 Welcome to Psychic Medium, Tony Green. I am Tony Green, The Psychic Medium, and we are going to get the show going right away after all my PSA announcements, of course. Okay, so first and foremost, I will never reach out to you to ask you if you want a reading, if you need a reading, and tell you you need work, never ever. If somebody reaches out to you, please ignore them. They're probably trying to scam you. Second, this show airs on many stations from WSCS to Rude Rangers TV and many streaming channels, almost all the podcasts, if not all the podcasts, and radio stations. So please, when you're asking questions, just remember that. If you want to put your stuff out there, I don't mind. I'm happy to put it out there with you. Just remember that. And then third, hey, Stevie, how are you today? Hey everybody, tomorrow is Steven's birthday. So February 2nd, he'll be 41. Yep, he will. If you'd like to join the show live, you can join any Monday or Wednesday at noon central. 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I don't see how the Heather Kathy's here today. Cheryl, hey, Cheryl. Steve is here, Steve, hey, how are you? Moe is here, Rebecca's here. Hey, everybody, thank you so much for joining us, Karen is here here. Okay. So the way I'm going to handle questions, the way I always try to handle questions is the people who have been waiting online have been waiting for even before the show started, the people waiting in the call log. So I tried to do them in order received. So I'm going to take a couple calls from the call log and then I will come over to the chat and answer some questions from the chat. If I miss your question, please repost it once I start answering questions, okay? In the chat, in the YouTube chat. And listen, if you get disconnected from blog talk, whether it's before I answer the call, after I answer the call, I don't have control over that. I apologize that that happens, but I don't have control over that. So I'm sorry, I'm very sorry if that happens, but that's not, sometimes just technology, maybe the phone goes dead, I don't know what, but I don't have control over that. Okay. And Amy, I will be getting your song to you soon and it's actually coming from Robbie today, but let me go to caller 860. 860, what's your name and where are you calling from? Hello, 860, you're welcome. What's your name, where are you calling from? Hey, Lisa, how can I help you today? It's going to settle soon, and if it's going to settle out of quarter, if they're gonna drag me into a retrial for someone walking their dog up to me. It is, okay, so whether it's at all soon, everybody has their own definition of what soon is, but I do feel like it's gonna, it is gonna, it is gonna end sooner than you think. I do feel like there is going to be another round of negotiation and it's up to you if you accept the amount, obviously, if they offer an amount or if they try to negotiate it out, if you don't accept that amount, they might have to take it to court. I think they just think you're gonna get tired of fighting, like you'll just give in and you won't, you're not going to. I'm hearing the song, I've got two tickets to Paradise, and I would normally sing that, but somebody hasn't for me as though I didn't know. I'm not even going there today, but that song, I've got two tickets to Paradise, pack your bags, we'll leave tonight. Okay, so that verse to that song is coming in, which tells me that the settlement offer is coming in soon. It is coming in soon, and that it might not be the whole amount that you think you're going to get, but it's going to be very close. They know they're in the wrong, they know they're guilty, they just don't want to, they just don't wanna pay, they just don't want to pay. So what I'm getting is they're just gonna keep fighting and thinking they won't have to, but they're going to have to pay, and the longer that they carry this on, the worse it's going to be for them. So I would definitely don't give in and don't concede, and I feel like it's gonna settle, there will be that offer coming in soon, okay love? You are so welcome, you have an amazing day, and we will chat again soon, and good luck with your case, and I'm sorry for what happened, I truly am. You are welcome. So Cindy or Amy, Amy, Amy May, sorry, the song that's coming through today, I hear Robbie, Robbie, Robbie, and then I'm hearing the song. I'm all out of love, I'm so lost without you. And now I am softly hearing the next verse, I'm not being able to make out the word. And the next thing I'm hearing, Amy, is that you are going to have an epiphany tomorrow night tonight or tomorrow night, and this epiphany is going to help you to understand some of what's going on with everything. Sit in silence and allow, I know you do this, but sit in silence and allow the information to permeate you, to permeate you. I feel like within a month, there's going to be some contact, and then, but we'll see what happens. So Amy, I hope that's very, very helpful for you, and Amy is actually in the chat, everybody. So that's a question that came in before the show started, okay? I'm going to go to the very next caller, who is 920-920, what's your name and where are you calling from? 920, hello, 920. Okay. Hello. Hi, what's your name and where are you calling from? Hey, Don. From Wisconsin. Don, how are you? How are you? I'm doing best again. Oh, it's so wonderful to hear from you, sweetie. Oh my goodness, oh my goodness. Okay, sweetie, how can I help you today? Okay, so to the second part, why you're not feeling him, you're not ready yet. So one of the things that happens very, very often when somebody first passes, especially if it was a shock or we are very emotional, sometimes we don't feel that person because it would be so heart-wrenching or devastating to us. And we think it won't be, but trust me it is. We wake up and we're going through all that pain of losing them all over again in some cases when we have those dreams or we have that feeling of them. And then we don't want them to go. We don't want to lose that feeling. And then we go through the feeling of the loss again. And believe me, I've gone through it with people that I've lost to and