 Gemia kwa sono clapo luwa tyana naomic cemetery waniaaji se musu ma inducedga 5 la sho kufutter merez 0ita nasa sosialize, meet and interact with one another. Now we focus on online dating, why aren't we focused on online dating? In the first technological world right now, now that we are in 2021, ya�in edin platform Action platform pedia when people interact with or do not, and most preferably get together with people they want toidi online to the point that you develop your relationship till marriage and as they say till death to you Pat good morning to you, my name is this morning we have a discussion on online dating is it a must should you go for it, what are the do's and don'ts to help us in this conversation I'm joined with none other than Afiji herself thank you for having me again thank you and also joined by Mutumishi thank you thank you remember to be part of this conversation the hashtag as always is power talk show on twitter at ramaguko at y254 channel make sure to head over to facebook at y254 and give us your thoughts about this is online dating something that you would go for do you recommend online dating have you tried online dating what are the do's and don'ts what are the hazardous effects of online dating this morning we put into focus this as we give you power in this conversation power talk starts now let me start with Mutumishi ladies first ladies first man before I don't know what you think about online dating but based on the research that has come out there many have opted for it but merely half of the people have said that it is bad for them for you as an individual does it work does online dating work with me I would be in support because I don't believe it works well one, what you order is not what you get we will have enough if you don't need TV we will be 43 inch 3 inch, 11-14 inch My God! It doesn't work It doesn't work Because maybe the person you've ordered for Or the person you've been talking to They might be not People wanna fake pages Magina one fake Sura Sile mehikwa pale Sura ya kwa, mehike pale Mushkiririm tumishi kumeni Baluwa Tefoodti Afeyi, that's it? Well personally, I think Online dating Is just a gamble Like any other dating methods You get Dating by You know, if we met by the restaurant Online, it's a gamble Like any other So it's a 50-50 It could work It could not work So I can not say That online dating can not work I can see there are people who when you see them online they are married, they've been married for years and they are a product of online dating and there are people who have been scammed so I think online dating is a gamble just like any other dating method so it can work So someone, is it possible for someone to recommend online dating, you would say that it's a gamble? It's a gamble, so I will tell someone if you feel that is the, you know not everyone is privileged to meet so many people in their life, not everyone has the courage to approach someone So online dating is for people who have, maybe there are people who don't, maybe their jobs don't allow them to meet so many people, they don't have the access to meet people The working class Yeah, maybe they are too busy The working class and the working class The working class doesn't come on a gap What? See Saiba Ziko, Saiba Ziko So they work to the cyber and the working class have a profit But if we had to say that someone could be gambling when you are going online, then could it be a waste of time? It's a 50, 50 I would say I have a freedom Gambling can waste time It can waste and at the same time it can win you Exactly But it can't win It can't hurt So the issue is when data goes off, your marriage ita kwaan, you li kwaan have online But you know dating, dating generally is a gamble Whether you met in a restaurant, whether you met by the road, whether you met at work, whether you met online is a gamble You are saying dating generally It's a gamble So whether it's online dating, it could work for you, it could not work for me, it could work for him, you get So it's just the methods you take, maybe when you are going online Some people who get scum, maybe they are not careful Mtuhanga, Li, Vizuri, they don't take time to get to know people online So it's just Maybe And also maybe desperation People who are desperate, like they've been hit on And I say my best is the one I've been looking for Afikiri, Marambili, Ashaingia, Kallok box But can desperation lead someone to go online and start looking for someone online? Yeah it's true We've had people go, even on radio, on TV saying I'm looking for a husband, I'm looking for a wife Jamma nasma ma pala kwa barabara na ido Ntahuta bibi Ntahuta bibi Ntahuta bibi Ntahuta bibi Is it desperation? Okay, one I can say Imba wana home mostly utafuta But you don't know where you'll meet them It might be online, it might be at the restaurant, it might be kwa gari It might be in the office, the working place, wherever But now online we've had so many cases in terms of how it has come people In general, in terms of buying and selling goods In terms of kutafuta If goods, it has a kwa iwa So how much money do we have? Husband or wife? How will it go? Do it, do it So I wouldn't advise people to go online And start looking for husbands If it works for you well and good But the question is this Does it mean everyone who is online, who