 Finances can be just it can create feelings of shame of I don't have enough money or I you know I and then in other people it can create feelings of fear I think some people spoke about money as survival tokens And if you don't feel like you are financially secure it can actually be a really fearful space to be in so that's why Conversations around money can feel really loaded and I think it's very interesting in our society We'll ask what is probably the second question. We are someone at a Christmas party is are you so you seeing anybody? You know we go right in there don't we but can you imagine just games like how much did you earn? Last year we just we wouldn't do it Which is very funny that we have this kind of intrusive approach and this we need to fix your approach to someone who's single But finances feel really difficult to talk about