with Max and Bella. I totally like, even if Max and Bella come in my dreams, I'm like a wreck for a day. I can't even talk about it right now. So what I'm going to say to you is that the messages he has for you, the first word I'm seeing is or hearing is bear. And then I see Kodiak bear. Now this is going to have its own meaning for you than it does for me. Now, when I see Kodiak bear, I don't know why I see that chewing tobacco, which probably makes no sense to anybody, but it's just a confirmation of some sort. That's the first thing I hear is bear, like a B-E-A-R bear, like a big black or brown bear. I don't know. And then maybe that's because he was like a teddy bear or like a big old bear. I don't know. But then the next thing that he wants to say to you is take the trip, cook the meal, live your life. Don't stop because, don't stop. Just do the things and do more. Do the things and do more. The other thing that he would say is that he wants you to, okay, yeah, do all the things you wanted to do when he was there, but couldn't or wouldn't do and then do them now. That's what this time period is for. Like I don't know what, and this might not be literal, Don. It really might not be literal, but I'm hearing like, take the cruise. I'm seeing Florida. I'm seeing, now to me, Florida, it could mean go to Florida or take the cruise. I'm seeing that one of my symbols for Florida is all the cruise ships lined up. So it could mean take the cruise. It could mean just go to Florida, hang out, be in the sun for a minute. But do the things, do the things, do all the things. Do all the things. As we can see, tomorrow isn't promised. It's sometimes we think it's gonna be there and it's not. So don't just go and do and enjoy, okay, love? And I do want to say that I feel like he is always with you. He's showing me he's with you. Now he can be with you. And perhaps you're still very numb to everything that happened, so you might not be feeling it as much. And if we go on, if we have certain medications that we're doing or things that we're doing, sometimes we don't feel the presence as much. But what I'm gonna tell you is he's with you, he's always with you. I see him being right next to you. I see him being right next to you. And as he's right next to you. I'm surprised he's not fishing. Well, no need for that anymore. That's his word. His exact quote is no need for that anymore. So please know he's with you. He's always with you, but he wants you to separate a little bit before you full on feel him. So it's not so devastating to you. I hope that makes sense, love. I have to find a place to live. And I would love to get in a two bedroom condo, but it's hard to find a main level condo in the area that I'm in in Howard, Wisconsin. Okay, so I'm gonna say, sweetie, there is something coming in, be patient. And you're not supposed to be alone right now. So don't rush things. Allow things to happen the way they're happening. Allow the time to go by. Again, do some traveling while you're looking and waiting. I do feel like you might change your perspective on where you want to land, if you will, where you want to settle or put roots in again. So please be open to all different choices. And I am hearing that you should be traveling. You should be exploring. You should be out there. And I do feel like, I honestly feel like things going to come in that's going to change your perspective. And it's not time for you to be by yourself yet. It's not time for you to be alone or by yourself yet. So don't worry about it. That time will come. But don't push it and don't rush it, okay? Travel, buddy. I mean, I feel like if I'm gonna travel, I'm gonna travel with who? He was a guy. He was the one that I was supposed to be with. You might be surprised at who else would love to travel. I think maybe you can go places and go see Michelle, spend some time with Michelle. Go see other people and spend time with them. Get out of your element. Get out of the bubble. Get out of the hub is what I'm hearing for you, okay, sweetie? Okay, all right. I'm so grateful you called in today. I just think of most. I really am grateful you called in today. I just love talking with you, sweetie. I miss you too. Well, maybe we'll have to get together soon. Absolutely. I'm getting ready to start looking at Florida times too. So we can travel there together and go our own ways or hang out together or whatever you want, okay, sweetie? That would be a blast. I would enjoy that. Me too. Okay, love, I'm gonna go to the next caller, but thank you so much for calling in. I hope that you're having an amazing day and we will chat again soon. Thank you very much, hon. You are welcome. Bye. Bye-bye for now. I'm gonna go to a question on the YouTube chat. I hope everybody's having a great day. If you would like to call in the number is 845-277-9131. And the next question I'm gonna take on the chat is, hi, Tony, do you know if I'll hear from my son this year? His name is Zach and he's 26 and he's estranged from me. Karen, I'm really, really sorry and it breaks my heart to say this, but your chances are as of right now, the way everything says no, that's not gonna be coming in this year. I feel like perhaps mid next year. Now, if he reaches out this year, it's going to be because of something he wants, something maybe tangible that he wants. So yeah, I feel like even if he does reach out, you have to be careful. Even next year, mid next year, May, June of not this year, but next year, I think it's next year. If he reaches out, it's for something tangible. So be very, very careful about that, okay? I wanna say hi to Heather and Patrick and Mo again. Thank you guys so much for being here and joining me. If you do have a question, you can pop it in. I'm gonna go to the next caller and then I'll come back to a question. The next caller is 860860. What's your name? Where are you coming from? Hi Tony, it's Amla, how are you? Hey, I'm good, Amla, how are you? I'm doing good, I'm doing good. Happy February to you. New month, right? Yep, new month. Got any positive about me? New beginning, yep. I always think February is new beginning. Absolutely, and I just, I'm excited because I don't know if it's about you, if