 I am at colour me Val, balana penaga ma rangi, balo ma rangi tu. Yes. You have to be a certain number of years old kujokulikwa na mtumingine wa ma rangi. A certain number of years. Our hashtag of the day is WCW, the day where we question our queens. We in fact just finished a very interesting conversation with Bresha Meengi and her guests. If you didn't catch it, that's fine. Just catch up with us on our YouTube channel where you will find something that will entice you, definitely. Now, let us ask, we have a very important ask and we're trying to figure out, if I continue, let me allow my guests to introduce themselves. Good morning. Good morning. We are trying to figure out what is the name of your kujokulikwa and you will find the name of the kujokulikwa. You have to know what is the name of your kujokulikwa. Okay. I don't know. Okay. I don't know. Please go ahead and say hello to Keta Chess on behalf of everyone. Hi. Good morning Keta Chess. I hope you are watching. So Keta Chess, music. Please go ahead and post your picture. Say hello to the caption. At the weather for two, Okay. Akatwambia baya c-section. Normal bath. Blanketi. Nimeyabili. Wao nono tachizana gani lewa. Weather for who na? For two. Ya results are result... Kwaza pampa sindo me panda sana. Pochata izoni ni. Pochata yos c-section. Yos c-section ni once. Pampa three years. Kuna chesa well. Mili lewa na napkin. Sayu kishika napkin yun akam shamba. So you have, nanda na bili kuna enda. Nabi tulukuwa. Sayu wezi fajnyam totoa. Atawe miyoto na dikauna tesam toi. Mili kwa nonshuwa kwa sink. Sayu kuna bath. So everything has evolved. Akuna bili uta atu uta. Utena kumtole wa apu kenda kwa cleaning. Kama kwa kaniisa. Kwa chawzawa atu akubo. Kama kiaza kuban. Utena na na time. Napa napas weh. Zimeshin la di food. Pocha tu. Please introduce yourself. My name is Peri Swandra. I'm an actress. And I'm also a student at Murangir University. I'm taking a course in Bachelor of Commerce Accounting. Accounting? Pesa. Sabu. Mali mamat nawe omle kwa friend. Of course. Mali mamat. Mali mamati. Mali mamati. Nasiari. Nasiari. Mali mamati. Napa diwapi. Napa diwapi. Hi. I'm Charitu Angare. I'm an entrepreneur. I'm Jack of One Shreds. I'm mom. I was born on 15 November. I'm a teenager. I remember when I was 15 to 24. 24? I was born just like that. You were in MSM. Oh, 35. You were in MSM. I was born in MSM. I was born in MSM. I was born in MSM. I was born in MSM. I tell you. Yeah, that's me. Where can we find you on social media by the way Wanja? On TikTok. I'm Wanja Peris. I'm a boss lady. We may summon a couple of 1 million followers. So we'll do a boss lady. Well, when? We'll get a boss lady. So it's not me who is my daughter. Kana jitabim. So it's not me who is my daughter. So it's not me who is my daughter. We may summon a couple of 1 million followers by the way. So it's not me who is my daughter. So it's not me who is my daughter. So it's not me who is my daughter. But it's not me who is my daughter. So it's not me who is my daughter. But if you have a problem just go to Facebook or Instagram or Twitter. And get a WhatsApp number and you can find your screen. Hey, I'll leave down here. But if you don't hear Rasa Pesta, I will leave down here Rasa Pesta, Ya foundza wa 2 konstitushon Uhu api Apu 20 Okay We are talking about article 27 Ina se manili You just asked me to send me a constitution Na ita, the Nikianda says that But now you're talking about You only know your rights You know the constitution Hachi by then, it's really hard to show Because Hachi constitution ita amo I never thought I'd love something like that My picture like Ina dependent nasi, sasa nimianzuku, 한gelapitukya, niwa we, ona nakhistrakshu. But I go with the time. So currently when we were talking on Monday the thing that was one of the highlights of the state of Zen nation was the finance act coming back to kwot, Yiko Supreme Court, saia kwa 3, judge bench. So the finance act una soma inainfringe on the rights of people to be seen as equal, ni Desi and yu Please understand, that's where the 3% comes from. It's not a whole 3% for you. It's 1.5, 1.5. But the housing level only takes into account the people who are employed. So that, yes, not just civil, don't have to be employed by the government as long as you're getting a salary. Si watu wajua kali in shorts? Si watu a salua ya wina pita kwa bank? Salarit, salarit. Like you have a salary dege inengia kwa account nesemani in medical salaries. That's the people who are being targeted. So that's infringed on Article 27 of the constitution that requires everyone to be equal under the law nanpata. But today? So may I forget. But today? So by the, ju wakali ya wajangiri hau according to that constitution? See, that particular clause of the finance act to