 And threads by the way. I don't know why a lot of people are not using threads as much. Is it because of that interactive part, but please tell us, are you using Xs and threads as well? I'm not really a poet there, but you'll never find out what happened. Please tell me on that hashtag, which is why, and fears and anxiety. So kiyoko mtaani kwa boi chal. If it were to come again, if it were to come again, it was in Aqua Stress, kama boi chal palimtaani. And I remember last week we had a part one of this conversation and today we're here to actually get into part two and get a comprehensive understanding of what exactly happens in the minds and in the lives of men. In other words, boi chal, okay? Tell us, what makes you afraid? And by the way, we posted that question on our social media as well. If it were to come again, if it were to come again, if it were to come again, kama boi chal palimtaani. And definitely it will be sampling some of your feedback or part of your feedback towards the tail end of the show. Keep on interacting with us on that hashtag, which is why in the morning. But absolutely perfect to be joined by two powerful gentlemen. That is Ravasko Germani. He's going to tell us what he does as well. And then next to him is Edwin. He was here last week. Then he's also back today, Karibuni san. I'm going to start off with you, Germani. Just tell us a little bit about you and what you do at Zetech. I'm Ravasko. I'm from Germany. I'm studying at Zetech University. I'm pursuing Bachelor of Media. Bachelor of Media. I'm studying at Kujapa. I'm a host and a name. Alright. I'm 2.2 years old. It's meaning you're like some two years after that. And then you finish. Like one year because you're bad at not trying the same. You're an SSP, self-sponsored student. It's a nice fantastic Karibu sana. Edwin, you were here last week. I'm back home again. Thank you very much. My name is Edwin Nyango. Right. I'm from Zetech University. I'm doing Bachelor of Arts and Journalism. 2.1. Right. I'm a photographer by the way. You also do photography. I do photography. I take photos at least in Nama. I've seen it. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I'm also the CEO of EdwTV. Edw Brand. Right. Which is like your show that you have on YouTube. Yeah. Nice. So, since we mentioned the story of Kwanama campus, what are some of the things that stress you with your Shilani as a boy child? Okay. Thank you very much. When I was in Kwanama, I was asked that question for 70 pesos. When I came to ask myself, before that issue of money comes in, there must be something that triggers that issue of money. Now, I think my responsibility will still stick with this responsibility due to a later issue of money. Because if I don't have that responsibility, then issue of money will not stress me again. I was asked, what is the issue of money when I'm stressed? I love the issue of money of air. I just say my size. I just say my foot could be on there by the way. And I say my person when I'm stressed. But before that issue of money comes in, there must be something that must have triggered that issue of money. Which is the responsibility. So I think my responsibility and my expectation will not stress me again. Because every time I wake up in the morning, when I have a bigger picture, at the end of the day, I will ask myself, what is the issue of money? I will ask myself, what is the issue of target expectation? I will ask myself, what is the issue of expectation? Then I plan where it will be saved and it will be saved. So I will ask myself, what is the issue of money? There is just something about men and finances, and one of the experts is saying, in the amount, your biggest asset is your wallet. When you run low on your wallet your self-esteem is also low. I think there is one who said, come on person when it comes to money, you see data, channel stories, I don't know what that means to you, but let me hear from Ravasko first and then I'll come back to you. Is it true, kama una pesa na weini boi chia da chana na stories a kudete kabsa? Of course, na jua, especially kwa hii generation nye tuko, una pata kwa kwa relationship na huna pesa na kwa na sema yulem ukobbrok, ita kwa ngumu weiku sustain because sasa pengine, una jua squeeze ikuna ilemi tu, anata