 Vivian says question is should I text him since he said his grandma is very weak since the V is spitting spreading in Europe I don't want to say it because it could get demonetized here is spreading in Europe and most of people Doesn't seem to care much. We had great memory. I'm a bit worried What are you? So what are you worried about? Should you text him? I mean is has he texted you as he tried to reach out to you you know if he's if he needs some space because he has his Grandma who's a priority and he needs to go and and talk to her then give him some space and at some point he's gonna think about you and Message you if you guys have a good connection if you don't have a good connection Then that probably won't happen Texting him won't help any because then you will start pursuing and chasing him and that's a bad situation as well and So no you should you should lean back You should give him some space if if his priority right now is making sure that he takes care of his grandma and If he wants to contact you and connect with you then he will contact and connect with you if you Want to just send him something I mean it's not a problem if if he's been pursuing you and he's been interested in you And it's been a little bit like it's been a week or a few days or whatever It's not a problem to reach out and just say hi to him It's really not a problem at all right and if if you don't it's you know I mean he's gonna get busy with whatever he's busy with and so You know, he's not reaching out to you. I mean who knows what's going on there so it's one of those things if it's been a few days and you guys have had a good connection and He's kind of been pursuing or chasing Then it's not a problem if you just reach out one time and say something But when you do reach out don't continue to try to force things to go forward Have no expectation about it and instead allow him just pretend like it's a Carrot right it's the carrot and you're dangling it in front of him and let him start running after it don't don't Don't don't try to continue to throw new carrots out there. I maybe that's Maybe that's not a good metaphor But the point is is that don't continue to try to initiate contact with him if he's interested and you send him a message Just you know figuring out what's going on with them How he's doing and all that kind of stuff then he if he's interested He'll take the ball and run with it and you don't need to continually throw balls at him until he grabs one Right because then he'll just have a whole bunch of balls over there and he's like I've got a bunch of balls I don't really even care I'm gonna take my balls and go play somewhere else