 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته ورحمة مباشرة مع الم�هيث تص всп ربما ليك By Umm Al Liebani ويجب أن ترى لكم all for the death anniversary of Um al-Baneen. أحب أن أردتنا اليوم مع نفسنا. دعاء مقظومي. السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته. عليكم السلام وبركاته. سيستدعاء. Who was Um al-Baneen? Um al-Baneen. She is the glorious mother of al-Abbas. Her name was Fatima, the daughter of Huzam. Her father, Huzam, was the most renowned personalities of the Arabs and the Shaif of his people. The ancestors of this great lady Um al-Baneen are well known for their horsemanship, herism, bravery and courage. ونمام علي عليه السلام he lost his beloved wife Fatima al-Zahra. The daughter of the Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him. He simoned his brother عقيل who was a well-known genealogist and to ask for him, to search for him a lady who is a being of a descendant of heroes. In order for him to get a son who would be immaculate, brave and a hero like al-Abbas. عقيل told him لا أرى لك إلا Fatima but Huzam I do not find anyone suitable for you other than Fatima, the daughter of Huzam. So they went to propose to Um al-Baneen. And before even Um al-Baneen was born الله سبحانه وتعالى chose her to be the wife of Ali and she took this mission. Huzam her father Ibn Khalid he was once on a trip with his family and friends and relatives. And this is a very nice story. He said that once when he was on the trip he was sleeping and he saw in his dream that he was in a dry desert segregated from his relatives and friends and in his hand he was holding a diamond. He was twisting it with his fingers and he was amused in its beauty. Suddenly a man on a horse comes towards him and greeted him and asked him how much will you sell this diamond? Huzam said I don't know how much it's worth how much will you buy it? The man also said I don't know how much it's worth but I advise you to gift it to a prince who is more valuable than money and gold. Huzam said will you guarantee all this to me? He said yes and you will be favorite to him? You will have the nobleness and the honor for the rest of your life. Give it to me and he gave it to him. Now when Huzam woke up from his dream he mentioned what he had seen in front of his family and friends and relatives. One of them told him Huzam if your dream will come true then Allah will bless you with a girl where a great glorious man will marry her and you will be honored you will be favorite to him and you will have the nobleness And when Huzam came back from his trip his wife Thumama Batsuhaid was giving birth at that time and she gave birth to a girl when they congratulated him and told him Huzam you have a girl now congratulations he said لقد صدقت رؤي my dream has become true and they asked him what would you name her he said no better name other than name Fatima وكنوها بأم البنين give her a nickname أم البنين and it was a usual thing in the Arab time when a child was born they would give him or her a name and a nickname so for example يدهاب الحسن عليه السلام his nickname المشتبا يدهاب الحسين his nickname was أبا عبدالله you'd have someone like Al-Abbas you'd have a nickname أمر بني هاشم so it was a usual thing and there are several reasons why he gave her this nickname one of them due to her Aunt Layla she was also brave and at the same time she also had four sons or three sons I recall and her father took that nickname from her aunt's name and he gave it to her along that أم البنين عليه السلام had four sons her elder son was Al-Abbas and her young son was Jaafar and in between was عبدالله so she's the mother of the sons أم البنين and this great lady she raised her four sons to how to respect the two imams from a different mother their brother from a different mother even one day she told العبس عليه السلام أو صن عبس when you sit in front of your brother حسين do not sit with him as if you are sitting in front of your brother sit with him as if you are sitting in front of your master yes you are the son of Ali but don't forget that his mother is فاطمة الزهراء which fellow wife is so sincere to her step sons as much as أم البنين عليه السلام was عليه السلام that was beautifully said and you spoke about some of the qualities أم البنين stood up for being أم البنين for example the mother of the sons do you have anything other than her title what else did she stand up for she stood up for فاطمة الزهراء she stood for إمام عليه السلام she stood for الحسين she stood for زي نب she even stood for the sake of Allah now let's talk about her standing for فاطمة الزهراء because if you look at it she stood for فاطمة الزهراء in so many different ways one of them she took care of her orphans حسين حسين زي نب and أم كالثوم she was so sincere with them that