hafiniwi, you don't have an employer, you're self-employed nanpata. So naji jenge ya tu? Haasla. Apu silas mawutu, tolewe pesa ati. Ujinge wei nyu mba hindi. That's much better. Wacha nijpepete, kuna badidi nmese mahenje lageja nijpepete. But today we are talking about relationships. Rebrational promises, I am. Bona wanase manga for better or worse, lakini kifikapo kwa waaf, wana toroka. Mamba niku sumer tu mazwali, tu majibu, rather, apaivi kwa Facebook, kuna babare labda uliza serigali. Serigali ko busy. Busy sana. The man James Topfans says, but the real reason marriages are is because people are not in love, they in love with what the person can do for them. Wow, that's deep. Kei chenshiko, haii kei chenshens. Dani sana from Kazanda Moranga. Dominik kiniya buchu says, kisi kaunti keumbu ama sagubes, tuned in on pakata mati, ablisak, abukusin, webu we nasimukuna magina. Good morning, Count me in, in year to fortune, hashtag, one morning, Wednesday. Umei tuwa kama leo. Wow, if somebody can't lie, then he or she relationship. Tuna das mumi ya tuwa po tuwe. Chari tuno na yo two look. Talk to me wanza. Do you believe it is true? Lazi matu kawongo kakuea upon doikwe relationship? Not necessarily. I believe. So you 100% honest with your partner or your previous partners? 100%? Yes. Wongo. Wongo nimbaya. Wongo. Wongo. 100% honest with your partner. Okay, letter 798.7. On it. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. Pueb. You cannot be 100% honest with yourself even if you come and look at who is who. Men who are left. Lazi maille kwa na? You will find you are understanding one. If it's one, according to me, I'm honest zure. Because me then we had genug points. What is honesty with your partner. What other people do to be honest with you. White lies That's what they called White lies You do not want this person's feelings Kwa poa meimba, meimba mejona yeni musani, yeni the next nya shinskiku Tessa hita on But it's out in your buffoon You tell me, won't you lie? Okay Okay, I'll not lie May be in ita say ma ukweli la Kini si ukweli ake? How will you tell the person they cannot sing? No, they are shy in vest pesa Bora sauti na toka na imba Ya na toka kwa kali graf John's Kumiski wala di microha wanja Udu kwa wanja Nani wakukwa diyemi ake? Na kali graf Nani wakukwa diyemi ake? Nuna suki wala na imba? Kwa tu diyemata nda bali kama kapefe kazozi ako apo? Adi me mitzongko Nani wakukwa diyemi ake? Na skuji nava ma luiviton So ako dusawa So tu dikwa sama about lying Lies zingine Situ na mini sawa May I believe in honesty Batchu kuna zili wuna lyingi Nisa subconsciously You don't want to lie but you find yourself kama Sosa uki Usi wuna natu ame overdu Kama ni baby ame va B2du wuna ona Daki nimi nibi ishtia ako Nani nambia gwa Aman mone halae Apatangi bibi Lazi ma kukue You have to lie I thought you would connect I thought Situ ikama ni ukueli Lazi ma chubanganya Uwami ni Mbibi kuna ukueli ako Kama ikua bili wuna Mbibi wuna kapua Uyo lipstick ni powa Mbibi wuna doo make up Lai kapua bach Aman hu does not lie does not get Awa ifor does not marry Naka ni ni nase me kanda In this side sasa Uwami na penderu wongu Uwami na kuku tanganya Lai to me baby Lili uta lie zilebi Uta change maybe Uta lie Uta lie na kwa cheating Uta lie unha patamsha araf Buona izoni meja, ma tizile ki nige kwa kwa naka powa, huja ana, we umi kwa mowe upe, skwezu mere fuka Ni na ni yivyon na nini, utu na sema wiya mmim, ni na kwa prima ria muku awe upe, prima neskila muku awe upe Juhu hwa nia weupo awe mitu kwa So, yeah. Line is It's part of the game It's part of the game For better for us, what if this particular person takes it a bit overboard? Nasi hati, let's not include cheating, that's our story for another day, let's not include having relations whether emotional or physical, any kind of contact with another person. Iba kitu ni nini, but wana dangana, for example, nisha ya onam tu, tu meka atuivi, I'm the outsider, tu ko job kwa ke, kilam tu na ding ding, nisha rei mengi ya ding ding, ya meka simu silent, hadi ya kasa matami, nisha wata lewa, nunda usimu itisha, sasa apu na deal na mutu kama apu, si usama fo beto fo was, mou meti eka, umesha ifa nya utu kama yo, so kama na person who has related with this story. So that is fo beto fo was, saba. Nasi wili, sama uta empenda. Of course. Ataku jaji asemi aja lipo na kwa job. Amei eka hadi simu silent huzki kilam utu apu around iya mei ingi ya msharao na jaribu kumu nisha. Tu nufeni nini na iya mshara ziki ingi ya kwa tu na lipo aji? Uwe we umenda job kwa ke. Okay. Uhu na tule atu. So mi ma liza shugulizako hazuzako smart. So when everyone else is being paid, kilam tu amenza kufrai, nini aa zimi ingi ya, hadi wengi nasama, ibundu nisha epe suzangu za tsu ji wein. Uwe mei eka simu silent. Amei sijampata yango? Kuna