kumfanya maybe she rare like nibati de yake, kwa wei kama boi child, unani anything ya kumfanya, no na. So ina kwa ni ngumu, maybe uta kwa kwa hii relationship, but sasa easy issues a kwa cheating na ni nini yu na kuja sana na apu. And then the issue of responsibility kama wini al kwa na sema edwin. Ndu kwa na kuja po finance and responsibility because as a man kwa hii as in society ina to reflect as a man is the head of the family that is a fact. So ukwa kuna pesa iso responsibilities a kwa, zene yuku zi solve it a kwa ngumu as a man. So na kwa, most of the time ukwa see stress, ina pata je pesa kwa solve this thing, this maybe you know na. Like to say me wei pesa sana yu ukwa na family, ukwa na metoto na taka ina shule. Right, so at that time finance, the finance thing. But let me also maybe get to know you a little bit. What are some of the things that scare you as a man? Because we are dealing with man's fears and anxieties. So we together is na kwa kwa pesa to generally in life. First ni ile kwa incompetent, like unata kupewa a task, but then you don't believe yourself that I can accomplish this task. So umto na ona, you can do it, but you as a person, you don't think that you can do it. Is that not self doubt? Like something like that. So it gives you stress in what sphere specifically to say me have you ever had like an experience or shape of a project and you're like hey miss you when you can't but then you have to fight through it until but they say fake it till we make it. They say for as many how to fake it till we make it. Ya like um that was a day after nima maliza form 4. So kulikwana ishwea mentorship kwa village then mwenyal kwa nasmami ile mentorship, akani ita then akasema I will have to lead that mentorship. So it was like I think I can't do it. Because maliza form 4 and you have to perform. So you can lead these others because when you are one in the form 4 in high school students maybe you are a primer. Ya so akani ampia you can lead this. So I was like I don't think I can do it. So you believe in yourself. Ya something like that. But now you believe in yourself. Now there is a moment. Ya ya especially in the field that you know in media if you must be very confident always. Ya your confidence is. Ya absolutely absolutely agree with you. What about you Edwin what was your scariest and most fearful moment? Akasema wah, this one help me Lord you know jesus take the wheel. In fact take the whole car don't just take the wheel. Take the whole car drive it, drive it for me. Jeremon can be a witness to this. Me me ni ulemu tu. I will not say no. I will not say no at the one I am doing. If I ever have to be a no. Dasema yes. Ya na jua. Me ni any decision is to you. And so you know you can. Ya and every time one will be like bro ikiruna weza just trust me. So me me I think failing in life ni kia kata geti ango. Me na jua. Keshu ni kumuka ni tenda ni nifanya evi. Nenda jua aita fail. So ni fia ni what if sasa ni nifanya lafi fail. Ina waka ni ni angu sana wa ina nifanya nawari sana stressana. Mbona ni me fail because me me na jua na weza. Me na jua na weza. But now why does it have to fail. Mbona ni fail. Ya ni me me na 8 kwana viduzangu ziki fail in short. Ya. And they say for you to be successful we must fail. Failure is the product of success. Failure is part of it. But we don't want. Atakama failure ni part of it. Lakin na itu itabiko maisha. Failure. Mbona ni fail. Saza. Failure. Umae fail mbelewa atu adi. You fail terribly. Utaki kwenekana mtu yote. Una takatu jufiche. But una nandepi isi kuna levels of failure. Kuna msia kiko humiliated mbelewa madem. Ina una. You fail. That is failure. Another good example ni umenda shop koomba unga. Kozana pesa. And then your shop kepasa me unga nasa uti. Of course other kuna madem wa poimu. Of course many fail. We buy asana. So there are so many experiences ni zina zina zada define failure. Depending on the individual experience. So maybe you can give us the niti grittis that you are understanding. How do you understand failure? We learn understand failure ni. Msi mimi kama. Okay, first of all itu na fanyanga isi mambuna. Film peer as far of it. Film. So if you time kuna time kuna kwa nandanga, kuna shoot. Then unapatu kika changes are now working on this. Unapataka kuna bitumob