she did not deny them anything and she was so sincere with them even that when she was newly married and علي بن أبي طالب called her فاطمة by her first name she told him او علي do not call me by my name فاطمة he said to her why? this is the name that I love I love this name she said to him او علي I am afraid that if you call me by my name حسين حسين زي نب and أم كالثوم will recall and remember their mother's name and in that case I'll put some sorrow and pain in your orphans hearts your children's heart she stood she sacrificed four of her sons for the sake of one of her son imagine that she stood for فاطمة زهرة علي سلام even when العباس علي سلام was departuring to Karbala with his brother المام حسين she told him او عباس I have one word with you he came to her oh yes mother what do you want she said to him do not embarrass me in front of فاطمة زهرة علي سلام sacrifice yourself for حسين and each mother that sacrificed her son for فاطمة زهرة she would come in front of فاطمة زهرة and would tell her oh Fatima I sacrificed my son for you so أم البني علي سلام did not want to be the mother with four sons and she did not sacrifice them all she even told العباس make sure that your brother sacrificed themselves for حسين and it is known in Karbala العباس was the last one your brother أولاد أمي came in front you wanted to make sure that each and one of them would be a martyr them for the sake of إمام الحسين علي سلام and he was the last one to make his mom's message and will come true he did not want to embarrass her so when أم البني she stood for فاطمة زهرة in so many ways she stood for إمام علي for being his wife for taking care of his children for raising عباس علي سلام she stood for إمام الحسين when she sacrificed her sons for him when she took care of him she stood for زيناب علي سلام when they came back from the martyrdoms of حسين they had to mourn and cry and they were together she stood for الله سبحانه وتعالى because she sacrificed for Allah's sake she sacrificed إمام الحسين was battling for إسلام for the teachings for humanity for Allah's teachings to remain since أم البني sacrificed her sons for that sake she stood for الله سبحانه وتعالى yeah so she stood for many reasons she did indeed especially when she looked up to إمام الحسين despite having before her blood her blood sons being she treated إمام الحسين more than she would treat her sons and she took care of him and and إمام علي's children more than she took care of her sons and she loved them the most exactly is that the only is it only because they were the daughters they were the sons sorry of أم البني or was there other reasons to it أم البني she comes from a family of nobleness and she was very humble she's known to come from a respective family so it's not just because they were the sons of but that yes is the main reason because imagine people at that time did not even respect the orphans of they did not respect فاطمت الزهراء herself أم البني she knew their state and their eyes in Allah's eyes she knew who they were she knew who that she was the daughter of the prophet محمد بيصام بلاسنسبي upon him and if you were a true Muslim you would not hurt that family you would not hurt فاطمت الزهراء even if she was a martyr and she was not present in that time you still don't want to hurt her you know how could she not take care and not have the sincere and the loyalty that she had and don't forget the family she comes from they were known for their nobleness their courage their bravery so it's not just because they are the children of فاطمت الزهراء she took care of them but also she knew that they were hurt they were broken they lost their mother that was also took an inconsideration very empathetic indeed and what did أمو البنين enjoy I know she enjoyed you know the loss of her four sons but what else did she enjoy during her life most of all was the loss of her four sons and on top of that and the worst of all was the most horrific news that she received the martyrdom of إمام الحسين عليه السلام إمام صادق عليه السلام says that أمو البنين he has narrated to the cemetery of البقية she used to labored with heart-running and strict and grief-words upon the loss of her four sons and إمام الحسين she would mourn she would sob she would cry she would have poems that she would mention and read and ladies that would hear her would gather around her they would all cry together she transformed جنة البقية into like a حسينية and she was the first lady known to read مجلس الحسين عليه السلام because she was enduring a lot and she was suffering a lot from their loss even مروان ابن الحكم مروان ابن الحكم is known to be a man who made أهل البيت عليه السلام suffer in so many different ways he would pass by and he would hear أمو البنين words and moaning and crying and sobbing and