 أسماع بالتعوميسين، she said about Fatima بالترسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم that Fatima, this is the shyness of the righteous women this is the shyness of the people who have tasted the sweetness of Eman this is the daughter of the Prophet عليه الصلاة والسلام his own daughter she said to Asmaa بالتعوميسين she said يا أسماعوا إني قد استقبحتوا ما يصنعوا بالنساء I feel distasteful okay that which is done to the women I'm very distasteful towards what is done to the women يطلحوا على المرأة ثوبوا فيصفوها the shroud is placed on the woman, her body and it still shows her body parts this is a dead body this is a person who's passed away who died Fatima, رضي الله عنها she's saying that this woman when she dies and she passed away they placed a shroud on her you can still see her body parts her curves and all of that she's saying this doesn't I don't like it it mentions you know حجم عضائية whether her bones are big or not so she didn't like the رضي الله تعالى عنها this shows you سبحان الله يعني it's the concept of حيا شاينس was a sign of shyness ولداركة there was a woman from the قصص والعرب from the stories of the Arabs that were mentioned that her خمار فلف from her face and she took her hand straight away to cover her face with her other hand and then the poet he said regarding her سقطة النصيفو يعني نصيف means the خمار سقطة النصيفو ولم تريد إسقاطه فتعاولته واتقتنا باليدي her خمار fell from her face and she didn't intend for it to fall but what she did was فتعاولته واتقتنا باليدي so she took her other hand to cover her face and I remember سبحان الله one of the things that took me back when I went back to my country Somalia and I saw the Somali girls that go to school by the way the schools some schools are but the school I was going to was segregated boys and girls were segregated but if it ever happened that the boys and the girls had to leave the gates and they you know you saw a girl leaving you would always see the following it was something very common سبحان الله it took me back that even though they don't wear a niqab but because they were in big deal bags they take the side of the jilbab they put their hand inside and they cover it over their faces for no one to see them so it's سبحان الله it's a noble characteristic God asks Allah I ask Allah from the bottom of my heart that increases this in our Muslim women the third reason why the niqab was or the hijab in general is sanctioned is because it protects the woman الحجاب حماية للنساء من أد الفسقين الحجاب is a thing that protects the women from the harms of the transgressors and the criminals we know we're not living in a a perfect world where there's righteous people right left center there are criminals here there we're talking about thugs we're talking about yeah I mean rapists we're talking about evil people our religion wants to protect our women it doesn't want our women to fall into these problems الله تعالى الله تعالى يَا يُوَنَّبيُّ قُلِّ أَزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاءِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُدِنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلَابِيْ بِهِنَّةَ ذَالِكَ أَدْنَا أَيْعُرَفْنَ فَلَا يُوْدَينَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ وَفُورَ الرَّحِيمَةَ الله تعالى يَا يُوَنَّبيُّ أُوْ رَفِتَ وَأَضْلَةَ say to your wives and your daughters يُوْدِنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلَابِيْ بِهِنَّةَ they cover themselves with their jilbab ذَالِكَ أَدْنَا أَيْعُرَفْنَ فَلَا يُوْدَينَ this is a means for her not to be recognized and not harmed فَلَا يُوْدَينَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ وَفُورَ الرَّحِيمَةَ and verily Allah is one who is Allah is one who is very forgiving and merciful to His creation so the ayah says فَلَا يُوْدَينَ and the word فَلَا يُوْدَينَ is فَلَا يُوْدَينَ and the word فَلَا يُوْدَينَ is a means that means the hijab and the jilbab is a means that protects the women from the people who have desires who want to harm her last but not least, the fourth one is that it protects the men and the women, both of them from falling into water من الوقوع في فاحشة زينة it protects the men and the women, both of them from falling into water من الوقوع في فاحشة زينة it protects the men and the women from falling into water so this woman she meets a man in order for him to have any sexual intercourse with her first of all the clothes have to go off no one has sexual intercourse with clothes on و لذلك الله تبارك وتعالى he said in the ayah و لا تقربوا زينة إنه كان فاحشة وساء سبيل do not come close to زينة for verily it is an evil thing it's a fahish it's a crime and it's an evil thing the ayah says ولا تقربوا و لا تقربوا زينة don't come close to زينة the ayah did not prohibit from أن مجرد فعله it didn't prohibit us from merely doing the action of زينة it didn't it said don't get close to زينة so this is أن قربانه it's getting it's a prohibition of getting closer to زينة not just the action of زينة itself and this is powerful it's greater because anything that would lead to زينة is closed which is what the scholars call سد الضرائع all those evil means they have to be blocked off so we're not allowed to look at a woman to lower our gaze because it's protecting us from زينة we're not allowed to a woman is not allowed to wear hijab that shows her she's not allowed to wear clothing that shows her body parts or she's not allowed all of that is going to lead to زينة سبحان الله just as a final point I want to conclude with that women are objectified when they wear less clothes the less clothes that she wears the more revealing she is the more skin that's displayed the more the woman is objectified and she's seen less intelligent and she's also belittled and degraded and this is سبحان الله something as Allah is