pa zoologiko lias. Oh, na na wei unani yunga. It is a true story. Siki kwa. I'm not making this up. Pia, wele. Runa mtu aki kudanganya. Una kwa aga piya. Sawa, sita sema ni fala, but runa mtu aki aki gada kareji kukudanganya na kwa game kuna fala. Online. Ya, beba verna ziki. Eh, elu wajeni kwa ambi e. Sawa, we lie. People lie. Sindi yo. Bati wele kama yunga. Misha rana niki tu meja. Yukama mini wafi ako. Mibindu nanguja tu liperen. Mibinata kwa na kliniki. Mibini kuna ball. Mibini watotu. So na wakitu kama yungi. Kama nenda kwa na umse. Mibinim tu menda a step further. Simu tu mekatia jana. Sindi yo. Kama nenda kujajobia ako. Sindi yo. So kuna zili responsibilitim kuna zoka family. And then unapata umse yana lie. Sosa umtu. Beyond redemption. Lakin yunga watu ako ibo. Kuna watu anakudanganya. Nuna natu anakudanganya. Iwi. Natu. Naku na watu ameza liwa ibo. Like they cannot arise a function. Bila lies. They lie. Bila takutaka. Una juna zata lie bila. Like nila ikotu kwa damu. Ukitaka takutaka usema ukweli. Ina tpotea tu. Una panatume lie. Apo. I understand that the people like. Nawa nja umo mohomba uskubali tuku. Tuku overtaka apa. I believe that yes it could be. Umo apia kulelewa background. Nini wapis a very major impact on people and how they relate with other people. But if unia mbe atu liza liwa ibo. Atia was born this way. Bro, liza liwa uchi. Ukili liwa ukisusu kila mahali. You cannot tell me ata apopia uli kwa anakudanganya watu. Atu umeli atu ya just crying for fun. It happens. Kuna watu anakudanganya watua. Uongatu every time. Every time. Atu kijaribo aje. Aalafu tena kama ni mse kama kuna anakudanganya watu. Kama isu uni mse piya ayuko siri asuna. We as much as ata mendeyo stepping in a next. Umse si mse ako si. Ina mbiyagwa. Kwa lav plazimu wu give. Kogoso lav dawa that he gave. He gave his only son. There is no lav without giving. There is no lav. There is what you want me to give you. I also expect you to give me something. Wunana. So it's just. Ionayo. Ionayo. Ionayo. Kitu around your ballpark, tuongele pesa. Ina pesa ina kwa nga heavy. In any kind of relationship. Man is. Ukiwa na mingi. Pesa hiwa isumbu yu watu. Kiyansaku wa kidogo. Daa poshida kidogo ina zaku ingia. But imagine someone who. Aki pukatia. Aki pukatia. Aki pukatia. Aki pukatia. Aki pukatia. Aki pukatia. Just you know give of all good things. Hadel kwa na kule tia gift. Evitama na kutza. Dei tu mengi a box. Ebe. What's the story Aisha? Nesantu mi efe hadia ni usahatra kuya kwa. Nasi wuli sumafu better for us. Ehe. Mi mi, I think. Kwa relationship. Maku aki tukamai situation. Kama iyo. You don't mind about kenye. Anakufanya. Ama watu get in return. You mind about kenye utafanya. What are you doing about it? Ebo ni pay for example kaini. Ebo ni pay for example apokitambo. Aki kwa na kutumea fea. Aki kwa na kupia staffs gift. Nama wuli kwa unafanya ni ni? Sinaresev. Sinarebe ga. Neli kwa nafairi ni nge dere. To sa mi watu in trying to say mi. Agefa afanya ni ni. Ume tuwacha rhetorical. What was she supposed to do? No, wewe wuli kwa unafanya ni ni. Sineli kwa unafanya? Hezi ni pay abure. Thank you. Nini ni. Tuwacha kucha. Tuwacha, akuna wili atakwa na ni pea tubure. Si mi bini bewangu. There is also what I am giving him. In return. In return. Wacha kuulizu. Kuna zilebitu. Sosa wuna ni pea. I am giving you services. So, Sigari wuna uki panda. Una bebangu yoga reiki kufika tauna. Sama gani ako. Una webangu yoga reiki kufika tauna. Sama gani ako. Una suka kwa nambia. Gani ni yangu sasu menda na. Apa na suwa mwa tia do. Kwa hia ni nisu mpa, ya beku pea service. Na suwa mpa kash. So, ya li kwa nani pea do mi na pea service. What are you trying to say about? I will answer the question. Very bombastic question. What was I supposed to be doing as well? Nini wuli wuli wuli upa ufa. I think you should think about what you are doing. Am I what you are giving? Don't mind about what you are receiving. I'm not Santa Claus. I am not Santa Boan. Atna tu ni kipaya na niki paya na gifts. Paya hea hata mind kenye ana receive. Ana receive ata mind kenye ana give like it's all about giving. Can we be practical? You won't tell me you are going to be in a partnership. Nha e kazi ako tu you are the provider. See next tu tam proposia. Uji baya e pete. uchane. kwa kwa kwa kwa. kwa kwa kwa. kwa kwa. Mikianda yo relationship, mliagri, mliagri similiagrim na rilihonship. Na huwa kwa relationship, muna kwa kwa changing your lifestyle to another lifestyle. Tasta, i lifestyle, you give up your other lifestyle to this. So kwa i lifestyle, ua na mind kenya, ua na leta kwa i lifestyle. Like, ua change. Na nena miles? Tini niwa willi, like misha agri. Okay. So, wewa, iki fika pointi, iki fika pointi enye, ame atya kwa ni mi... Mi mi ni me atya kwa kufanya vili kwa na fanya, ya ame