 He doesn't want his ex-wife to see me with him and doesn't invite me to his teenage Kids activities even though I know the kids well. Why do you why do you think he does that? He probably does that because His ex-wife is Gonna freak out and lose her mind when she sees you because she's still in love with him and she's Gonna act all crazy. I mean it's possible so and I know why you're asking this right? You're asking this because you're like is he still connected with his ex-wife Is he still seeing his ex-wife? Does he care what his ex-wife thinks? It's possible. That is possible It's also possible that his ex-wife is Gonna lose her mind and flip out and start attacking or start doing Bad things because he knows she knows that he is seeing somebody else and he's moved on and that drives her crazy and and there's a lot of Relationships that are like that my brother's relationship used to be like that with his ex-wife And so you have to be aware of of what's going on with that. I mean it could be either one You know what you want to do is kind of use your intuition And just see if there's anything else that's going on there or see if there's anything else That's weird that's going on there And it's kind of hard to tell especially if he's kind of distancing the two of you and making sure that you're not around each other But it also I mean people lie all the time as well and it's I mean who knows how crazy she is she could be You know lying and stuff my brother's ex-wife used to used to lie all the time It didn't matter what what it was about or how much of a ridiculous lie it was I mean he she used to send my nephew home to my brother With these ideas that my brother doesn't love him and all this other stuff and it was just horrible and so I mean there could be a lot of different things going on there and You'd have to kind of gauge What kind of a person she is and what kind of a relationship they had and what kind of a breakup happened And if he gives you the indication that she's just crazy or that she freaks out about things that That or that she's really jealous or that she still is in love with him or whatever That could be a good indication that he's just keeping you guys away from each other so that she doesn't freak out and start acting Crazy and doing irrational things that might hurt him you the relationship or the kids