not happen immediately But in time things will start to improve. I hope that this video has been helpful for you If you haven't yet check out my tiktok and my Instagram as well My username is noxiva youtube Thank you all for joining this live And there will be more videos again tomorrow