atya, mi ni me atya. Spia. Ya li atya kwa ni mi? So, I think I understand now. Okay, let me... O asu shiwa, se shawte wa tu bwaan. Nime niya maza. Na shaw. I think I'm understanding, correct me if I'm wrong, but you are assuming this is a very healthy relationship. Yes. Mi mi kamaval, I know what I'm doing in here. I know my papa's in his life. I know my job is to help. So, if I, for example, get married a billion nia. Amen. Kaziangu niku misaidea ku multiply his billion, so that we move forward. Si kuzimaliza nia ya peya, he is of sound, body and mind and soul. So, ya kaziakini ku nipe, ku nipe enda. Nia kwa? Ya, ya, like... Ah, sungesa mama apema. Sasa shi dani, shi dani, shi dani we have this thing called toxicity. What happens when a person in your wit is not mature. He looks mature. Una mam, tu akiniya maza, even fools look wise on ya quiet. Una mam, tu akiniya maza unona. Ay. Una mam, tu akiniya maza ku liya. Ah, he, he, when you find out deep into the relationship, sui dani na watu dangana, we are still on... Refer to point one for point four. Sui aliku dangana, that he is wise, but maturity is not there. For better for worse. That is the main topic for better for us but you found yourself somewhere you are with someone who is not mature at all So, you are not mature at all? Yes, I am What about your relationship with someone who is not mature? But I think you should learn about the person before But if people lie, why are you forgetting if people lie? We are not mature, we are not necessary Okay We take time maybe a year We take time to learn You learn? Yes, but we are not sure if we are better for us We are not sure So, we are not sure We are not sure So, we are not sure if we are better for us We are not sure But we are not sure We are not sure We are not sure if we are better for us Yes, we are not sure But it is a question of care We are not sure We are familiar with this That is why I have been living here for two years We are not sure, but we are sure We are there for better for better For stu Paul, for vehicles and helicopters We are not sure iki tishi piyandotingafanya tzotunafanya bitu zikuue weda wa negative actually yata dropsin kufin for better and for better konu tui 넣 débutu tθia sparky piaweh ata kabladoi unaduуa masisa kum running minada fire kunu atanya toe yakeiku e for positive So atakukiku wakubaya piyoneza, shikiliya poivu. But sigiku kujama mboiawa. So the moment we say mako alka, nandiku melea mungu kunawa, suwa siitaku yatu. So let's just stick kwa for better, for better. Like let's hope for the best. Kama bila lukua mesema, kama nii opointia he provides, he's the provider single. If he provides, tunandi angwa, as a wise woman, you are, when do, when do, unan peyanga house, ana kwa homemaker, he makes it a home. You give her a seed in a kwa, a baby, kunana. Unan peyana chakula, not chakula but groceries and I make a meal, kunana. So even it is in that sense, when you provide, if I make a home, the moment atchutwa kwa nare entama or evers, we can stay in this home. The moment tzilia kudu melea, tanima invest kwa kwa tuchama twangu en watch not, but nunawulani msi mone, one thing I'll provide, I'll project whatever melea, nilomina jeribu, the lady is Amira, unaproject what you are given. So if it starts, if you are for your essence, if he was like totally alkwanani nii and I provide and he was doing what he was supposed to, atwe plus yanga, one umuwa, it's pwa kwa sayi if these have changed, kwa lady zome kwa wise and cunning na evil. Just say that's not natively dashugakot. So kunawulani e dem, maybe ukshia provide e nia, kia mekana watua and what's not, when it's kwa kwa kwa kwa e yameso, but if you treated her well and she has the fear of the lord in her, the moment wu me ni ni, wu me provide and done all that, kwa fia yami yanzatuchama toa ke, maybe me mma thru toa, batua ke, women are so good in investing, like kunapatanga, bila chalina ze invest in, kama bila de mane zakuwa, dem janga. Kunama de maybe ataki e ya, kenia pula chipo kusenere kainu. Not by iPhone X. 14. Nuna unge wu kuele. So, kuna weo dem, ule dem, homemaker. Ono jo kunama dem, wife, like ule. Wife with terror. Kabisa, kuna weo, ukshia provide e nia, kuna bituza kia mefanya, kulia da ujui, but after the moment houta kwa maybe alive, it does not have to come to that, your children will still flourish, kwa toto li muatia watua flourish, ata na bwale wa nani ibando, watu toa hende shule event, so it depends upon the maturity of them. Wulem sehashima kwa rudi kwa chali, kama mekua maybe simatua. Sindi ho. So, ngeributu one kama, muna ngeributu work things out. Pia, maturity pia, nga zasahidi, kama ni insensitif, muna nga kama ni therapy, ni nini bitu kama, pia unanda church, kama iwa zi pia, nga chesachu. Dasa bundo, wende wambi