 Me, usually describing the young lady, and somebody's son. I think number one, a black man is more than just somebody's son. I think a black man is more than just an accessory for your Instagram. A black man is more than just a partner for photo shoots. And I think on some level, especially when we consider the hashtag relationship goals, in the eyes of some women, we're viewed as a commodity. We're viewed as an instrument in her making her friends jealous. On top of that, we have to also consider the fact that the ideas of a man that are popularized in our culture today are really, really harmful, embassadized ideas of what a man is.