 Is this person emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship and are they capable? This is why when two people are attracted to one another, this is the time to ask the really hard questions. This is the time to ask those deeper questions to a person. This is the time to evaluate their past relationship. If you are an employer about to hire an employee, okay? You would wanna know everything about their past work experience. You'd wanna find the longevity of their past work experience. You might even wanna call some references to some of those past employers to actually get a gauge of how they would navigate new employment. You would do that.