is dating online Is desperate? For us not really Not really The same way I've told you There are people who have no access To a large number of people Maybe they work at home Maybe they have no access to crowds, they have no access to new people They have no access, you get it Amma, they have no access to the right words Or maybe Or maybe they have no confidence Or maybe they have no confidence to approach someone If you want to go online I can abuse you You can abuse me But you can abuse me You can abuse me You know, you can abuse me And facing someone is good Because you'll know if they are telling lies Or they are speaking the truth And this is where things get rough Whatever is online Could not be a direct replica of what is The reality Now You could be using the words That you have to seduce your husband Okay, not husband but your potential Met Una Google too Una copy paste Exactly Copy paste send So how is it that someone can separate What is real from what is virtual Especially when it comes to dating How do you draw the line? That's why I say My opinion would be Face to face Your reactions Your emotions The way you talk The way you speak The way you react towards what I am saying At the same time What you are telling me It will tell me a lot of things About you Ni tanza kujua Lai ni ako Lai fi ako You know But online it will be a bit too too Zile nata kawuski e See zile is the reality on the ground Okay, and the question is How long do you take to talk to someone Online Before you meet them How long should you take? Well I think it depends Because you know Online is risky Especially for ladies You know ladies easily fall in love with words You can even talk to a lady In two days and they already like you It's possible Very possible Yes So one thing People don't take time I think you should When you've met someone online You should take time to go on a first date Second date If possible Third date And make sure that person does not Because you don't know them You don't know who they are You just meet them online You just meet in a public place Get to know them Have a normal conversation face to face For the first time Take time The second time Third time Don't invite someone to your place Don't go to his place Because they are strangers You get it Maybe the first, second, third After the third meet-up You will try Now after that I think you will know What you want to this person Let's have this conversation Before the first meet-up Before the meeting How can someone be able to Separate the scammers From the legit Seekers who are interested in that relationship That you are from profile One In your representation The approach, the appearance On how But if you have a problem And you are just a smart camera I will just have to go to the market Now We say People who are injured One person is a lady And they are capable of doing anything They are capable of Some people are in danger They fall in love They are in a rush They are in a rush They are in a rush to do research They are in a rush to do research They are in a rush to do research They are in a rush to do research They are in a rush to do research They are in a rush to do research They are in a rush to do research Things here are terrible They are terrible Things here are terrible There are these people Who are doomed to go to an illiterate They have a fake love Here There are these people But I have had a friend also But they didn't meet online On that issue He had a husband before And the husband passed on Now He fell in love kwa she has feelings ni binadab ni dim supu So a kwa kwa anata kajama it has been long since tuakia person na kwa na mtu emoja this guy came in in her life then a kama accept jama a kwa fall in love you know online badu not online in reality now in kwa a kwa fall in love jama limpenda kabisa na a kama accept na jama kwa na joba kwa na na ni so dim da li kwa na household mi tumba na nda wana huza dim a kaba imba kwa pick up yama tumba ali kwa na salu ali bayake so na si jama jama kwa na huza dim anabidi a kwa anam tu so a kwa na potential kuma e planiake li kwa tofa huza you see na dim e a kwa fall kabisa na jama kwa na move waki huza mi tumba kwa rodi limuru wapi wana make do at that time umembe waza zi waku hote umembe ya your friends and family exactly so jama ali kwa na job ali kwa tuwa na doze a riki nda yama tumba na huza udem to her shock one day yama nda kwa wana salu kuru di jama ali nda na gati ali nda san so that's what yama karate kwa tu li tofa ut yatru karate but now it's strategy this guys have taken time to study what you do where you go to the things you engage in if you have money where you work but now you're talking with this person for a long time it could be through various online media that are existing umongi ane 1 month 2 months 3 months 5 months bado ham ja kutana during this whole period ume jama urafiki is it possible for you to notice someone who is kukuku bia askama after talking to them for 5 good months now you're planning to meet physically what are 5 months niki dog? you can't even know askama can take 10 years in your life nabunongi ane online hata mumemi itu muwa bada kila kitu but you know umu tuwa na kuhi bia ya takuja pole pole so should we avoid online that thing because it's a good one nahi ku he request the grace of lord ya ok because when women love by the way