the greatest and in the Qur'an وشاهد شاهد منها they themselves and non-Muslims are testified to this in surveys that they've done researches that they've done يعني they've looked at this matter by the way not just they've looked at it from a neurological perspective psychological perspective why are psychologically men like this if a woman comes with a mini skirt they objectify her straight away they don't just objectify her they dehumanitize her they take that value of her being a human being from this woman I was taken back various studies by the way I've come across يعني ample studies that point towards how external cues that the women or such as her appearance for example and the attitude that she wears could play a key role that encourages objectification dehumanization and the denial of any intellectual grounds يعني this is researches that they the non-Muslims in April in April 1999 a survey by the Janet News Service they revealed that almost one in three people in the US believe that the behavior or dress of a woman plays a role of her being a rape victim and it can contribute to the act of a rapist just because of what at least this is a big number every one يعني three people one person is saying I believe that the reason why women get raped is because of the clothes they're wearing by the way I have to put this out no woman deserves to be raped even if she takes off all of her clothes and she's naked and she's wearing nothing no one deserves to be raped no one deserves to be harmed just because a woman dressed in a certain way does not in any way shape or form allow a rapist to rape her I'm not justifying rapists and they do deserve a very serious dealing rapists يعني they should be dealt with seriously and it's not something I would love for my sister or my mother or however way they act with that being said though we need to take our precautions this is what the point is الله تبارك وتعالى says to us in the Qur'an خذوا حذراكم take your precautions in 1978 by the way I like that I'm going backwards I'm not talking about now yeah that's true you said 1999 first time in 1978 these are like Subhan Allah surveys and you know researches that were done earlier I want to show when people are more modest people are more honest people are more this يعني the social media and what it's done Subhan Allah this work has become crazier in 1978 sexual assault cases there was a sexual assault case that took place in the Montana Supreme Court they noted out that the defendant testified that the sexual conduct the rapist he testified that the reason why he committed this was encouraged by the dress and behavior of the woman he raped because I wasn't going to do it news reports provided accounts of instances in which the victim's clothing were introduced into evidence in a courtroom يعني they took their clothing just to check what was the reason why the rapist did it يعني the non-Muslims are even saying this so if a sister believes that the more skin she shows if she believes the more she gets rid of her hijab that she's going to be respected increased skin display was not self-rated as modest يعني they did a survey they said increased skin display was not self-rated as modest no one from all of the participant participated in the survey يعني few said it the number was so low women expecting high levels of investment act of chest emphasize of their fidelity whereas women who do not expect investment if a woman wanted to be respected for her chest her brain and her intellect she wanted to be respected for how she carries herself she covered more this is the research they did and women who did not expect يعني emotionally invested with her intellectually invested with her she flaunted the sexuality to extract the pre-production investment from as many males as possible in other words she's playing into men's desires she wants to be respected for her looks and this is subhan Allah you as a person telling men to objectify you dehumanize you and then you get you get that response from men there's no احترام for you you see I remember subhan Allah very strongly I was in college and a girl and it got too close to a boy and what he did to her was he touched her in an inappropriate way he touched her in an inappropriate way and subhan Allah the girl of course he has no rights to he has no rights to this is wrong unequivocally wrong but what I sensed from it was the fact that she she acted in that way gave him the impression that she wouldn't she would not mind if he did this do you understand my point yeah as though she invited this and so when he when she got angry and she said are you just why did you touch me in an inappropriate way why did you do that when she responded in that way and she said what she said he's jaw dropped like where did that come from I thought I thought we could do what we want to each other right right right again I'm not saying that what he did was right and I'm not justifying to keep putting that there but I'm just trying to say to you human psychology is like that if you show more skin if this is the way the world if you take a piece of meat and you place it on top of a tree lie and see it they're not going to let it go they're going to eat that piece of meat you leave it in the desert you leave it in the jungle and again I'm not saying a woman is a piece of meat again I'm not saying I'm not comparing I am not comparing a piece of meat to a woman but what I'm saying what I'm comparing is يعني being like in a situation يعني exposing yourself out like that same way as exposing you don't leave your phone outside and expect no one to steal it I'm just comparing just being like see the circle you know not be considerate not knowing that your actions can lead to a reaction can lead to a reaction yeah I understand