 What's going on, you guys? We're going to talk about how to level up your dating life. I'm going to give you three things to help you do this. These are three basic things. They are basic. They are simple, but they're not always easy. I'll explain why in a little bit. If it was easy, everybody would be doing it. What I want you guys to focus on is what are the things that I'm missing from here and what can I do to start improving that? I'm actually going to give you four because I'm going to give you a bonus one at the end that's a little bit more specific, a little bit more strategic than the first three that I give you. These are all three things that I've done. These are all three things that I've focused on with my clients, and I definitely think that these are three things that you should focus on as well, too, if you were looking to upgrade your dating life. We're going to start with number one. Number one is going to be to have a social network. If you're looking around and you don't have a lot of friends or you don't have any friends, that might be something for you to work on if you're looking to upgrade your dating life. For instance, you're like me and you're kind of like a lone wolf and you're kind of like a guy who historically in the past hasn't really spent a lot of time socializing and all of that stuff. When I was very young before I got into all of this, that's how I was. I didn't think having a social network could help me. Once I started focusing on that and I started focusing on taking an honest look at the friends that I had, were they doing the kinds of things that I really wanted to be doing later in life? Were they dating the kinds of women that I wanted to be dating? A lot of times the answer was no to these questions. You don't have to cause any drama and say, hey, you're cut out of my life, but I definitely think you should consider spending time with people who are at the place that you want to be. A lot of times they won't accept you at the beginning, so you kind of have to have a happy medium of people where maybe some people might not be where you are, but they're trying to get to where you're trying to get as well too. I've spent time with people that are doing the things that I want to do, that lead the dating lives that I want to lead, dating the kinds of women that I'd like to meet. If you're looking at that, an honest look at your social network can help. Now you don't have to cut people off like I said, but spend more time with the people that are going to be better for you. Number two is going to be to learn how to have fun. This is something that I talk about a lot with my clients because it's kind of like game. If you don't know how to have fun, she's not going to want to experience things with you. I get clients all the time that are super good looking, that are really rich, but they don't know how to have fun. As a result, the woman gets a bad experience when spending time with them. I'll tell you what, most women would take a guy who is not as good looking, who is not as rich, but is fun than a guy who has those two things but is boring any day of the week because it's the experience that they get when they're spending time with them. Sure it's cool having a big house, sure it's cool having six-pack abs, but it's not cool if you're still bored and you're still not feeling great when you're around them. Why would anybody choose that? It doesn't make any sense. Learning how to give them a better experience and not focusing so much on those, you can't focus on them if you want to, but not thinking that that's just going to get you the kinds of women that you want to get. You need to have other things as well too. This is where the game comes in. If she sits down and has dinner with you, what's her experience going to be like? Is she going to have a good time? Is she going to be laughing? Or is she going to be checking her phone wondering when the check is going to come? You have to give people an experience. That's something that I talk about. All the most out of anything on this channel is how to do exactly that. This is what I focused on for most of the time when I was trying to upgrade my own dating life. Number three is going to be to have something that you're good at or get good at something. This could be your career. This could be a hobby. This could be anything, but it has to be something that's not just about women. You can go out to a party. You can maybe talk to somebody or you get dumped. Usually during that period of time, you're not going to be feeling so great. If you're not getting the affection and love that you want or you're not getting the attention of the women that you want, then you might not be feeling as confident as you would like. You can't always count on that. You can't always count on people, but you can count on yourself and you can count on your skills that you have. If you have something that you're really good at, for me, for instance, I take great pride in my business. I take great pride in my jiu-jitsu. I do a lot of jiu-jitsu and I take great pride in some other things that I do as well that are a little bit nerdier. That's something that I focus on. At the end of the day, even if things don't go my way with another person, it could be a woman that I'm dating, then I always have that to fall back on. I think that bedrock of confidence allows a lot of guys to really move forward. If women see that you're just lounging about and you don't have a goal, you're not heading towards anything, you're not as attractive. I would improve those things. The bonus one, you guys asked for it. Maybe you didn't ask for it, but I'm giving it to you anyway. The bonus one is going to be a little bit more strategic about the kinds of women that you want to meet and be at those places that they're going to be at. A lot of guys will be like, I just want a higher quality woman or I want a woman who's hotter and smarter and caring. That's too generic. You have to think of a little bit more specifically about what kind of women. What does leveling up your dating life mean? Hopefully it doesn't just mean looks. There are other things that are going to be important. You want to get specific about them. You don't want it to be something that's like, oh, I just want a girl who's more intelligent. Where are you going to find this person? Are you just going to go to a class and hopefully you meet a smart girl? You need to actually have a reason to be at that class. Is this something, a subject that you might be interested in? I coach a lot of real estate guys. They meet a lot of other real estate people at networking events. A lot of times this is for them a high quality woman because they're career oriented. They take care of themselves. Those kinds of things are what they're looking for. They meet them there. If you're looking to meet models, maybe you got to go to those exclusive parties that they're at. Or maybe you learn how to organize a photo shoot yourself. You have to be a little bit strategic about the kinds of women that you want to meet and what you can do to meet them. Don't do something just to meet women. I mean, you can, but it's better to do something that you actually enjoy because you'll do it consistently. You're going to be more attractive doing something that you like as opposed to something that you don't like just because you're doing it to meet women, unless it looks a little bit creepy. Cool. Well, those are all the ways that I had for you guys. If you made it today, consider subscribing. I come up with videos like this every single week. Thanks a lot for watching, you guys. 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