wu first to sikule, hadiesu wa rudi. Shaka wala by. Shaka wala uta kufu, uta muwacha, atakileke umimaturiti akem seh mingini. So, ya. Laki ni kwa squeeze iiwak, it does not work. Laki ni kwa ambi iiwak, kama haku anapprovite, tuwanzi haku, nga chokuna wulewa seh, kuma wulewa namseh, laki ni muna sumbuana tu, like from the word go, wulewa wumu anasema, nga hiwa tatsuna miwa manikitiawa na sana, of which is the godly way. Nga kaju ya the kids, wuna wana. But it's very, ni imbaya sana taku aku. It's bad to your emotional health. Kuna wana. So, kama piyamu lukumu na sumbuana, even before, nga badawe kujakalus job, una kana hiwa ni ni, kama badawe kwa abusive, maybe emotionally, physically. Ato, mechukua, my next question, what happens if it now enters into the realms of gender-based violence? And gender-based violence, by the way, it's not just kuchapa, nimutua na kutukana, you're not good enough. Shida kuna kuna gani, mibuna tu na kaivo, in fact, there is financial withdrawal, like, ako na, mibuna tu na badawe, shihara bizuri sana, nga jifanya, nga kasimu silentata, nga delete apia impesa. Iki yenda sana, like, there's all types of violence, there's emotional violence, there's psychological violence, mibuna tu na jaribu kumbe. Ukwa po, maybe preparing to have a job interview, or, you know, maybe you're going back to school for further studies, ama tu ni bile, for some reason or the other, you didn't get to do what you wanted to do, when you were supposed to do it, ama kumbe, eh, nga mibuna kumam jinga, kushua, kushua, eh, what happens when it enters gender-based violence, twins and the most common, physical. How physical? Wuna mibuna ni mirembu sayu, kuku did next time na black eye, semai, I fell down the stairs. Nga monga, bile matu ikonani? Stairs, ikosa kufika apa, ika kosa, ika ingia wuku. I think, kama muko, I don't think there should be gender-based violence. Kama kunayo, maybe one of them is not in tweets. How do you explain this to me? Like, sii ni lifestyle blendapa moja, ii gender-based violence ikingia, niku manisha mojawao, hayuko, like haja give up the other lifestyle to this lifestyle. Like, badu haja, like haja, haja kubali, ii na happen. Like, what I'm hearing is haku pay ndi enough to not. Ya. But what if you found out mezo ya, kaku jia kuambiata bubangwa, luku haja piga ma mango. In the sign of love. This is my love language. It's not a love language. Wei, gender-based violence is not a love language. Apana, ikunam tu nafa, aseme, like, ii onikitu ya kusema, atini, maimada, babangu piyalati, ii onikitu ya kusema, nga unikitu ya kusema, tia ni ni sana. So, aliko onafanya bizuri sana niliku jen, ikunini ii bo sasa, piyami mule zani fanya ii bo. One thing ii oni maturiti, kwa kwa kwa kwa zumbongitiviti, wei ni maturiti. Hei, ii onikitu ya rawpa ikunia, abala nili rungia mebepuale, nausiru dii, kuli ko, wanzaku niya biata ma mango, atini love language, kwa ii oni ya kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa, Uta kubali, I'm sorry, I'll never do it. No, sawa. Okay, scenario. Wajama kwa mbia, mimi na jahiru nezenda bio. The first case scenario. Okay, let me put it in a subtle way. I am saying as kumoja, ameku shawtya. If you've not done anything wrong, but ameku jana kavaio, let's see kushawtyu wa ati. Oh, mini baby girl, what is she shawtyu? No, like yelling, like nikama na tika, like na kuhu, nushae ono anome, kenda kufaiti venyu wongia. Before the things start thinking, eh, that one, eh. First sign, second sign, ah, kukaribia, wei wu kuapo, ana gongu wukuta, na wukuta yu kuapa, so that is basically almost, wu kukaribu kuwa wukuta, na wukongi. Una tkaku na mbia, utangoja slap, ndo ujweni serious. But you know, jidu yu kama ni bila tuli ziwa, wei, like kwee men tunafa, wu kondrum so many things. Eh, sifu better for us. Eh, ati, ati watia yu? So vumi liye juhia watoto. Eh, vitu kama iso, asu na pata, unabile, 2 stuiko conditions, kondition, kukuwa, like, tuna set so much bullshit, baka tu nama ni kama ni pata, utu kia wasana wa dogo. Una pata, wei do na usha biyomo, bruna kwa na cheza hindi. Una get. Like, una na iyo, yu kitu, afadu liyata mprokwa kwa pekiyake, usangetu biyomo, like, amezalua pekiyake, but now see, we have brothers who are dogo, how many things here. But ni kama wu na expecto, kwa mma iao, in a very, at a very early age. So yu kama na jiu, kitu, kwa ben. La foko se u kwa fast one. Exactly. So so wei wei, mesa wuata kuru di home, you should make sure wa toto wakupua, wame ushua, wume kwa mama, wume kwa mama nuko. Assistant, parents. What do you expect? What do you expect kum toto ata kiguro, ata kihwa mitumu kubuwa? Ya na jo, ya ni kazi ake ni kiateki. Kiateki. Kiateki. Kazi ako. So, semu me kaya, braba kwa na za kuchapa, na ni mprokwa ako. So you know it happens. Then, mma kwa na pana