muna muki aki ama kukuku bada hata kukuku wechokora hata mua kukuku fana wek kwa bahisha when ladies love love but one ume tuwa kwa gana issues I can say that from a man's perspective see what anyway issues gone as in one ume one ume 2 to 2 King Solomon Solomon was wise Solomon was wise on his own behind I'm saying Solomon was a wise man na nimu se li kuwa na ume ane God ane Ambe a God to meet jiyo wana meet na God dibi wana ume sata zizi wene tu na naka kumagoti Apiji you agree between men and women who are easily scammed online women women women women are easily scammed but when a ke pia skizio me kuatari online when a ke skizio pia me kuatari I think of the kwa see what I say masai wame kuatari women are becoming um wame kuwa janzaku they've been scammed a lot yes so wame tan the game ime rishiwa wana ume but the people who've been scammed most online are women are women and then are they more why is it so are they more vulnerable are they emotional I think women trust easily you get that's what I've told you you can have a conversation with a lady online after before we exchange numbers na na fil ni kama na kujua and they barely know you you could be a serial killer you could be anybody you could be you know but women never investigate deeply they barely investigate I think it's because of that notion there are people who are looking for their fair details online you get so you go for your prince charming online so you go online the moment you have a connection with someone within four or five texts you're ready he's the one in Shapa Tamtu and you don't even know this guy he's not told you if he's married he's not told you who he is what he's looking for you know okay now still before the first meeting nangerele hako ame sama kitabae ni muhemu pia what should be the questions the right questions that you should be asking this person online especially now that the conversation has started achana haisasa achana how are you yes that's a question but what are the important questions that you should ask to be able to determine someone who's legitimate online me nenezema for a lady wkitaka kunjoma na ume true kuna questions zi woga peshawa na ume wkitaka kunjoma na ume labdanim true I would say muna ume let's go kwenya kwaan kama na kudanganya tansaku avoid kwaiz okimambie if a lady ask a man bimi ngependa kumubi 20 kwenya will introduce kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi the right person kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi kama ume madama mese mapa umeonge aya the first, top, second umeonge mese kwaizazi whatever na uzesesi muna zakwing kwa the main body e muna ambiya e kisha mita why don't we introduce each other to our parents kwaizazi kwaizazi kwaizazi kitu netu muna ume real uto ona to the next step tansaku avoidance kama anadywa I have seen people who have gone through that whole process they have introduced each other to their family members Although they have met online. But the guy allegedly says that I may introduce the name of the lady to the family. The lady also on Asama Pea may find the same. I may introduce the name of the man to the family. So what remains is the meetup. Is there any other thing that should be done more that you should find out deeper and ask more? Asama Pea may find the same. Meeting is still a problem. They never meet. Is there any other thing that should be done more? No. I would say if your parents knew what was going on, they would have told you that they would be ashamed. They would have told you that they would be beaten up. So they would really be of help. Asama Pea may introduce the name of the lady to the family. But now she may find the name of the man to the family. The first appearance of Pea was as the two they will sense. Can you introduce someone you met online to your family? No. Until I meet them. Until I get to know them. Until I'm sure this is the person I want to be with. But I will say you can't. You never know somebody. You understand them. But I cannot introduce someone I have not met. Because you're talking about before meeting. You've not met. You're just online. I cannot introduce someone I have not met. It is a very big disc. What if you have gone to your family and they have asked tole pichaki. You can't have it on Facebook. You can't have it on Facebook. You can't have it on Facebook. You can't have it on Facebook. You can't have it on Facebook. Because you're a woman. I think CSI fiki shako family. I think I'll start with friends. Because you know when you go to family this is something serious. You know if you can get to the point Ha ha ha ha ha. Ha ha ha ha ha. Bufifoo Imagine. Imagine, just imagine this is Power talk show. We herewith Fiji herself. Yes. Oh, and Mutumishi. Oh yes. Ya, Wu Japakutu Mikiya. The hashtag is power talk show on Twitter. The hashtag as always is power talk show on Twitter at Ramagogo at Y254 channel. Remember the conversation this morning isabot onlendating. D'yu sapoat onlendating. Kanyu recommend you friend to date online ndespecial after trying and trying hard ndtrying again and still not meeting that partner. Kanyu introduce that person that you met online to your family. Shou you do it. Is online dating the way to go that these are the questions that we are trying to find out this morning as you answered the question on online dating. Maksu that