 Hey Psych2Goers, welcome back to our channel. So you're curious, what kind of traits most people find attractive? Everyone's different, so they may define a strong sense of humor as an important quality. While someone else may say trustworthiness is a key quality they need in a partner. But there are quite a few common traits people find attractive in others, despite varying personalities. So here are six traits people find attractive. Number one, vulnerability. How vulnerable are you? For a relationship to work, partners need to be vulnerable with each other and open up about themselves. Family and marriage therapist, Hal Runkel, told Business Insider that we like people strong enough to reveal themselves without needing us to validate them. So if you're wondering whether or not to open up to your partner about your true inner self, perhaps now's the time to start being more vulnerable with them about what's on your mind. Number two, trustworthiness. Do you trust your partner? Trust is vital to a healthy relationship. Dr. Michael McNulty, a master trainer and certified Gotham relationship therapist from the Chicago Relationship Center, explained to Business Insider about how important trust is in a relationship. He explained, research tells us people only tend to move from romantic flings into bona fide relationships when they feel they can trust the potential partner. Trust in a relationship is not only about transparency. It's a sense of investment in the relationship. It's a sense of commitment to one another. It's a sense that both partners are true to themselves while having each other's backs. They're honest about what they want and need and committed to working through their differences in ways that are fair to both of them. Great advice. So would you say you're a trustworthy partner? Do you trust your partner? Number three, kindness. How kind are you? A 2014 study from Yan Zhang of Haoxiang University in China published in November 2014 issue of personality and individual differences wanted to see just how much someone's positive personality traits influenced their facial attractiveness. The study had three groups of people rate the attractiveness of 60 photographs of strangers pictured with neutral facial expressions. The researchers changed things up for the participants weeks later when they had a group read out loud positive attributes about those pictured. Another group read negative attributes and then the control group had no attributes paired with the photos. The participants now rated the strangers attractiveness again. While most people originally agreed on who was the most attractive from the photos, with the positive attributes, this changed. Participants rated those with kinder descriptions as more attractive. Those with negative attributes, subjects reported being turned off by them. Their faces simply weren't as attractive anymore. Big takeaway, be kind to others and yourself. Are you struggling to get motivated by your goals? Do you want to build better habits? If so, you'll love our sponsor for this video, Fabulous, the number one self-care app to help you build better habits and achieve your goals. This award-winning app can help you create long lasting changes in your routines at your own pace. Unlike other apps, Fabulous is gentler, more rewarding, fun and has a more supportive approach. They offer daily coaching sessions written by Jasmine Quill, the co-founder of the Psychology One program at Stanford University. If that's not enough, try out a challenge. These short-term programs are designed to motivate you to reach a specific goal for a short period of time. One of my favorite challenges is the seven day gratitude challenge, which has tasks as simple as writing down one thing that you're grateful for. Do enough of these and you may see how great it feels to be motivated. I've been using Fabulous for a while now and it's been the motivation that I've been searching for all this time. The circles function allowed me to find a community of people who have the same ideas as I do and we were able to motivate and encourage each other to do our best. And we have some great news. The first 100 people who click the link below will get 25% off a Fabulous subscription. So what are you waiting for? Start building your ideal daily routine today with Fabulous. Number four, humbleness. Remember marriage and family therapist Hal Runkel? Well, he has some more advice for you. Runkel explained to Business Insider that we like people who can laugh at themselves and yet still be comfortable in their own skin. A little humility never hurt anybody, right? Right, but seriously, it's best to relax around your partner and have a bit of humility. Be humble. Nobody likes someone who is constantly overbearing. So be comfortable in yourself. That's great kid, but as Han Solo once said, don't get cocky. Number five, genuine interest in others. Wouldn't you want your partner to have a genuine interest in you? Of course you would. It's time to actively listen to your partner and be there for them as long as it's genuine interest that is. We're pretty good at spotting when someone is coming off as disingenuous. So if you find you're just not interested in hearing what your partner has to say, maybe they're not the right fit for you or maybe you need to work on your listening skills. Same goes for them. Do they never have time to listen to you? Not that attractive of a quality. Being a great listener is one attractive quality that is also important in any healthy relationship. So next time you're on a date, it's time to turn those ears on and listen up. Your date's talking about how much they love Star Wars. Attractive. And number six, self-awareness. Are you self-aware? It can be very attractive when someone is self-aware of who they are and how their actions and words affect others. They can admit when they're wrong and take responsibility for their actions. If someone is not self-aware of their wrongdoings or if they're immature, they may become more defensive easily. Those who can self-reflect on their actions in the past know when they've done something wrong and they'll learn from their mistakes and maturely apologize. Self-aware partners thrive in their relationships because they have an easier time communicating with their partner in disagreements, learning from their mistakes and admitting when they're wrong. So are you self-aware? A great listener? Humble, trustworthy, vulnerable? What traits and qualities do you find most attractive in someone? Feel free to let us know in the comment section down below. 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