 crush on a guy and you want him to notice you or you're with the guy make them jealous to get him back okay so this is how you make men jealous it totally ignore them move on even if it's just a fake person that you're moving on with it's because you know why I'm gonna tell y'all as soon as a man thinks that he doesn't have you anymore or that you're interested in him anymore and interested in another man this messes with his ego like and then he'll start showing you more interest okay totally ignore his calls send it straight to voicemail put post you and yourself up with some other guy on Facebook talking about how this is your new friend and you know that that's the worst thing that can mess with the guy seeing you with another man okay and I know women are saying well if he sees me with another man won't he think that no because this is one thing about me they put women on pedestals and until they see you actually in the act or you admit that you've done something with this person they're never going to believe it you can tell them anything you can tell them you know I was thinking about it but he just wasn't you all you have to stroke their ego and they'll listen to that because that's what they want okay so as long as you let you know the jealous guy know later on down line when you get him back but that was just your friend and you thought about dating him but you weren't sure you just wanted to hang out you know he's gonna accept that because in his mind it's so hard to see a woman that he has been with or he likes with another man just is I don't know why but it just is okay so you want to keep it so that they think that you have never done anything with this man sexually or anything you you keep that in his mind and don't don't say it too much because then it sounds like a lot just say it one time casually if he asks and don't mention it anymore because if you're trying to sell it too hard it's gonna sound fake okay just say it one time and if he mentions it again well were you with that guy were you sleeping with him and laugh like why are you jealous oh my god you're jealous you know make fun of that and then he'll get off the subject so replace this is how you because most guys they don't realize the whole relationship is over or they don't realize that you know the person that was crushing on them is gone until they have moved on to another person then they realize hey it's not about me anymore it's not about me anymore oh my gosh you know guys don't wake up until it's too late so this is why women always have that go-to guy that backup guy that in between guy that rebound guy but ladies make sure the guy knows he's the rebound guy okay you know he can even be gay but look straight just make sure he knows what you're doing because you know it's not fair to him and even if you tell him look I'm not trying to date seriously right now I just got a relationship so this is not going to be anything super serious unless I feel like we can take it to the next level so you can basically just use this guy cuz he'll let you to make the other man that you really want jealous this doesn't matter how good or ugly he looks it's the fact that he has your attention and now has what this other guy has had before and it's hard for men to let go women and also always look good always smell good always look feminine act feminine because men know this is what guys go after okay if you're loud and obnoxious and they're gonna be glad to get rid of you but if you're sweet and calm and kind of like oh you know I asked you know I was out the other day you know I made a really nice guy put this on Facebook I made a really nice guy and I think you know he could be something that you know can turn into something more serious don't say he could be the one never say he's the one because the other guys he's the one okay or say he might can turn into something serious and then like you know always have always smell good you gotta smell good look get you some nice perfume or it didn't even have to be just something that smells decent spray I'm gonna use I'm gonna wear my I'm gonna wear my cocoa Chanel today I'm feeling like Coco Chanel kind of day and I'm almost out of this but make sure you put some nice perfume on keep yourself made up keep your hair done because if a guy thinks that you are out looking for new guys out looking pretty smelling good you know attracting men to you they're gonna either a try to get you back before somebody else takes you or try to get you back after they think you've already been taken because now you become a challenge again now the challenge is to take you from the guy okay and when it comes down to it you need to you need to tell him you know well this guy really likes me he wants to introduce me to his parents and this guy wants to take me here and this guy wants to take me there you know this is the time to get your man to step up to the things that you really want him to do like oh well you want to meet my parents or you want to go here I can take you here you know they'll be trying to outdo the guy you know well this guy you know he he's supposed to be taking off next weekend so we can do this you know and the guys gonna level tell him to cancel it you know he's gonna now he's gonna be the man that he should have been because this man is okay if he really wants you just like the song the Bruno Mars song I should have brought your flowers see he never knew until it was too late and this is how it happens to all men they never they never really understand what they have until it's gone this is just how man aren't believe I do readings every most readings I do for men it's about their girlfriend who they say is their girlfriend but that girl has already moved on live with another man but they're still claiming her as their girlfriend it's crazy this is how they think of you in your mind oh my girlfriend oh did she live with you know she moved out she she's with this other