we had a mild, at least we're having a mild winter, so that's good. Yeah, we are, I mean, we just got snow, so I mean, that's pretty awesome. So how can I help you today, love? Yeah. Sure, so I'm wondering, I'm going to, February is filling up with events and me with my books and stuff, and just wondering. Okay, I see that you are going to meet Okay, partnership-wise, non-romantic, yes, you're going to meet some business people, some people that you're going to be doing business with. Some, I don't know if they're publishers or what, but you're going to meet some people that you'll be doing business with. On a personal level, that's not going to come in until March. So if you're looking for that partner, personal, intimate, partners, possible, intimate, partnership, that's not coming until March. The one thing they're saying is, be the, hold on a second, be the, like, when this person comes in and March, be the, like, be the diamond. I'm just going to say it the way I'm hearing it. I was trying to, I know what they mean by this and I was trying to get the full meaning, but they're making me say it the way they want me to. Be the diamond, be elusive, be like, listen, there's only one of me, so whatever that means for you, don't get too invested in the other person right away. Wait to see what they're about. Wait to see what they are, if they're compatible in many different areas and then go from there. I do feel like March is the month this person is going to be coming around. And I feel like even if I had to pin down a date, it might be March 28th to the 29th. I do feel like you will be very giddy around this person and they're asking you to hold back on that. They're asking you to, it's okay to be, like a little giddy, but don't put everything on the table. Don't show all of your, like be a little bit reserved. My cards. Yeah, be a little bit reserved. Yeah, I get it. And that's what they have for you, love. Wonderful. Yep, interesting. Absolutely, so there's a person coming in March and it's, there's a possible connection there. And I'm not, I'm just gonna, don't be offended. I'm gonna put you on mute while I talk for a moment about this. So sometimes when we get into a relationship and we like feel we're very compatible with the other person or we feel like we know this has the potential to go someplace because of A, B and C, whatever it is, we can tend to be a little bit over excited or put our cards on the table or start to miss steps in the relationship or just let the other person know they got us. That's the way to say it. We let the other person know they've got us. And what I'm hearing here is, you know, we have to date kind of more like men do in some ways. Like men will know within, definitely within three months, but sometimes by that third date, they've already categorized women as to, this is somebody I'm gonna be friends with benefits. This is somebody I'm going to be serious about. Now, even if they decide they're going to be serious about us, that doesn't mean we can just f off and find out, okay? We can't f around and find out. We can't be total basket cases and try to minute, because then they're just gonna change your mind. Men look at relationships more as a business sense than not like I'm buying this, but in a business way, like, does this make sense? Does this relationship make sense? They're not driven by their emotions the way women are. And sometimes in the beginning of a relationship, that's the way we have to look at it. Also, if you're in that place to be in a relationship, does this make sense? Are we compatible on every level? Are we both bringing things to the table that will make this business work? And I've always, I've often said, like a relationship is similar to a business where you both have to have, you know, would you, first of all, would you trust this person with the keys to your business? Would you trust them with the keys to the register, the bank account? Would you want them in your business? Do you know they have the same business goals as you? Now, when we change the word from relationship to business, it puts a whole new spin on it, and we can look at it completely differently. So if I say, would you trust this person in your bed? Most women in today's world would be like, yeah, it's just sex. Yeah, it's just this. It's just, but when we talk about business, like you are the business, and you're letting somebody into your business, discerning about that, about who's aligned to your business with you. Because the people we bring into our lives will either elevate us on a business level, keep us at the same place, or de-escalate us on a business level. The people we bring into our lives, they raise our energy, keep our energy the same, and some can even deplete our energy or take our energy down. We need to make sure the people we're allowing into our lives as friends, partners, business people, relationship, whatever it is, they have the same goals of building and growing and that we don't feel like they're getting, I don't wanna say it that way, but we can't always be giving. We can't always be the one that's putting out and giving and not getting back. We need to make sure everybody has an equal stake in the relationship or as we're terming it here business. You wouldn't let a business partner come in and then just you do all the work and they get the rewards, F that, we're done. We're done, we're done with that. We're not gonna F around and find out any more about that whether we're male, female, we're in a straight or otherwise relationship. We're not doing that anymore, not at all. No matter what kind of relationship, no matter who we are, we're not doing that any longer, not at all. Okay, everybody, I love you so stinking much. Thank you so absolutely much for joining me here today. I will be back Monday, but given the fact, I'm gonna feel a little bit better this weekend. I'm coming on Friday or Saturday night to do another show if you did not get through today. Come back, subscribe or do whatever you need to do. Watch for my thing wherever you get notification. And I will try to be back this weekend to do another show. I love each and every one of you so absolutely much.