he would say رحم الله أمو البنين رحم الله أمو البنين uma she would even break his heart so she did endure a lot because on 13th جماد ثاني أمو البنين 64 after Hijra she passed away كربلاء and the tragedy of كربلاء and the loss of her four sons and حسين عليه السلام her master was 61 after Hijra so imagine two years after the tragedy of كربلاء أمو البنين passed away she did not لم يكن لديها أكثر أسفرات وهذا هو لماذا نتذكرها نتذكرها في حياتها نتذكر ماذا تساعدها لأنها أفضل نتذكرها لأننا نعرف أن الله سبحانه وتعالى لدينا أم البنين لأنها تساعدها أيضا أصدقائنا الكثير من of us have tried ourselves لأننا لدينا أسفرات أنهم يساعدون كثيرا ونحدث يساعدوننا ونحن لا نعرف ماذا نفعل لذلك في حالة فقط نحن نأخذ فاتحة أم البنين ومany of us have tried it الله سبحانه وتعالى لأنها لدينا أم البنين لأنها لدينا أم البنين الله سبحانه وتعالى سيجعلنا أسفراتنا ومany of us have tried it لأننا نأخذ فاتحة أم البنين ونكون الان ماذا يبقى كان anything to be honest with finding a parking I know it always works with finding a parking for example يجب أن نتعلم الناس and do that because it's actually فاتحة أم البنين لأن الله سبحانه وتعالى He knows how much He gave to Him لأنه يجون لها something when we ask for Allah for the sake of a man to be helped He will like solve our problems لأنه has a great positionWoman in a great position in the Law of his Eyes Q.How important is it You'll mention onπόνN quite a lot And I know they do gatherings... How important is it to hold this Sophra and what is the meaning behind it Is it just gathering of few ladies And remembering on nível Because she has a great position I'm in aaga و عندما نفعل صفرة لأم البنين نفعل دعاة و نفعل مرنشنها و زيارة نفعل نتذكرها لحياة و نفعل نسمع مجلس و نرد فاتحات لأم البنين و نحن فاتحات صفرة كلها لأم البنين عليه السلام و نتذكرها و لأننا نتذكرها و نحن نفعل صفرة لها لأنها يوجد ايضا مزيد جيد جيد الله أعطى الله سبحانه وتعالى يتذكرنا بها لأم البنين يتذكرها لأم البنين فهي سأعطينا نجمه نحن تسألنا نقوم بناسة و همنا نحن نفعل ذلك لأننا نحن نفعل دعاة و نفعل مرنشنها و عزيزا و الأشياء الصحيحية التي لا نجد أشياء الأشياء الصحيحية التي لا نجد أنها like a key with أم البنين يجب أن تصفرها أو تذكرها يجب أن تصفرها و الله سبحانه وتعالى يجب أن يفتحك للمساعدة من this lady لأن she was a great lady she sacrificed her sons أعتقد أن لا أم ستفعل that she would humbly sacrifice her sons للمساعدة من الله أعجب أن تتحسن أكثر إذا تسلس one it's horrible أعجب أن تحسن أكثر نعم نعلم أن أم البنين كانت أم البنين كبيرة و أنها تسلست كبيرة كبيرة جيدة من نهاية كيف تتبع أنها تتبع هل فقط تتبع أنها تتبع أنها تتبع أنها تتبع للمساعدة من أم أم حسين أم البنين كيف تتبع أنها تتبع للمساعدة من أم البنين لأنها لم تتبع و أن بشر بن حدللن تتبع أنهم أم البنين فقط تتبع أن أم البنين كانت أم أم الحسين لأن she had love for him she did not want to lose him so what gave her this patient was أم أم الحسين she had no patience if you come to see what أم أم زين العابدين came back from كربلاة مدينة and he told bishr go send the message that حسين has been martyred because people had brothers they had husbands that went with أم حسين in كربلاة and they wanted to know what happened to أم حسين they wanted to know what happened to their husbands to their brothers so أم زين العابدين said to bishr you go tell the news spread the news and bishr went and he said يا أهل يثرب بلا مقام لكم بها oh people of يثرب you do not stand in يثرب people told him oh bishr what are you saying this is the city of رسول الله how are you saying that he said the news is near the grave of رسول الله so every lady was out from her home every child was out from their home no one remained at home they were all they all run ran to the grave of رسول الله to know what's the news bishr was yelling to everyone oh people of يثرب قتل الحسين حسين has been martyred الجسم منه بكربلا مضرج his body is slaughtered and thrown on the field of كربلا والرأس منه على القناة يدارو and his head is on a spirit taken from one city to another فأدمعي مدرارو so shed your tears bishr says all I see I've been screaming and yelling all I see is a lady running and she trips and she gets up again and she runs and she trips until she got into the middle of the crowd she told me oh bishr tell me about حسين he said I was shocked I've been yelling حسين has been martyred look at her how she had no patience for the loss of her say she had patience for losing her sons she never asked about them so he said I've been yelling حسين has been martyred they told him oh bishr be easy on her this is أم البنين she lost four of her sons in كربلا bishr said when I knew that this was أم البنين I wanted to condolences her on the loss of her four sons so I told her my condolences for you on جعفر أثمان عبد الله she did not fall she did not scream she did not yell she told him tell me about حسين he said my condolences for you on your three