you need part of this conversation. If all you are just joining us, you are just in time for the next part or the next side of this conversation right here on Power Talk Show, thank you very much for keeping it Y-2-5-4. Mata nikuja kwa kwa fiji. We were talking about introducing that pattern to your family. One of our viewers has asked, what if you do a video conference with your family to that person that you're dating online, can it work? Like how far is that online relationship? If you've not met the person yet, personally according to me, I feel like you should not introduce them to your family yet. You stand this bad, never introduce until you meet him? Not until you meet him, until you get to know him well, you get. Like get to know that person well, get to meet him, get to spend time with him, get to know what kind of a person he is, get to know what he does, you know. But you know if we are talking about you dating someone online, it's an online relationship, you've not met, it's not real. I want us to move to the next thing, but I just need a chance to give you a video conferencing with introducing that person to your family through video. Hey ma'am, assume you're calling them Bay. Hey Bay, so here's my ma'am. So you can do it according to how you think about your partner if you're ready to do that. But if you're not ready, nauna juwetakulati ya issues bada, because you can't be introducing people you've met online, the Bay you're saying, and you don't know how far you are going or where you are headed to. We'll get to know each other later. So you have to be sure to get to know each other as well, but then you need to earn your parent's respect. Respect, exactly. Let's look at the red flags. This person is your online boyfriend or girlfriend. They never update their profile. They never change their Facebook or online profile. Come in the profile picture. Ni lemti. Ni pata apa. Ni pata apa. For so long they never make posts. They don't update anything on their status. Is it a red flag? We never show up. We don't even show up on social media. We don't even have the best social media. And we don't have anything. Every now every minute every second. Can I change the picture? So social life is a big problem. We just judge people. And to me it wouldn't be a red flag to raise the question on how. I don't know what it is. It's just a poster. We are not online and they don't have any post. I'm a friend already. It's possible. There are real people who you know I'm sure when you are kwaivo. I think even my parents never change their profile picture. I think we live in America and... You get it. So there are people in real life who are kwaivo. He's excellent. He said he'll talk as a kwaivo. Because there are people who are real. And he's a hini. Okay, but I would say... One is that there are people who have a lot of engagement. Maybe let's say Babako is online. Your parents are online. Then there are people who are online. People who are online are like that. If they are not online, they're in that place. If they are not online. They're not trained. If you want to go out just up to the mountain You can go out to the hill, you can go online Not because they want to be posting They are just online to work online And the middle of the online work is to do things I feel here let me come to you You always want to meet but never meet If you want to meet a kwaaza oh he'll meet you he don't meet Okay, so you plan again, you never meet, but the relationship is still ongoing, for months and months you want to meet but this person just never meets you, is that a red flag? It depends, if the reasons of us not meeting are valid, I wouldn't doubt, you know, you'll just have to be patient and see if... Even if there are five, you transfer five times and all this... Five times now... I know, I would say it might be yes or no, because one, you have to be patient and see if there is a problem. If there is a problem, you just have to be patient and see if there is a problem. Next week you will meet. You should be a priority to your partner. I know it should be. I met you before I met you. Maybe you are my partner and I allow you to meet me in the corner. And now I am getting engaged to someone, maybe you are far from me. I am from Switzerland, I am from USA, I am from South Africa. I have meetings up and down. I am trying my language best to fit the schedule. You disagree with that? You know, if we don't meet five times and maybe the first time it was you are the one who cancelled, the second time you are the one who cancelled, that time it's you. You know, if maybe the one was cancelled, one of those times... But each and every time we want to meet, nivewa wuna cancel, wuna cancel. And maybe your reasons are not valid and then wuna patakuna wa twengine. When you call them, these online people that you did it... When you call them, maybe Ashiki Simu, there are people, maybe there are certain times they cannot be found on phone. There are so many red flags that you can just tell. Kunakitu apa. When you cancel and meet up more than five times, each and every time when you want to cancel, maybe your reasons are not valid enough. I feel like it's a red flag. It's a red flag. But it depends on how you take it. How you take it? That's why it's a red flag. One, before I met you, kunavitu na fanya. And I'm