kana. Ya! Let me talk to my brother real quick. Ato wa kia wa doa. Don't be incited bro. Achi sa hii, sa hii isunam perleka, mbeme. We are saying like, ili eji dogu, usikunazile feciski dogu, kidogo zili kwa za wata wato brama kwa na kugonga. Pachuna pachama mma kukuna brile, nikama badu, sawa wame kuchapa badu. Unona, kuna brile nikama ata kumfweba badu. Ni kumumuana ume. Una desh, like ni muwana ume. Siyo wana elewa. So what do you expect kum toto ata kiguro? Ata zoe ato. So what do you expect kum to bepia roya kia mepia milia kia mepia hoopszake? Like, you know the moment dey mamesha for unilav niivo. Like, asha kwa, like samha umjinga. Siyo. Ha ha ha ha. Like ima india kia kuri zon, wizuri, ine nanalan wide. Umse ya kutua popo love, boru umtutu lisha kwa naia ya. Okay. Kuna mimuflani mese ma, kisha fika 30, wezi zanzokusema wo my background. When do you background? Nisao. So now, some of you have purchased a bit of zote. Maybe you are bringing was a bit shady. Maybe you yourself, you went through gender-based violence in survival. Aya lafu. Now uta eo lewa, amu utajkutu umu meo lewa na umutu wa nakbiga. As in, how do we unlearn? Konza, eo ya kuchapwa na bradam dogo, inakwa ni kama kupratis superioriti na inferioriti. Kwa unlearn that it's a bit difficult, it takes a lot. But I think, ina linga na nga na bilewa, una believe ama una take things. For example, uki uki, uki wa kwa eo relationship, seme. Eo ine, wana practice superioriti in inferioriti, I think you should seek help. Maybe when the mwangeleshre, canceling and stuff. That's my only therapy. Uga jwa, kuna maomi. Kuna maomi, niku skizana na God. Kiki weima kufu bilewe. Kuna chofa uti. Kuna chofa uti kumu asana. Kuna jwa, God ana penda peace. Kuna elewa. Lakin ni haku sema, kama iya, ya shaka hola, uniyone, ukose kula, leiki wata ni suicide. Mungu wa chukwangi suicide materials, wewa umenda kwa de God Direct. Una get. Unless mungu na weku ito, mekufa na uru kwa, a good one, doa utaizana in the heaven, that's given. Atawe niwa jwe Bible. Lakin niwa kuna bilewa atiwa, niwa kwa pa india, tijiwa na depressions ako sawa, ina hit. Aku na mtu like mimi. Isu bitu ni bitu ni bitu atu wa na pitiya. But you cannot kill yourself, because not you thing is killing yourself and the expert ati, mungu wa meskia. So biu sikai apa, ugongo e, ukufe, wuna fukiyamu wada kuchuwa tijiwa, ukufe tijiwa, aven full wise, nulikubali uchabu, ukufe. So biu sikai, kuna ni. So it's not work that way. So di derapi, derapi unamiwa. What happened in your childhood na upatem sempoa, anakupe leka, steps ki dogo, ki dogo, ki dogo. Kaniwa ulize, now instead of waiting for the worst to happen, so turn the therapy first, before we start saying for better for worse, amma. Actually, na fa. Can we please, just talk it out. Okay, yes, naka poa, tunaka poa, tunaka poa pamoja. Sawa. Ukona ita lent, minkona ita lent, tukizu leta pamoja, we can make something happen. But everyone comes with baggage, wana. No one is perfect, I have my baggage, you have your baggage. Kuna wile tunesa enda tu therapy, kwanza, kabla tuwanze life. Ndotone kama, tunapenda na, tunapenda na, tunapenda na, tunapenda na. But love is not what things put to the table. Love will not sustain years and years and years. Nisawa. Yes, mamona tuneta therapy first before we start seeing for better for. Why are you waiting for the worst to happen dotone therapy. Okay kukusik for help before we go to sawa, I think. It should be so. Muna anata kuwa chaats chaats, basi anailewa mo na anata keile fluo kea the best. Mamana o kikia wachatu ki sa mamana tata kumari, ndotone kwa kokal shrink mama therapy whatever professional. m mm but mm mm mm ...w raibu na kizi indirect moldu neku na uhuja entre kapo maia shamana Tema nama marshmallow mashida mashi because muli oana do muli penana na ona but there are so many things that we need to know so therapy is the best sour see must kila watu juku na watu but now for saahi jui habili yatabili life may change depression is like everywhere so saahi uta jua uta kana mitu mundi therapy na mimi zipsi na mimi kueni chali kuna bade mbro kisi rani kuna bade mbro chafu uta enda apie uju e uta enda opata talabda chali ya metulia and what's not uta enda opata maybe u dem u kimi na madoa ama kikosa food ama kikosa kitu yu reakta haji uta anza pukunja pukunja pukunja pukunja uta uju ea apie uju ea kifutua kazi ama kuja nangumi kwenyumba yus kubeta fawaz kimi jua, kimi penda nangimi kwenyumba however you sealed it ali kuana mado mado mado mado nini wabi and then seasons change for everyone there's some seasons that favor others nani season emphasize season as nita kuja kuisha nisawa so for example if he loses his job and now he was not he's not providing for you as he used to for better for us tamuwacha as up to kumongelesya sato