ule. Yana bitumob asia kwa fi luli plania. Adi uli promise everybody that on maybe to say on MCM on Monday. We will be releasing this. Then on that day that thing i pute. Aiko. Kilimbula sana kuna uja masia lupambia. Lek sasa wana kuna tu uja weizi. Wana, kila time wana to promise every time kitu iizekani. So wana kuna tu asa failure, wana get. So that thing, every time ni kia open ni for wha ina stress sana. Mi na jwa na weizi, then why does it have to fail now? Ni lupomisa watu lazima nifanya iiki. Then that day reach. Si jia ifanya vile ni lupambia. That thing will be extremely out to below. MCM iko wana sema bansakwa ni wule presentum daily. Afu ni nge kwa skinu wata wana. Uu sasani ni ni ni. Wana watu wana, ni ni. Lek za ina kufanya wana stress. Hopefully you guys don't get that vibe. That's a my theory. Apu patangi o vibe, but to me ni mse weakling. That's a my theory. So that situation. That situation. Onapada kwa asa wana wana say wana fanya iubo. Uru di kwa nyumbu onapada kwa ina kwa stress sana. Mi mne ni nil doa kwa nyumbu kani iiwa, ena kwa uwa. Afu sasa wana. Why have I resurrected it instead of killing it? But you know also you can feel like you failed at the task. But kumbe you nailed it. And people outside will tell you, even though you killed it, you killed it. But where deep down, wana doubt wana sema? No, maybe I should have done it differently. Ano jia feedback sasa ni doa kwa mbe akamu uli fail, lama uku fail. Feedback ni doa. Interact na awo. Ani mne bana bultu mbe iiwa iiwina jia kwa iiwimbona. Iiwa kwa iiwina uli sema iiwina iiwina jia kwa. Sasa na sema oh. Kumbu wana iiwa fortili akumakini, then I didn't deliver it to the expectation. So you kidu every time ii kuidi kwa nyumbu ina kwa stress sana skia. I didn't deliver. But I'm also interested in all stories. I spoke to someone on my Instagram, actually in the text. I'll go through her face in life and I'll start to feel a sense of self-doubt. Nimi sewa kupenda ma'a picture iiwini aka kujaka archive photos, zakezote boom na ma'a video. Nimi sewa kwa na life. So tu rukot na haviu conversation. Bona uli fikatua plus. Adimentally you're feeling like you have to archive all your photos and videos. Aka sema he was feeling insecure. And that really sends a big message to me. Men too, feeling secure about their looks. I don't know about you. Have you ever felt that you're not as good looking as maybe any other person on social media? Some other people you know, they get a lot of attention from women. Of course kama boicha sometimes there's women who just naturally gravitate to you. Wada kama kuna pesa hauna looks nini. But squeeze the people on account hana sura, hana pesa, hana sauti, hana height, hana rangi. They want everything. So how do you put yourself together to a place where you have all this package that the world wants out of them? Maybe Ravasko. Have you ever felt insecure about how you look? I think that is the issue of ideal body image. Now, as for me, I think I accept it myself the way I am. So, celebrities of course wako uko. Ile ishwi aku. The moment unanda kujifana nisha, na celebrity. Especially celebrities. I want to be like msuiflani. Yon na mimi, yon na kanini. So, apuna kwauna fail. But kwa mimi as a man, no. You've never struggled in such a situation. Maybe I'm too dark, I don't have a good face and I don't have a good voice. No, no, no. I accept myself the way I am. No, you are. Nice. And that's a powerful thing actually to do. Edu shei strago na story za look. It actually means a lot especially if you're a person who comes on camera. Your looks matter, your voice matters, your presentation matters a lot and people actually feed on that. So, you always have to look a certain way. So, I don't know if you've ever had such an experience. There's no more kimi ni hampeni amara mingi kitama but nowadays as a person niku preishi. As a person, I think nili wa simu. Nisenda nisenda ni surf internet tv. Ni hende facebook ni ni. Kwanza facebook wuku shiago inakaha. It's a big thing. So that time I think ni hampeni amara mingi kwaanku. So how did you fight through the insecurity part? At first ono yu kijeka life ya celeb stress, stress inakwa kwaanku. So how did you fight through the insecurity part? Stress, stress inakwa. So, ilifika to our point mi nili je