sons she said yes she aquified themselves for حسين she had this patience to stand which mother would hear such a news and would not at least yell and cry and then ask about حسين but she had patience because she never had patience for her and you can tell when someone doesn't have patience that person would keep repeating the question over and over again and he would tell them can you have some patience أم البنين showed that she didn't have patience for Mamحوسان because she kept repeating tell me about ونحن لم تتحرك في العلسة من أجلها ربما ستتحرك عندما يجد أن أعرف أن العباس كان مرتفع وذلك فتحها لأجلها لك على العلسة العباس عليه السلام هناك المساعدة تقول أن أم البنين كانت تخلقها لأجلها وقد فتحها من أمها هناك أم البنين فتحها على أجلها وقد فتحها أنها تقول أنها تخلقها لأجل حسين when he told her about Imam Hussain, that's when she screamed, she yelled, she hit her head and she went to Zaynab al-salam. So by just looking at the scene that we just mentioned, she had patience to lose her sons, but she had no patience to lose Imam Hussain. So what is the reason that this mother like أم البنين have patience along losing her sons? Behind it was because she had zero patience for losing Imam Hussain al-salam. And she did mourn, she did remember them, she did cry. Of course. It was hard for her to lose them, but what gave her patience and how she showed patience because she didn't want to lose Imam Hussain al-salam. Subhanallah. Indeed, what you've mentioned about being patient and I wonder what is patience. I know أم البنين showed patience. What is it to be patient and how is it to be patient? I know people define patience in just waiting maybe or is it more to it? Is it taking action and where are we rewarded when we have patience in this day and age? And how can we relate to أم البنين? Being patient is when you know that this problem you are suffering from is temporary. You will be out from this problem one day or from what you are suffering from. For example, when we lose a loved one and we have to be patient, we have to move on in life. We would cry a day or two, a month or two, a year or two. But at the end of the day, what makes you patient is that life moves on. You're going to have to start going back to eating if you lost your appetite at first. You would get yourself busy, you'd go through a community, you'd pray, you'd teach, you'd go learn something. Life would move on. So it's a usual thing that when you lose someone or you are suffering from something. What gives you patience is that life moves on in daily life. So you might have a depression moment. It might take you a year or two. It might take you a month or two. You might be losing your appetite for a while. But you will come back to it. It won't stay. When you have patience, you don't commit suicide, for example. People who don't have patience. Or self-harm themselves. They harm themselves. They commit suicide. And as a believer and a Muslim, we're all learned to have some patience. Because we cannot get rid of our lives for the sake of something that happened. We know like الموت حق. It's the right. And it's one of Allah's right that we give it to Him. He created us. And He takes us whenever it's time. So us as believers, we know that. And we have patience for that. Yes, we do cry. We mourn. We take it out because we're human beings. We can't keep it inside us. Even if it wasn't a loss of anyone. Even if it was just a problem we're suffering from. We could be patient by not committing suicide or not harming ourselves. But at the same time, we would cry. We would take it out. Every time we would remember, we would like cry and mourn and take it out. Sometimes we'd be in our small depression area where we just want to be alone. And then while you're being patient, it comes out. And you move on to your daily lifestyles. Just like those mothers who lost their sons. They do cry a month or two. And they move on. But أم البني عليه الصلاة والسلام was different because the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, he says In the hearts of the believer, the martyrdom of Imam الحسين عليه الصلاة there was a burn that will never be healed. And أم البني showed that burn. That was never healed. And as I said previously, she did not last after the tragedy of Karbala only two years because she could not inhale any more sufferings any more last. And she can't be any more patient. And زيناب عليه الصلاة والسلام she lived one year after the tragedy of Karbala imagine. Because she loved about herself so much. Indeed, a patient woman. Indeed, a woman of knowledge and wisdom. A woman we can all learn from. Be it men or women. Thank you very much. You're welcome. Stay tuned for our next part of the segment with Fahima Muhammad on a one-to-one coaching session. السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته السلام عليكم Thank you sister for being here today. We're going to be discussing in this session The loss of your son. I'd like to start firstly by you telling me what was life like living in Iraq in the time of Saddam. It was awful. I can't even begin to tell you how awful it was. Saddam and his men were just pure evil. I swear by Allah they didn't have a shred of mercy within them. They had no freedom of speech. It was like there was flies on the wall. Every day was tense. Every day was just hard to live. Could you explain the difficulty and the hardships of the actual daily living a little bit more? I know of women that were raped by officers in front of their families. Children were tortured. We don't even call them Saddam Hussein. He doesn't deserve to have that name. It makes me sick just thinking about it. Children couldn't go out and play but tortured in front of their parents. That wasn't the worst. People had been hung from their hands. People's bones. Burn them and throw acid on them. How had this impacted you in particular with your family situation? I tried to keep my family safe. Every move, every day I'd be inferior of going out of leaving my house. I dread to think how many people have been tortured. What was your coping mechanism to get you through each day? Every day, pray to Allah then I'm Al-Bali Benin. She helped me overcome the tragedy. It was my son actually that reminded me of this figure. So speaking about your son could you describe to me the relationship that you had with your son and how did you lose him? My son was killed. My son was killed but I can't tell you how proud I am of my son my blessed, beautiful boy. My son was everything. He worked so hard every day. What was your relationship with him? I had a very close relationship with my son. He was such a good boy. When he would do something wrong I would say to him do not do that because our master Hussein is watching and instantly he would stop when I think back to times with my son I always think of that moment because it reminds me of how I look up to figures that help me try and stay positive every day not use inspiration and my neighborhood my friends and family around my son would always support me and he'd try and help it overcome the injustice of our country he said to me one day this injustice is not right he always said he wanted to put it right he tried so hard Can you give me a little bit more details about your son as to how you come to terms with this I don't think I'm ever going to come to terms that my son is not here anymore months went by with no word from my son I didn't know how to be I didn't know how to act I was still hopeful that my son was alive I would sit for hours on my prayer mat crying I would slap my cheeks until they were red raw hoping that the pain would just go away and when you actually did hear of the news what was that like for you then it kept running through my head that Sardam had killed my son I didn't want to believe it I tried to stay positive I have no words so going back to the character of Ommel Beni as you mentioned it helped you overcome this tragedy can you be a little bit more specific with the reasons and how did this actually help you she's just so extraordinary she was able to give away a son to give away four sons honestly I don't know how she done it she's inspired me she's made me strong I look up to her every day she keeps me positive she gives me life to carry on but try to carry on living each day she's incredible and the way that she achieved this she just put Allah first she put him above all else she's my inspiration and she keeps me going if it wasn't for Ommel Beni I don't think I'd be here today so let's just highlight that even through this tragedy even through the pain even through the hurt even through the constant reminder and memory of the loss of your son there are times that you have to continue to practice and continue your faith and an amazing figure like Ommel Beni is someone who gives you that daily through reflection and prayer she's so powerful and so enduring that I'm just so thankful for Ommel Beni so how would you maybe give someone similar strength or advice if they were watching or experiencing loss in their family if there's someone out there that's experiencing loss they shouldn't give up hope of hopefully one day seeing their son or their loved one again I believe with strength you can carry on going to be positive and don't let anyone ruin your life well thank you so much for your insight and your story as difficult as it is it is something that a lot of people will actually benefit and Insha'Allah I only pray for the increased strength that you have and thank you so much for