unafanyaga kazi gani kwenyumba kazi tu niku kato netflix tu adunam darao, mindi me buy food me kato, meno na tu kwa wabi la kwa wabi la wabi la kwa wabi la kuna fawaz ni for better for better adakama job ime enda kuna fawaz kuenda unenda wenda wabi kwa wabi na kwa wabi na kwa wabi sure li na i don't think that's an option so utaka na really? kwa sure i'm trying to explain to her i'm trying to paint a picture for you ok maybe jukoro wasafini kama for the sake of the story ni kupero uchaw uli kuja kwa umtu jo ali kwa he gave something to you like you are only here because of what he can do for you and now he can no longer do it utaka apu, for better for us kama uli enda apu jo ya kitu ali kufanya then si fikiri unafa kwa apu adi there's no point jo kini ya kwa apu already kwa kwa datu scenario jo ni kwa when you say money in a sound superficial think of it as a lifestyle uli kuona ishi kare boana sayo unafa kwa mishwa watana isi shautia smiss jasuna kitu isi shautia motu isi lifi sababs ya ni ukitoka tu hivi harufu tu hewa fresh, meaty everywhere ya nasi usyago ala fusa mustu ame for better for us ina lingana but sinisezon sinisezon tu naitaisha utaka baby i love you i will feed you i will pay the rent i will pay your fare baby i will take you out doko pa tia doko pa tia doko pa tia na kueni wu yu kablachkuli when size talks me it depends na biliatio ane iso duwa like a princess ahah skiza sita kiku kwa negative for better for better sasa una jo kuna mstu na upiangaruna bado anakumi straight situ kwa una juwa iwa anakpiga lafa nuklete ama wa baby sorry unagungo angumi na kini buwa enda enda enda pula pula kuna mstu ako ebo so the moment hana na poera wakati hana sasa wakati hana pia kuna yule natural uta revenge uta wakata uta uta revenge aya uta revenge lakini biliatio baby uta na pa juwa una kumi akumchapa akuna de machu da kuchapana na mwana ume kuna suko yuko tu si suko kwa limpe lengariha na na belazna saidizi mizu oni tera piba adu sasa yame kwa vizuri sota ita depend na wiliu ane straight at that time kuma get kama likwan ane straight vizuri na kosa do it's only ata kwa kwa kwa datu uni tukachi hako, kwa nakinani kwa kwa ya mha kwa mwa kwa kwa kwa netiki hwenna wahaitu. na kwa kwa secha kwa kabahili na kwa kwa kwa nani, kwa kwa kwa paba kwa kwa ni kwa nani Jumeni Guziana said, Gany, alafu na jita baby boy, yu baide ma nanza kwa abuse yu ota Na niwa nanza kwa nanza kwa wengia AGBTQ, susa wna jisa wna nanza kwa naka uma makilogo So it happens eh, wna na kuprobaidi waa No comments Wana wana probaidi waa, the moment wna kata kuprobaidi kuprobaidi Susa mimi nide mi ya kusilio Na umefika place, wewemwe nyewe uma onahia kuma nanza li parent Akuna kitutama kuma kupa niwa kila kitu Uso nani piya wajui ibo So uso nani the moment wama nesha wana zanda nga dunda na gariya kwa nanda w-r-c W-e Nani affect Aeneyakan kwa nyouba na wetflixt M Kukaa haba chutere So it depends on biyo na k waste So pia hea kama utaku wa ni nina hea tu liye, iyo nayo apana. So ni umesama ni duration. Nita kulea mwa kamaoja, wuki figara utia korevas. Nenu kutoka mwa kaya apili, enu kwa uza mwa kaburu. Toka inje. Do something. Ah, do something. Luka numba. Acha, acha ni wasome comments ki dogo, ki dogo tu. And then I have two last question. Sd time ni nga nga apitri kende lea tuivi. Yung John, amesama, please do me a favor. What you want young John? How can we help you today? Piriti, so it has had lemuru, locked, kamakawa and man James. Ah, yes actually tumo nga lea tuvi. So I read the comment before he started. But eh, lot of people are not in love there. In love with what the person can do for them. Selecta. I see you Luwanda in asma locked from Ibubi Regi family. Jah, rastafari. Nga kwa kia kabitika sayana po. Michi Piriti says when it comes to to engage you promise something things you can't even afford to do. No, even have time to think about it. That's why people start losing it if you can't do it. Because promises you made once true. Relationship was built with two promises not fake again. Hawa na umezao has jai. So it's good to be worth. Oh, okay. All right. I think solusioni e tui inye meto kasa e ku discuss ni please. If you intend to get into something there you say yes. Just seek help. Mwawili. Ukiwatu peki ako. Get to know yourself. Seek help alone. It's okay to just random to go to a therapist. Natu afrika tu jazue zivitu. But eh, just. Nino na mimuflani. Ati kuna pasta. Pasta mani bishop. Bishop. Pesitu inani e liyenda kuomba e students wa fomfo. Ati wana enda kumalisa exams. Sayaya menda missing na stude. Wa mail up. Ati wana enda kuomba e ati. Wana enda kuomba e ati. Fomfo's. Mupite. I bless you. Musifunki wana setan termi e exam. Mukiki la kitu. Oh. Kabla maumbi jai sya. Ali chupati e bibi apu. Kama menda ne. So, I was going to say be prayed