lewa nili. Kila mtu akuna destiny ya ke. Mi sisi kwa kwa shuia aya brands ya kwa. Sisi, atuizi yenda patmoja we goda li kweke destiny ya hako mi ni kuna yango. Kamau li kukua hefo, kukua that level kujifuna nani as in ku change face ya hako kunini hindi na kufraisha. Then that's not my path again. Mimi. Ala wupia nili, nili pataka kuna wase, sikuwa na dania tana waneza ni kubali ni. Fileniko. Why did you feel like they wouldn't accept you for who you are? Was there anything awful? Kuna yu giri ni, kupi apreshi, pii ina wanga ni ni, sizambu genyu kuna heo. Kuna nalai kukua level hindi ni kukushinda. Right. Kuna wase tia na apu wami ni hafo umeva wiki zingini na duna shangaha ya maimi. Ako shago kwa. Kwanza niwele uno yu kukusha gusunapu umbawu hindi niwa kwa su na niwa. Afu na nama loma ni. Kama cha pakantu akuna dreadi. Mi na fit ku ima kubi kwenji. Okuna precesi za meno. Hemi niwa tu isi apod kulegeti. Hemi niwa tu isi apod kulegeti. Ile kuwafi gumu until now I changed my path nili sema Actually, Ile fika sato sema ni kwa fom fom. Sorry. Ni kwa fom fom, that's when I changed my path now. Nili sema, mimi na nda iwi na niwukuna na nda stakini nda. Kama ini destiny anko kufuata injiya then follow it to kutana embele kama destiny where kibisindio destination where to fufundio destination to fikiya uko. Sizi woda tu ta pitanjiya moja kufikiya iyo destiny to sendiya. That's when now Ile fika sema Actually, I eliminated those friends kansu kwishi me shiangu niwa na nasa ni kwa in peace by doing Peace of mind, but therefore it's very important. So, when I eliminated those friends kakutana mwara fikiwa niwa kulebu yangu sasa kilatem tu nongiya vitu niya Iko kwa sako eitu Actually, that's how I came out of it. Skwizi mimi niko tu evil And you are happy. Fresh, kila ni kengiwa maalipo pote ni oniwa tu wako eivi I don't have to mind that. I mean, ini level ya hangu Ini level ya hako Pia misi kuita fika ni fikiya your level. What about waschanawa kuna waschanawa kwa very harsh staki mtu ana fana na evi staki mausi hevi staki ana viat hwiyu hananga viatu hako tu na nix moja hwiyu ana nukajashu hako kengi kolon hwiyu menozakizi koevi also in media as well people just look at you and you have to put up with it. So, how did you survive it your experience? Okay, the issue about ladies and relationship Of course We shared it We shared it Where was he? I don't know how it was but he gave me feedback but they may have true story I have one of my boys who was a broken-hearted and demflani and the boys came back to the gym and they took him to the gym Yes, so they said he was a bodybuilder and they said he was a black American who showcased just because of a comment from this chick I can imagine how he was affected lentily So I think boy child kukataliwa I don't know Is it a common thing kukataliwa but does it give you stress for you it doesn't give you stress but how was your experience? Go ahead please you're in a safe space I think boy child kukataliwa as a person there is a there is a man and he told me I need to approach so there is a man who approached back home but then he told me I will go to China Yes, because I have no money so the issue is that living standard so so you have a level plan and you have a lot of money and you have a lot of money I learned I will go to China and I will go to China so I will go to China and I will go to Tantua and I will go to Shida so you will go to China and get it? so I will say money so I will go to China and I will go to Tantua and how did you feel? I will go to level oh we are not on the same level oh my goodness I will go to China and I will go to Tantua and I will go to social media maybe she is going through a bad day but I will go to China and I will go to China but at that time I was in Form 4 and you were a baby so I was in Form 4 so they took me to their deck so I went to the isolation room and I came to Tantua in Pua? yeah so of course it is a kumakiasi but then you have to accept then you move on because anything in your life whether it is positive or negative you have to accept first the situation so you accepted the rejection and then you move on I do not want to reject you because you have stress I do not want to reject you first of all first of all first of all when you are on campus you can date but