creating also time for this. Okay, especially if... Maybe let's say if I'm the one who requested for us to meet, you will have a reason because maybe you were... At that time maybe we will issue zako kunavitu na fanya. But let's say you are the one who is requesting for us to meet, you cancel, you request, you cancel. But if all the reasons are valid, what will you do? If all the reasons are valid, I will understand. But kunavitu na fanya, you know? Something is wrong here. Okay, so let's shift gears also to create another thing. You're dating this particular person online, but they always ask you about some sudden questions all the time. But in your work, what you do, where you go, is it a red flag when they ask for certain details about your life? Like, for example, bank accounts? I think it's either way. It's either way. It depends. Vile umemwelewa, vile amekwelewa, how many times you've engaged. Na kuni uliza bank account ni takuana queries. I want to give that information. Why are you asking for them? We are now to meet, atatruda tembelewa naga nyumbani, umemwelewa vizuri. But if it comes this early, it will give... Bank account atatruda tembelewa naga nyumbani. Why are you asking me about bank account trend? We are online, you know? Mali na hanyakazi. I want to send you some money. You see, I see many things. Tumakwa simu. There are so many things. Simu waks. There are so many ways of sending money. Okay, so online dating. Let's shift gears to something else. Is it okay for you to be posting your photos online? For both of you? You know, the both of you. Nasa musa nini, your life, everything that you do. Your relationship. Munaika Facebook. Mumaenda. I think online life should be mine. Kama ni mimi, I would say, wacha mimi ni pambanena haliya online. I can take it in. Nikiaza kurushi wa mame na eza kuzi handle. Fiji mi ni kona e, let's say, Maybe she's not an online person. Now, mame ni mimi post. Mame ziki eza kurushi wa mame na eza shindo kuzi control kuzi. I would say, I would put it private. Wacha ya chini kaya familiar, kaya familiar. Kuna waliya they don't mind. Wacha to post dunia ijuwe imanena. But one day maybe online never forgets. It depends on what you're posting online. It might haunt you only. Affiliate? I have so many things to say about that question. I follow what you do, only victim. First of all, I just want to say one thing. Online and reality are two different worlds. You meet someone online, that doesn't mean that person is now your boyfriend, your husband, your whatever. Until it's official. It can even be official and this person is still a stranger. Online and reality, you've met this person online. Chances of this person being real, chances of the things you've seen about him online being real are not even 10%. You get. So you cannot meet someone online and create a whole imagination of your partner in this person and then start creating your reality on this other side just because you've met them online. You need to know why he's online. I mean so many things for you to... Nidia kia kwa online nini. Uka online kwa nini. Why did you approach me online? You need to get of that online life, come into a reality with this person for quite some time for you to get to a point of posting them, sharing them you know here. Online na ngini. It needs to get the two of you out of that online world first. Ya, watia i kwa pili kwa palat. Mkujia kwa reality. Mfes vitu kwa ground kwanza, nusa samuwanze mneza faania iso vitu kwa post kunini, but when someone is still online, it is not a real world. It's not a real world. Mka safari, rajo kwa safari kwa gari uta ingihe lakini safari in di ondef. Uta shuka baru safari na ndela So ineliku wa tu It is an imagination Because when you meet someone Most people, that's why we use pictures online, we use videos you know What if you've never had any video call with them? The only mode of communication Text Text among voice calls Those are now the do's and don'ts of online dating When you're dating someone online you can request once in a while for a video call because when you meet someone and you don't have time it raises questions There are people who want to come at least okay, I'm speaking as a lady you will tell someone send me a full picture of yourself I don't know if you meant to be a selfie I don't know I don't know if you meant to be funny I don't know Maybe you have my height Maybe that is not the type of person I'm looking for you get You need to look at everything that you're looking for online and you need to know if this person is looking for the same thing if they meet your core values and what you want you talk with the media I'm online and now let's start a new life Let me check what people are saying on twitter William Orlando I can't introduce a stranger to the family yet I ain't sure of tomorrow she might just be a scammer or used someone else's peaks or gopa disappointments very true online what she ordered speaking of which there is this common issue online of having sudo profiles an account that is not someone's real account is it possible for you to pick out such things? it's technical I was a jewel I wish the online platform owners wange kama na klaus ya kudil na iso sudo accounts zinges idea wat weingi sa ana zinges idea wat weingi sa ana I don't know if they have considered that kus it harms and hurts