for, but you know just men and women. We are humans by the way. Eh, ayata. Ati kibwe says we blame the taxes. Kuna kuwagatuna ako kakoment. President must go. Relationship kihenda. President must go. Okay. Fabian Siza says ato e kifika apu kwa wa sutangodja. Wa tu siwaji. Wa tu siwaji inga boala. Siwaji inga boala. Jack Freshers says tuned. Pedrog. Junior ame check atu. Siwaji apu. Siwaji kama ni swali e pa ni picha, but ame check atu. That's Kevonzi says in a jungle massive. Says, your life in survival, when your survival need is threatened, you run for your life. Promises make sense in the present. But just wait. Eh, kulemo ame shas mani di bangi. Ha, bangi mawa fanya ni nisha. Bangi me toko api. What is the problem? Eh, wanjala ame soma ni depression. It could be very true. Just the other day I was watching some. Siwaji kama mauna yo video, umsana ana, ana patiya, magavana. What's wrong with you? Do you even know an antidepressant? Name one antidepressant. Do you know? No. Mauna. Aujui. Maluko. Usalimiki. But I can't believe it. Anuza ujiwabi. Anuza ujiwabi ujiwabi. As kumbuki county. Anuza ujiwabi. But she was so articulate. Ude makotu sawa. She deserves like... Governor, I studied with your children. Moja ako UK sai. Umingine ako Australia. Australia, really. Eh. Anuza, doctor, zia yo video to say. Kasino Kalu says, pia presa. Pia presa inezo. Enya, pia presa. Yani, the fear of being alone inezok fanya wengi relationship ine hofa iko. Pia presa inezo, pia presa inezo. Pia presa inezo, pia presa inezo. Pia presa inezo, pia presa inezo. Pia presa inezo, pia presa inezo. Edgahansa. Wanyawuru says, Leave your life. This day. I'm a trekia kalinga pale apple. And then if someone cannot lie to lianza na iyo wengi inezo, iyo si relationship. Kwa wedwa keyboard. Oh, I have missed you. Hi, where have you been? Says, pamaoja, Keitenshiko AEN. And then we have Kamao. Musinango. Eh, I see you. Good morning. Peter Wandoasi says, hata mimi na shanga. Muna shanga. For better for us, for us. Shwee. Atoh me shanga. Peter Wandoasi says, Makmi present. Ui unani jua. Take, kwa rollko. Makmi present from Kisei. Nyamache, Kitu Ikondani. Hadim Wishos. Saimo wa zi. Zitima. Ahokangoma ka lienda aji. Alienda. So it's good morning. Chai tea. Nyatuka. So it's good morning. Uta si mama. Anyway, nikika for us, nita leta testimony. Funa wabalu. Ya, funa wakotu. Mofad last one says, most wongo lalzima. Eh, okay. Labdaho lisa sirikali babare. Alright, soa. Tuki ma lizi ya guys. Your last sentiments, inner sentence, tafadali. Because I think time has run away from us a bit. Wanja waju lakstami. Inner sentence. Whether you want to inspire someone, uta ku bigam tu, nisi ku nime salamu tu kosanebure. Okay. Niki ni niza sema, kwa relationship mkingia kwa relationship. Please don't mind about what you're receiving. Just mind about what you're giving. That is granted mwenye un kwen relationship nia kona kili. Na roho. Na utu. See of course tu tamlan kuanda. Ya, ya. Chai tea. Why? Kusuma ni nile. Aponi ina sentence ndoshida because kuna manenu na jua. I tell you. So, let's be, kwa wise, na tu ombetu pata na right person. Eh man. Na tu ombetu pata na right person. Lakin ni usi, usi tumie, nga kama iwak, nga ni terapi kama iwak, usi nga ufewsende, ufane, suicide, jiam seine, atabaki badu, atawa, atolewa, atena tia machaliwa na jua, jua love. I happy, apresha kama isha ako. Apresha, chaku babana na watuna, kuna nini, kwa naji tanga, brain jute ni a comedian wa Nigeria. Uhum. Nga seima ukuapu, nga seima my friends wakona gari, mi misina. Uhum. My friends wakona mabibi, mi misina. Nga na kuliza, skuna yua friends, wame kufa. Nga hojda. Mono epe uja kufa. Nga geto. Kupi apresha, yoni jinga of the highest order. So, live your life. Wambika na maisha ako. Pray to God. That's us. Tsu nasali mi anatitizawa nga. Salamo, mast. Eh, to my daughter, my family, my friends, wakona nga na nionapa. All of you, and we love you, Val, and we are happy to be here. Oh, thank you. Thank you for coming. Appreciate you both, Manja and Chaiti. It's always a very good time here on set. Mi misi wezi kupatia relationship advice, sinamoto. Nisawa. Wewe, we just have your good time. Ujbende. Hashtag is WCW. It has been such an honor to have you on the show. Such an honor to be here. Just here in your presence. Thank you. Thank you for allowing us for that particular honor. And from myself, Valentine and Grasha Maengimi. Thank you. Thank you so much and I wish you a fantastic day. But remember, our hotline is always open at YPF on Facebook, Y254 channel on X or previously Twitter. On Instagram, same thing, threads, TikTok, YouTube, all of those wonderful social media platforms. Now we gotta go, but you have to stay because we still have so much to offer you as a channel. Don't miss out. Okay?