I don't know do you guys encourage university students to date? university students for that but anyways you are in the public space and you are 18 so you are free too do what you want to do so how was your first experience when you approached them campers? kwanzaa li kwa crash na most crashes you say man knows li kwa kubad so there was this lady to mingia campers actually the first lady to reject the first lady to reject kumakiasi so to kwa kwanzaa kung gaa kwanzaa kung gaa envianuti na k كa si mapehenzi the first lady to invent so I knew whatдắt are people who seek marriage there was this person with which private sources he couldn't remember he didn't have money So, tulia green, tupatanetao maula fly ni tuhunga. So, alifika mbele hangu, besef kufika, kuna maile alesi mama, so ni kenda na muona, so kuna maile alesi mama, then that place, kumona na jamaflaen, kwa kwa kisei mijada, na jyosiku mabiyotu nenda ku discuss ni, kumadeti. Afuni kumona na dewa kisei mijada, so ni kumuza, who is that? Kana bewo ni boyfriend waki. Adangu bia kongesa sa next, kuna, na nembia tuha pokomba. Na jyua, ni what you are coming to tell me, ni liya na the first day we met na iezekani, mi ni kuna umutu, iezekani, mi ni kuna umutu. So, lo li kwa mbia? Ya, apu apu. Li kwa ni kuba, deni kuru li yata nyubani, kule odi. Kaime melt. Kokomens kuna umutu na sema hashtagwa in the morning na sema kukosangu wuza kume upe manume stress. Wa, wa, wa. Is it true, we agree? We agree, does it give you stress? We buy. Okay, you'll tell me more, you'll tell me more when I come to you in just a bit. DJ Izakana sema Timbikto, Kabraska, Kamega, Kwanthi, Daniel Shaw, shout out to you. Jaki Brizna na sema witu po, manume stress ni akiwana demhana pesa. Afuval mambo ni ispa mi alot kutia, Stefna Brand, thank you. I think we had that light, if that is some point. So, ah, we wanna sema ukiwana demhana pesa. See, you can demhana pesa mani cheli. Either way, but I think both factors contribute. Good morning, watching from Mwanda, Bungama County, shout out to you. Russ Vinyana sema utabuhora masibu Teresab County, Loktin, my lovely wife. Oh, good for you, with your lovely wife as well. Kala mivala me shout out to you, I'm trying to look for a new comment that says something. Okay, guys, I'm, okay. So, you keep your feedback coming, but we wanna sema kukosa ngubuza. Anyways, how does that affect you? See, it's just a problem you go to the doctor, you get diagnosed, you put on meds and uta get better, mwana iku stress. Yeah, but before you reach that level, kwenda kodakta, we must keep our own mark, you know, one minute man, she's human, 30 seconds man. Let it go in a stress. Okay, mimi, kwangu, nisha kutana, kama dosi, mwana fikiwangu san. We imagine, one minute man, 30 seconds man. If you have that condition, when you feel insecure still, ingaku stress, so you just go to the doctor bro and you get meds and you will be fine. So, before you reach that level, kwenda kodakta, the first thing, lasimi iku stress, uta mwana kodakta ro, mwami wiki zi edi, kamaone dakta hai. So ita bidi iku elu, like a machine of function kabisa. But anyways, I think there is a big part of a man's life because, you know, the moment when I realize you have like health conditions to go down, at even opening up and even telling someone it's a problem. Somebody would rather die silently So you want to say, mwana ume wa for mass, I want to say, kitu kamaone wata kusemi, ita kwa kwa figu. Sunenda kodak tarib naongia. To say, mwana ume, mwanda wana, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, wana ume, bada boi, Then, kwa hamle di Onda Ladys una una And then sasa wu me, tu lemsiyana, matitumende hven kwa nyomba So by that time, ulatyu waa kworakili kwa atani wana aje. But that example in gahahaha We had stress of course because like maybe you nearly get a need in the assiria and come at the end of that and be a ward So it had been tena namu tumunye uru kwa naibat by that time Kamani urem tumunye kwa naidem dumumumu Obvious it had arripali it had washida because it ended up with pub Muna muna vile nisu titu lakini akuna kiitu pari So I'm not, I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying So you, it will stress you of course And that can break your self-esteem actually Ya ya Demak yongilap especially