so many people kus abu you never tell someone comes with a sudo account which looks real na approach najiwa pii na lingana na itumia kwa njiya zipi if we had a way of identifying the sudo accounts it would have helped so many people yes nice of you to zingi kwa zime kwa avoided kitam there is no way that we can determine a real account from a sudo account that is the thing if your conversation goes on and on na muna pilii po inchenyum na sema to exchange numbers let's video call utaju atum utapa namutu kumamda mechikotu afiji ya mega ka profile picture and it happens so many other people are using other people's profile pictures and videos to get like me you can online utapata accounts umtumi zi nisi me peki angutu kwa tu karibu 15 na and others are scammers let me go to facebook utu kuna endrike na sema watching it na sema pana iizi jari bukitu kama yop dida kiniwa dense palanto hei utapa numa zi na iyo zi zi na idi kwa nsa uzi ya hei utapa lanto sasi utamuli zao teori name that's where your conversation go uta ita umtutu ama ama muna jiki lam tukwa arizonza keza kuhaid jinaza ke but if you are a real person nuna eka kwa nuu fiche nani is it bad for someone to put a profile picture of a public figure for example Barack Obama America picture Barack Obama ask their profile picture would you want them to have their own photo as long as they are not claiming Barack Obama maybe that is his icon maybe that is his role model so dida uyo unless nisha muna dating that is a blind dating to me some the intro online dating is like window shopping anyone can date you that's a nice one until you get the product or the real the real product it's popular for it to be dating tell people online because the reason you online you have an account online let's say it's a dating site you definitely having conversation with many people and that person you are talking to it is but you know that's why I told it's a gamble soko kila mtu kuja na shikashikai baka kuna wule mwenya atachuku wa iyo so to both men and women utapata uya na muin box uya na jibu until lila tafil out of five lile kusia kusia mwa sumoja sumoja no you can be dating a lot of people you said sumoja say sumoja you said maa it can be more than ten babu you don't know wule wuli say maa po afili ujuwi wule kuna prospect zako wule kuna kituna taka so that's why you go dating you know kolo boy anasama nisimu unapenda simu tu nisimu unapenda nisimu unapenda wu japenda ui umtu bada umjuwi wu jamuana nisimu unapenda simu omebi the conversation mata misi jileo unapenda simu kama lila niko kwa saiba kama lila kumanisha ume like your conversation simu owa ok have you guys tried online dating personally i have i did it ambo tell me about your experience i will tell you i will tell you i will tell you they are genuine people online in their scammers but 80% scammers 80% genuine people ok i had someone say naulipata the right was only to admit i had someone say that a normal she escaped that what happened you had someone say i had someone say that a normal guy a normal guy who has all the values who has everything going on perfectly in his life will not go online to look for a woman and does that reflect also for women women look for partners anywhere so it is ok for women to look for partners anywhere but not ok for man to do the same for men mostly it's less wanaumeku ndaulipata wanaumeku ndaulipata wanaumeku ndaulipata wanaumeku ndaulipata so i had someone say that a normal perfect guy who has everything going on in his life career everything is perfect will not have that issue of approaching any lady anywhere if they want someone serious or something serious and i kind of felt it's true because when you go online the kind of people you meet online kunaishu sit down and ujueni kwanini they have to be something they have to be a reason either this guy is married he is just looking for a side plan either this guy was married before he is just looking for fun either this guy is just looking for hookups you will never find someone what church is on 10% why people are online but now at the end of the day what is your conclusion after dating online you will watch actually i am a manual actually i am a manual automatic manual automatic manual i am a manual i am a manual so i have to pay i have to pay i have to pay i have to pay i have to pay so you might go online and find someone who has the core values that you want and maybe you don't you don't like them back and then the other person who has as in unha patam tu akuna hana core values unha taka unha kupenda unha kupenda unha kupenda unha kupenda so you might find they are genuine you might find they are genuine people exactly i am going to explain what happened what happened i am going to you dated online here how was your experience? my experience was bubbly bubbly it wasn't that serious it was a joke to me if it was in a kua ga what anika experiment nili fika bai there ken kum was meeting that lady nili funga see him anwa nika ru di kwa i saw her i said what you i saw her atat kiyongi nimesi mama hapa nimefai nika onan di ulema kwa nili kwa nimeji ficha bai niyone umtuna taka so what was the reason aku kwa kitu nataka did she see you? no and that's how you stopped dating that's how you stopped dating nili wachi yama mo it was in 2010 so nika wachi yama nili kwa na fanya yo nili kwa nakabameso kwa nipatia