 Hey everyone, how's it going? Will the narcissist have a happy ending? That's the topic for tonight. Many people would say yes. They would say yes of course the narcissist is going to have a happy ending. We've all seen it. They're riding off into the sunset thinking that they're going to have a good time with this new source. Everything's going to be okay and they'll tell you they'll say I'm so much happier without you. My life is so much better now even though there's no real physical evidence of that and yet they still expect you to believe it. They still expect you to just accept that they've met this new person. They're so much happier. They're doing so much better without you. When it's just not true, narcissists are masters of manipulation. They are masters of deception. Masters of illusions. And they can make it look like they're having a good time. They know how to take these selfies and all these pictures. Like maybe they got a new car, maybe they rented a car for the weekend or maybe they went on holiday for a week or something. They know how to orchestrate the elements of a situation to produce the desired effect. They know how to make you believe something. That's just not true. You've only got to look at where they've come from to know where they're going to end up. It's really that simple. Look at their family background. Look at their family history. Look at everything that's happened in their lives. There's a reason why they're narcissists. There's a reason why they're so self-absorbed and why they lack empathy. There's a reason why they discarded you. And the reason for that is because of everything they went through in their childhood. It set them up to create the situation that they had with you. It was inevitable. There was no way out of it. It was predestined unless they were able to develop the awareness to change it. But as we know, if there's one thing narcissists lack, it's self-awareness. So the situation was predestined from their childhood. It was really inevitable that it was going to take place. That the relationship was going to pan out in the way that it did. And that they were eventually going to discard you. That was really inevitable. But you should know, from everything you know about their childhood, from everything you know that they had to go through with their family members, especially their parents, you probably know enough of the family dynamic, past relationships, past friendships, past jobs. You know enough to know where they are going to end up. If you want to know where someone is going to be, six months from now, one year from now, just look at their past. Just look at what they've achieved in the last six months or one year. Just look at how much they've progressed and that could be in their work, their relationships, whatever it is. Just take a look at that and then work it out where they are going to be in six months or one year. And if you are dealing with a narcissist, you've only got to look back to realise that they've achieved nothing. If anything, everything you try to give to them, everything you try to share, they just threw it away. Like it was worth nothing because that's the thing. See, you've got to have something of value to be able to recognise something of value. And as we know, narcissists, because of their family dynamic, their experience in childhood, there was no value there. There was nothing for them to really appreciate other than in some situations maybe material things if they were spoiled in that way. And that's why those narcissists will value whatever material things you can give to them. But when it comes to emotional connections, there's just nothing there. It's like you look in their eyes and you just, you can't feel anything. It's like there's no soul. There's no heart. It's just emptiness. You just feel like you can't even connect to them. And why did they target you? Because they knew that you were a kind, caring person. They knew that you were empathic. And if you couldn't connect to them, who can? And that's how you know it might look like they're moving on. They're riding off into the sunset with a new source. It's just an illusion. It isn't real. They are not going to have a happy ending. Just remember how much you tried. Remember how much you tried to make them happy. How much you tried to get them to like you. But it didn't change anything. They were still angry. They were still dissatisfied. There was nothing you could do to make them happy. And you really think in another situation that someone else is going to be able to do more than what you did for them. You really think that someone else is going to put up with a BS that you did. Really no one's going to stick around. When they see what the narcissist is really about, there's just no way. They might be able to trick them in the beginning, but it's only a matter of time until they see what a problem the narcissist is. Until they realize that nothing they do is going to make them happy. And then they're just going to get out of there. They are not going to stick around. No one wants to be treated that way. Who wants that? We want to be admired. We want to be respected. We want to feel loved. We don't want to feel like we're a burden in someone else's life. We don't want to feel like we're a problem. But that's how the narcissist always makes us feel. And they're not just going to meet someone else and suddenly everything is going to change. That's never going to happen. It's just going to be the same thing again and again and again until the day they die. They're going to die alone, miserable. They'll never be happy. They'll never get what they want. They're never going to find anyone who really loves them because they don't love themselves. They hate themselves. But instead of accepting it, they take it out on you. And then you don't want anything to do with them. There's going to be no happy ending for the narcissist. None. I don't care what they say. I don't care what kind of pictures they're showing you. It's all a lie. There is no way you cannot treat someone that way, leave and then just develop something good with someone else. That's just not going to happen. That wouldn't make any sense because a good happy person is never going to treat someone that way anyway. If they were going to move on to someone else, if they were going to move on and be happy, it wouldn't have ended that way. They wouldn't have treated you in the way that they did. They would have respected you. They would have admired your achievements, your capabilities. But no, they didn't. They didn't appreciate you. They didn't care about you. They got to care about anyone other than themselves. Anyway, I just wanted to share that message with you. The narcissist will never have a happy ending. I can promise you that. Anyway, what's everyone doing? Where's everyone from in here? Hope you all enjoy the message. I'm just out of the beach now. It's pretty cold. California, Las Vegas, Texas, Birmingham, New Mexico, Italy and Italy. Connecticut, Pakistan, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, the Netherlands, Toronto. We've got people from all over the world here. It's great to have this community where we can all communicate with each other, share our experiences. It's really good. And I'm so thankful that you have given me this platform. I'm really happy to be able to help all of you, improve your lives, blaze in bloke. I totally believe everything you say. She can't just end us after 22 years and start fresh and all of a sudden be happy. That's exactly right. You can't just go from that treating someone with disrespect and validating them, putting them down, calling them names. And then going on to someone else. You've only got to look at how they treated you in the beginning. And then notice how that wasn't really who they are. They lie to you. They gave you a false impression. That was the false self. That wasn't who they really were. When they start devaluing you, that's when you see who they really are. Wow, we've got 233 people watching right now. I think this is the most we've ever done on a live video. It's great to see more and more of you here. Please share the video as well. Let's spread the awareness of this. Check out my new website as well. It's got some really good blog articles on there. You can book coaching sessions. There's actually a 25% discount right now. If you use the code NSWELCOME25 in capital letters. And there's also a support forum as well, which we are starting off on the website. 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