 Hello everyone Welcome to another Knox by the live video. I just checked in to my new place By the beach drove about three hours today from the city Those of you who don't know I am currently in Vietnam here for a few more weeks and Then on to the next part of my journey But yes, let's talk about this today As you may have noticed already Narcissists hate anything real if it's something real they don't like it Anything genuine authentic where you are just being yourself You're acting fun or playful Maybe it's your birthday Maybe it's Christmas It's some special occasion And they always have to find a way to ruin it To take all of the attention for themselves To make you feel bad about it as though what you're doing is wrong You're not meant to be having fun You're not meant to be having a good time and instead you just need to stop and focus on the narcissist and What they're doing because they need to be the center of attention They need to be important So yeah, they don't like anything real Nothing genuine or authentic They don't like anything organic Where you are just freely being yourself They won't even want you to think for yourself Because anything like that that is a threat to them It's a threat to their false character and the illusion that they are trying to portray So yes, of course, they don't want you to do anything like that Because it reflects badly on them It makes them look and feel bad And the reason why of course is because they can't do that They can't just relax and be themselves They can't be vulnerable around you or anyone else and the reason why is because they are very weak Mentally and emotionally They're too afraid. They're too uptight And it's because deep down they feel like they're not enough So they hold up this wall. They can't be themselves and they begin to envy you They want to take away or destroy all of these good qualities that you have Because they don't have that and they're envious because it's so easy for you You don't have to put on an act You can be vulnerable. You can be yourself You can do all of the things that you want to do But it's you and not them So they're thinking what about them They can't be involved They can't be real They can't be a part of it because they already know that yes, they are going to ruin the vibe They're going to bring it down Because they can't be natural or authentic All they can do is manipulate you Deceive you Lie to you and future fake They can't hold that space for you and a lot of times. Yes, they know that you're already going to see through it You're going to recognize what they're trying to do They're trying to trick you they're trying to get went over on you They're trying to get you to believe in something that is not true But if they can get you to believe in it it makes it real for them And then they can set back knowing that they've got you but they try to destroy Anything that is real about you Anything authentic because it reminds them that they couldn't do it like that They couldn't be like you and So naturally and effortlessly Get so many people to like and adore you Just by you being yourself You don't even have to put on an act You don't have to be someone that you're not You can just be you and you get all of this attention Everyone is always watching you. They always want to know what you're doing Because you're special you can just be yourself Because you've been yourself for a very long time So you don't have to put on an act You have a strong character, but narcissists They do not have that They have to manipulate people They have to trick them To get even a fraction of the attention that you get so naturally You can just be yourself and everything Comes to you and I'd bet that it was like that most of your life And the reason why it was like that for you is because You may be an empath So you're putting out all of this good energy to the world You're giving it out all of the time And it's coming back to you It's helping you to build the life that you want But as for the narcissist From a young age they had to create this false character This person who is larger than life But they never managed to manifest that into reality They never had everyone's attention They never had Anything that they really wanted While it came to you so naturally and they began to notice this from the people around them They weren't getting the attention that they believe that they deserved and they started to see people surpassing them Maybe some people who were doing the wrong things People who were manipulating and deceiving and then they realized That is what I have to do to get ahead I have to go out and trick people to make them believe in something that is not true About myself or the people and the world around them They realize that that is what they have to do And yes, they may have had some success in doing that But even then they know it's not real Maybe they cheated you they lied to you they stole from you So of course they know That they are not deserving of anything that they have So how could they ever be happy despite what it is that they may have and that is why Even when these narcissists come around you and they take they steal they destroy You could lose a lot in your life, and then you manage to get just a little something back And you're grateful for that you appreciate it You're still happy. You're still able to smile Despite everything they did to you Despite everything they tried to destroy because for you it is real. It is natural. It is authentic That is who you actually are and you get to experience these Amazing feelings and sensations Because you can just be yourself You don't have to trick or deceive anyone Things come to you naturally You don't have to fool anyone You don't have to control them But some of you You have been misled you have been deceived Into thinking that who you actually are is not enough when that is a lie That is incorrect information and if you need evidence of that Just look back throughout your life When you were being yourself You weren't trying too hard To please anyone you weren't trying to be someone you're not When you did that and in that state of mind That is when everything naturally came together for you But then other times when you were not being yourself It's like you just seem to repel things away from you Because you were not in your natural energy your natural vibration Because the reality is You're not meant to be