 So what separates the men who come to this convention and Succeed after the fact versus the guys who come and then coast back to the way they were or regress the bones of your mastery or habits you guys hear me Habits are infectious pervasive and It's easy to slide back into what you were before think about Do you railing a habit put an obstacle in front of it? Find a way to force yourself into it Consciously creating a new habit How do you do that sometimes it can be very simple change your waking pattern Change your Caffeine and take maybe add it if you don't drink coffee take it out anything that's going to disrupt your body a little bit is going to create a momentum that Let's you continue to shift Change all your habits in other words. It's a difficult question to answer because That fire of motivation is going to be different for everyone All right, everyone's goals and coming here. It's going to be somewhat different The Challenges the sorrows the joys that they have in their lives outside of the convention going to be different What drives you to return to old ways? Typically is laziness I said get off your ass Stay off it But build those habits in Oh, yeah To me it comes down to self-respect at what level are you respecting yourself to be unique enough to push beyond the average mediocre person in life and To me there's always been lasting 25 years in a strip club is unheard of and what I've figured out along the way is you have To take time to renew yourself spiritually You can't survive if you just keep grinding along you have to take time You'll breathe the energy and have your own ritual That's going to renew the vision And the more you renew the vision and the more you move forward the higher levels of mastery that you get You know, and I really think about it It's like it comes down to me because if I don't lead the way super strong with those around me What if my friends my kid my nephews If I'm not that leader for them who are they going to look to they may look to someone who's less than me And that could be the defining factor in their life if they become successful or not So it's really about like how do you respect? yourself and those around you and You have to realize you're gonna be a warrior if you're gonna go above and beyond into the realms of superior You're gonna get grind it out. You're gonna be a warrior and be good with it Because nobody else is gonna do it probably one other thing I think is to have peers who are gonna check you and Surround yourself with people who will actually hold you accountable to all the bullshit talk that you do You know if you're saying I'm gonna go out and change my life tomorrow, and I'm gonna do this and that and the other thing if you're all by yourself You can make all kinds of excuses for yourself because you'll believe them You know, but you know if your friends are holding you accountable to the same goals You're gonna have to answer to them and I think it's important to surround yourself who with people who are gonna make you Accountable to the things that you say that you're gonna do