private issues in the public Ya ya ya That can permanently break you Ya To feel like And also they urge like you know You feel insecure Don't gossip about your husband Don't Gossip about your husband to your friends Alright Uh, your story yama Danny Uh, Danny's not stressing him say But nili ona tiktok flanim tukis yama muna umeni ma Danny How do you stay happy with debts Like okona tala, okona bank, oko subina Adi Subina am tu aneza pata Danny kwa IMF I think ni Kenya twin eza He kwa na Danny ya China But and many others Ma Danny zena kwa stress Edu As a man But Muna niku apu kwa Danny issue apest Divileni kwa mwa anza apatu kiaze November At the expectation Personal expectation Target Muna apu kufiki ya level fly ni Keshu Apu pesei ni wa seen Ya Kwa itabidu when do kwa pesei ni ya Then kwa kopa Kulipa hasen naka Ono yoku na kopa Onafu kwen na Ile, strategy kwa mba Nita Keshu I'm going to borrow Maybe 10,000 Then I will pay it in this way Then Because Nili set standard ya ngu kwa mba At the end of the day Nita kwa na 10,000 Which nita kumia Keshu Apu At the end of the day Ni fiki ni kuna 5,000 Means Having a negative of 5,000 Sidiya Sidiya fiki ya ele 5,000 So nintenda Imagine Nili eka Target ya ngu hati Keshu morning Nita kwa na 10,000 Then At the end of the day Today Ni kuna 5,000 Kumanasia Keshu morning Araka I will have to borrow Sidiya Then Sunanasia Apu How to plan this thing You didn't plan it To go and borrow Means You don't have the plan Of paying it Baku jwi Nita li pa je Inya nenda kuboro Ili Ni fiki ele Expectation Ni li eka Keshu So Kwa ili araka hati Kwa ili pa Asante stress to Tokyo To say Who has most expensive Ni kitanda Hoka stress Issaku كل eka D 얼itia tuu We do girls go through that I will say Isn't she the most expensive Pu😁zia wuka na ni kitanda Kiki tkakulata usha nga Arangali ya jii Yo Kumanasia Nisha amu dangaina, hwana kombala k 해주ju عaye gwa ila ni ya ki one bedumia ke kwa mahalufla anyu afu we kwa singuru a na kwenbe muki ongen a na kwenbe ya mind iso eh bolu So letter bro letter ai Elnipigi ya kwa na nga kwa kari bu na mahalu na ishi kabelini mahmi e nili enda kwa nyakaizi mahalufla anyu na na ya tenti la kwa nyombu Mona why the sham of like just presenting who you are If I don't have a car, I don't have it. If I'm not in a mansion, I'm not in a mansion, but I'll definitely get there. If I can't present that to the people, then I'll definitely live a fake life. For the people who are not in the mansion, they'll definitely get there. If I don't have a car, I'll definitely live a fake life. If I don't have a car, I'll definitely live a fake life. If I don't have a car, I'll definitely live a fake life. What is the fear, and what do you have to lose in your most vulnerable status among the people? Aaa Mani Kriwa Ita kwa wigu mu hili uudanie anafikiria viluna fikiria. Aneza kwa tu ule jama tu normal, but ako level, ako na pezo kushinda, but ita kwa uta muona kwa jama fikiria viluna fikiria. So kumlet hili... hili kwa kama hindi ako... kwa kama hindi ako... kwa kama hindi ako... kwa kama hindi ako... Ita kwa wigu mu kumugini. All right, Arabus. Mi wana... na ni naji amini na naji kubali, most of the time, like... Kuna witu gere ma... kwa wili kwa naji ako. Sipendi ile kuishi kama mungine. Right. Because I know where I'm coming from. Right. I know where I am today. And I'm very clear of where I'm heading to. Vitu kama izo mimi uazini sumuia kilisa na like. Chene ni konacho. Like ita mwangu nyumbani. Venim koivo. Na mtu ita kita kakuja. Come. Ukiona veni kuku, ukiridika, well and good. Ukifil like... hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Ni kifika kwanjumba. Ni ta mwona kuna like, class plan if... Te nu mefka kwanjumba kumona. Ni kona life ingan, then you feel like we cannot continue. So maybe we'll atta kutaminet. It's okay. It's a piece. I don't know mga being at peace with broken people. Yeah. You're at peace. But what happened to not giving, let me find the right phrase. What happened to not giving a dam? If you know me, you think I'm poor, or you think I'm rich use it. Judge me if you want but me a mud piece. What happened to having that mindset? Because like we said for Aamand, you have to fight through many obstacles in life to be successful to be recognized, to even get a job as Aamand. It