dude now but then she's not your girlfriend well how do I get her back you can't get her back she's moved on well it's either one am I gonna have another chance how can I break this you know it's this is this is how you got to think so ladies when you break up with your boyfriend you want him to be jealous you alright there's a crush or some guy you like you want him to be jealous ignore him move on to someone in his plain sight okay they don't have to be serious because we all know men learn too late they always win a day late in a dollar short so y'all got to give them that if you really want them that you got to give them that fake rebound guy who who they think is gonna be your next man okay but this is really just to see what he's gonna do to get you back okay I know a lot of people don't like playing games but seriously nine out of ten guys will try to get the girl back after there with another man okay and they will step up their game okay because the girl is gonna be like well I'll break up with my new man when you get this well I'll break up with my new man and get back with you when you get this do that and establish yourself and do this I'm not leaving this good situation to go back to you are you serious and if they really want you they will step up if they don't they'll just go find somebody in their own league who don't expect anything out of them you know and you will always be the one that got away and that's the one to be always be the one to get away okay so y'all remember this is what I do a lot of readings the ladies y'all are always trying to jump into another relationship real quick see if this is gonna lead anywhere because you do want to make your man jump and you don't really know what you want so your life is not you know like going to plan so you have to make the plan okay make a plan this is rebound guy rebound guy is for dates rebound guys for having fun rebound guys for making girl boyfriend jealous okay he is not supposed to meet the family he's not supposed to be kids if you got kids you're not supposed to do none of that because if you let him into close the other guy is going to be upset and hold it against you during the relationship you need to keep rebound guy at a distance but in the picture enough for your guy to feel threatened okay believe me I do I've done this when I was younger and it works and not to say that I wanted the guy back because the best part about getting a guy back is getting to dump them over okay like if you just want to get somebody back just to dump them and hurt them this is also another way to do it and I'm not saying it's good or bad to do that but hey some people deserve it and y'all know it y'all know some people deserve this okay so don't even act like you're all high mighty and moral that's another thing that gets in the way of a lot of relationships morals you know people expect people to live up to these high standards and these high morals and when I say morals I mean this is good and this is bad that's bad that's good well when it comes to love and a war all is fair okay all is fair you can lie you can cheat you can steal you can do all of that if you are trying to win a war or win a love okay there is no moral when it comes down to that okay and and I know a lot of people are gonna be like well what about marriage is it okay to mess with a married man is your married man falling for that bait you can talk to him okay and I know a lot of people are gonna be mad but that's the world that you live in you can be mad about it but you can't deny that's there okay so you always have to be the type of woman who knows the type of man that she is with is your man gonna cheat is your husband gonna cheat on you if he's given the opportunity or is he gonna pass it down is he gonna pass it pass over he's like no thanks know who you're with know what they'll do know how far you can trust them people are married and don't even trust each other anymore you know they trust someone as far as they can see them but you know sometimes it's that's just the way life is and you'll have to start to accept this there is no perfect love there is sacrifice there is give and take there's I want this or I'm gonna sacrifice that I want money I'm gonna sacrifice looks I want money I'm gonna get an older guy I don't I want love so I'm gonna date someone who's only gonna love me because they're not in a position to love anybody else what when women think like that about me oh he's broke he's not gonna leave me for nobody else nobody's gonna want him because he's broke that's not true because what if he gets a good job what if you know what if somebody gives him a lot of money and he leaves you for somebody else what if he meets a woman with money you know you can't go for guys because they're broke down and out and you don't think that they're gonna leave you those are the worst kind those are the kind who are waiting and play it in no I'm sorry drop something to escape they just tolerate you long enough okay so don't make excuses for men men are supposed to be the chasers the leaders if you want to make one of them jealous replace them right in their face let it be known put it on Facebook social media embarrass them you know have someone see them out that's friends okay I saw your girl with somebody else you know make them feel stupid for leaving them basically because if you don't you're just gonna look like desperate stalker girl who's always trying to page text call them I said page y'all y'all know I grew up in the 90s 80s so yeah don't blow up their phony and I said ignore them don't send them any pictures blow up your Facebook with this other guy okay even if you have to make a fake account and be the other guy I don't care just do it okay this is what you have to do all right and I'll see y'all later and I know this is funny and weird to make up another Facebook profile pretend to be a man but y'all don't know this stuff works okay all right