anyone or anything other than yourself You're meant to be who you are and when you step into that energy You will manifest your dreams You will manifest everything that you really want and of course narcissists know this They are aware of it Which is why they will do everything they can to influence and control you they may not know it consciously But at some level they understand it, which is why they always have to manipulate you They have to try to pull you down Because it's so natural for you to manifest everything that you really want The power comes from you being yourself, but yes narcissists will hate and envy you They can't stand it and the reason why is because it's so difficult for them. It doesn't come easy for them They can't just be real They need to have this wall this defense They can't be vulnerable They have to hide from you and Everyone else Although if you are their grade A source of supply You've seen who they actually are more than anyone, you know exactly who you are dealing with But yes, they will envy you They will want to destroy you because it's so easy and effortless for you You naturally manifest exactly what you want It just comes right to you. It always has your entire life It's just sometimes you didn't notice because you were under their control, which is why you may notice that As soon as you get away from them You move away you move on you detach Suddenly your life starts to get better you start to manifest everything that you want and It comes to you so easily Because yes That is real And that is the only thing that is real Everything else everything that you've seen before from the narcissist It was all fake when they kept you down When you couldn't be yourself When nothing was working for you that was because of them It was because they're not real And it's why as soon as you move on Things start to get a lot better for you When you're away from them This is the beach First beach I've ever seen in Vietnam Just thought I'd share it with you, but yeah, you got to watch out for these narcissists They will come around you and try to control you. It's almost like they know they understand The effects that their presence has on you They know that when they're around you can't be yourself You can't just relax and be who you want to be and it affects you it prevents you from manifesting the things that you want They can tell that whenever they're around you Your energy starts to go down You don't feel so good about yourself and they know that they're affecting you and then all they can think in their minds is just What do you want? What do you want them to do for you because remember? Yes, they are narcissists so You must want something from them Because they come around you because they want something from you it's like their brain just doesn't allow them to understand That you just want to get away from them. You don't want that energy around you You just want to be your authentic self And you can't be that around them because they always want to control you and yet they will come around They will cheat they will lie they will steal they will take away your energy They will deplete you and then once you're completely drained. You've got nothing left to give then They start analyzing you Trying to figure out if there's something you want from them When all you may really have wanted is to be left alone But of course they can't do that for you Because it's all a lie. They depend on you. They need you They already know that you don't need them But they start to think that maybe you might want something from them To replenish you When the reality is that their presence is just going to further bring you down It's going to prevent you from you being able to be your authentic self But as soon as you get away from them Everything is so much easier Everything comes together on its own As it always did before for you So that's really what you should do if you are involved with a narcissist And if it is safe for you to do so You really do need to get away from them Because there is nothing that they can give to you The only thing that is real Is when you get away from them When you're on your own Which is why they will do everything they can to try to prevent you from doing that Because they envy everything that is real about you But that's exactly what I want for you I mean any narcissist who watches my videos They would automatically assume that I'm the star of the show. I'm just looking for attention validation When actually I get on here to make it about you The audience The victims of this abuse And that's why I didn't even show my face for the first two years No one even knew what it looked like Because it was never about me It was always about you Uplifting you giving you the energy that you need Because I know that from my voice and my videos I admit a very high vibration And it will heal you It will make you feel a lot better So yes, that is what I intend to do And it's what I've always wanted to do on this channel Is to just give these vibes That live people Give them this information And of course yes, that's why I often try to find locations like this At the beach In the jungle somewhere Where hopefully there aren't going to be too many people around Because of course These traits this gift This empathy is very rare in this world A lot of people are very narcissistic They're only looking to take Or to destroy Which is why yes, I do encourage isolation That will be very beneficial for you It's great if you have a support network as well But just taking some time to yourself to reflect That will be very healing for you I'm just all about real things As you've probably noticed by now I love anything real Anything pure Anything untouched Because that's just the way that nature intended it to be Things were not meant to be conditioned Or changed in an unnatural way So yes, that's what I believe Anyway, I hope you enjoyed the video I hope it was helpful for you If it was, you can show your support down below By giving this video a thumbs up Let me know your thoughts in the comments section Share, subscribe For one-on-one coaching, you can book a session with me on my website It's Narcseviver.co.uk And check out my Instagram as well It's Narcseviver YouTube on Instagram I've got new pictures of my video New pictures and videos every day on there of my travels Thank you all for joining me And I will talk to you in another one very soon