kontak say to meet nili kwa nika say to meet ken kum mi nili muona bai then nili ji ficha ni muona kwa nimefai kwa api kwa nili kwa na ficha kwa nili kwa mbe kitu nili na Facebook na kitu nili kutana now is nili kwa mbe kitu nili but you still have contact with her did you wish out to each other no no no no nili jari buku nipigia uli nimiweka 2 hours uli nimiweka 3 nimiwa poli nili shikika but don't worry after she told you that you kept me waiting for 2 hours you only said 2 words don't worry nili kwa kitu nimiwa onda kwa nichu nili kwa nia plata whatever you're looking for nili jino kusema nili kwa kitu nimiwa nili kwa mbe kitu na onda uli nili taka kontiako aasi kudili taka bando iko munezarudi uli nili taka kontiako nimi online so no going back again i can't say no going back but i've told you kila mtu akuna storyake repu have success to this and those are the ones that inspire us i have 2 friends they have atama me by home and they mention online they have a family they think someone online means that he or she is open for the market he or she can fall for someone due to financial situation if a guy is well up that means a girl will fall for him just for the money not love it depends na karaktas what and the question is nowadays if people fall in love with what the personalities that they see online mtu nana mtu mishi mtu mishi together with your brother mtu nana mtu mishi na mtu naka mtu and they admire what they see online and that's what they fall in love with right mindset for ladies yes but for guys fall in love pictures physical appearance and whatever they see even men receive messages from i love you i want to meet you you are beyond me that's what i'm telling you ladies can fall in love with the personality of a guy the way they are the way they carry themselves but for guys mostly wakyanga liya profile liya mtu nana they barely fall in love with personality with nowadays online and social media most of the guys fall in love with physique that's why you will see my demo me just a filter or make a picture you get because he want to fire demon kata names bwani si zake bwani si zake mtu mtu mtu mtu social media mtu mtu mtu mtu mtu mtu mtu mtu mtu mtu but for guys, they love ladies because of their tabia you are online i want us to finish this conversation we wrap it up now we've talked about before and during after meeting what will be your final word considering that we have a changing world especially for the young folks especially for the young folks kulao lako high school oshengi online looking for love and what would be your final word to that lady or that gentleman out there mihazena wea fiji well first of all you know there are ladies who maybe think I'll just go into detail starting from students to watuwa kumbwa you'll find students who are maybe maybe students are on aminko gizurai lakini I want to find someone who is maybe kili mani, kili leshua and I can't get there or maybe I want to find someone who is in outside Kenya you know so they feel like the only way they can find someone or a partner is through online dating you get so you feel like you cannot access someone through boundaries but the only way you can get connected to them is through online it's possible we get those are your goals those are the things you want those are the core values you want in a guy but you need to be careful because online is risky you could meet anything anybody you know people are not the same the same people you meet on a daily basis when you meet someone maybe he is on a mission of going to do something bad you get so people are different so when you are going online you should just go knowing it's a risky place these are strangers these are people you barely know you get so you need to get all the information you need to know what do they want what are they looking for is this the same thing I want is this the same you get no to me, what's the final word? I mean in Kenya 2 1, 2 taputa mabu yako the right way the right place it might be online it might be offline so niwe utamua nani na karakta zile zile tabi onata kakamu niizu are they real nim true are they people that you can believe in and then we stop rushing you can judge what is going on you can judge what has been done you can see that the president he is the president it's not like he is an owner he is the president he is the president so relationship comes a love seek it when you are rushing it needs time so that you can regret it love can cost so many other bad things so you shouldn't rush online I feel it's a risky place Its a very high risk place yahuku find lab where by is? It's not a reality Online is not a reality So take your time Asses Then come on miha mawu ni apo ni sa Age limitborgifikahapa asi Whether it's 1825 18 Thank you very much for keeping it wide to 5-4 Power Talk Show ends right now. I'm told my time is up, but when I'm doing it, I'm going to call Lisa. Thank you very much for your comments online. The hashtag is Power Talk Show at Rammaguko at Y254 Channel. My final word is this. Online dating is now like eating at a restaurant. Thanks to Photoshop. In person your order looks nothing like the photo on the menu. Think about that. My name is Rammaguko. God bless you. God bless the work of your hands. This is Power Talk. A repeat of this show takes place again tonight at 10 p.m. God bless you.