was very hard to secure one. But then what happened to just ignoring the voices and being yourself? As I said, you have to know where you are coming from, that is the most important. Then this issue of peer pressure, like, I don't know what I do, I don't know what I do, I don't know what I do, I don't know what I do, I don't know what I do, I don't know what I do, so, from that point, you don't know what I do, so from that point, I feel like, I don't know what I do, it means me, I'm still in the right position. Why do these things matter a lot? Is it because of our material? So do you know what I do? So do you know what I do? So do you know what cooking gas is? But is it because of matter? You know, the nature of this generation, especially our generation, we want to live like we are in our 40s. Ya. Taka kwenai. Yat tu naji tafuta, tu na tamani maisha yadu, nabadu maybe tu kushu desa hi. So iyo na kwa ni shida. So iyo na kwa saide kuji amini, niki letam tu kwa inyumba. Atani judge viba yonona, you feel like ataku judge. It's just a feeling and it's all in your head. So iyo ni problem, but the moment tu naji amini, then I think everything will work. So definitely you will feel some type of hangout na mizana on Audi, where a Mende event na mese ma say hello to these guys, they work on radio, TV, okona magari apana okona aschan. Na wei haona kaki, tu infakteran goza konza mtu issu lizi bai janando me piga. You will still feel insecure about that. Apu. Aspo. Apu lazu. Ok, aspo me. No. Ok. Ni lewona wish, ni kona hida kwa mba, one day I will be there. So lewona kwa apakisho ni tafikapia mimi. So stressiangu ni, how would I get there? Ya, because ya na drive na mimi bian tafanya ni ni drive. So iyo ni stressiana, ni kona ayo, laki ni lewa kwa mba. Pakap maybe on afikatae, maybe you feel like I should not be part of this group, like na takapuenda kapisa, because you feel like eh ni meba okona. Ya, how is it compared? Ya, how is it compared then takapuenda and now. It's affecting you. But then also as a man how do we deal with stress? Just in less than a minute for both of us, muna dili ingajana stress mentally because as a man like to me say how to fight through so many obstacles, for you to even find mental peace, for even to accept yourself, because there's men who've never accepted themselves the way they are, story na self-esteem. Kuna men wajona tokenda in abusive homes where the mother hated him or the dad hated him. Amata the dad kicked them out early. Sama eh, wajana ma toka wende. And that actually broke you. How do you deal with that? Ya kama iyo, na miapa na kwa mbu bai doe. So, ni kuji acceptu kwa life, then we set limits zako enyunona mi nezatimiza hi. Reduce your zako. Reduce your zako enyunona. This my zako. Nikifanya ike hivi na hivi. Then in the next, maybe in the next one ni anita kwa maliflani. After you have accepted yourself, kama lewa sinawu dilakini, brenga kuna bens. I should not stress myself because this is my life. Nafa kuji acceptu kama ish. Kama sinawu dilakini, ntapa na keshu si lewa. Kusako angu lewa, keshu piyenta kosa. Just accept yourself, alafu live maisha ako. Destiny kwa wukumbele, pita kanda kanda uta fika wukumbele maludataka. Just accept yourself. We have to go because we are almost over running. Just say one of your social media, only one, the most important one. Social media? Where people can check you out. Everywhere, all social media platforms, EDW TV official. That's where I am. You're Romani Junior. Instagram, Facebook, PMS. You said you're a photographer and videographer. I'm a photographer and videographer. I'm also a skuplator. So you guys can check him out. EDW TV official. X. Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, everywhere. Thank you guys for coming. We have to go. Thank you for your insights. Thank you for hosting us. We have been speaking to Ravasko, Jerumani and Ebino Nyango. Both students at Zittik University. But they continue telling us, to respond off the air, about what stresses you as a boy child. I'm from Govuzakiyume. I'll put it to this man to say it here. So some of us will bring it to a close. My good name is Sakwa. And tomorrow we'll see you for health and entrepreneurship Tuesday, right here on Why In The Morning. Have an amazing Monday. See you tomorrow.