being here today what a touching story what a tragedy an awful story it's very sad because she's one out of a million there's a lot of ladies who lost their sons in Saddam's regime and I'm proud of her that we remember Ommel Beni because it calms us down there's this poet once that says oh master Hussein your tragedy has came upon before our tragedies and it makes us feel that no tragedy like the mom of Hussein so we always remember Ommel Beni which is something good because what we suffer from is nothing what they suffered from but you know Saddam's regime was very horrible because her son was killed for no reason I mean killing Saddam hated all the Shia Muslims and that has there's no reason for killing just because you hate Shia it's just like Hitler who killed all the Jews because they're Jewish or killing all the Christians because they're Christians it's very horrible there's no reason for you to kill so what a mother knows that her son has been martyred for the sake of the religion even though when she wants to have a patient she knows he was martyred for nothing he was killed and captured and thrown in one grave for nothing Ommel Beni she did know that her sons will sacrifice themselves for Imam Hussein because she had a convincing reason before Imam Ali proposed to her she knew that she was going to be blessed with four sons who she was willing to sacrifice so it gives her a convincing reason when she found out that her sons were sacrificed, they were martyred she was proud, she was happy yes, she did cry, she even wished that she had more sons to sacrifice them for the sake of Hussein so there was a convincing reasonable reason behind the martyrdom of her sons just like those mothers today who lost their sons due to protecting the shrine of say the Zainab due to protecting Iraq and standing against that many examples they become like proud I've heard so many women where they go on TV and they're like I'm proud that my son became a martyr because Allah gives you a great position in Jannah in Paradise and many mothers what convinces them and makes them proud yes, they do cry, they remember they go off a mother's face by just looking at her that she has a son who is a martyrdom because the happiness in that face it just goes away and it's very stressing and disappointing to hear how a woman lost her sons and as this woman that we just watched for no reason, just because he wanted to walk with a pilgrimage towards Imam Al-Hussain and indeed Imam Al-Hussain will honour him and we'll honour her as well because he was going to Paradise let's say Jannah is Paradise insha Allah indeedonas we mentioned she did bring up the beautiful she'd always referred back to Ul-Mal-Ben-een and she remembered Ul-Mal-Ben-een there's no comparison to Ul-Mal-Beneen actually right and from losing her son is there a practical way هل تعتقد أن هناك طريقة بحيث أنه عندما لدينا الكثير من الناس نحن نتكلم عنه قبل لكن بعض الوقت when you're in the tragedy you lose it, don't you? ونعلم أنه صعبًا أن يتذكر ورغب إلى إمام حسين أو سيدة رقية when you've lost a young child أو سيدة رقية عليم السلام كثيرًا أثنين more examples كيف يمكن أن يرغب لهم to find this strength it depends on your faith so when you have a very strong faith and believe in Allah and this is why we remember إمام حسين every year we remember عبد الله رضي every year we remember the martyrdom of Fatima al-Zahra and her محسن the martyrdom as well for being in a miscarriage we remember إمام عليم we remember أهل البيت yearly in order for us to have this faith in them and to what they went through because one day we will experience what they have for example many mothers have experienced miscarriages and Fatima al-Zahra's miscarriage was worse because it was a martyrdom of her and her baby so we remember her due to our strong faith this is how we have very strong faith in the day and believe in them year after year it gets stronger and stronger and when we go and we try their position we experience what they experience half of what they experience or not even close to what they experience we are always remembering them because we do مجالس and we remember أهل البيت so for a mother like losing her sons she always flashbacks to أم والبنين because she lost four of her sons and it's something that one will believe in it and will put it in their faith you know so when you experience the loss of a father and you are a daughter who do you refer to say زيناب عليه السلام when you lose a brother you remember say زيناب عليه السلام and when you listen to what she went through it will make you forget what you went through so it has to do with one person some people they don't remember أهل البيت at all you know when they lose a loved one they would just put قرآن and they'd sit down and they'd cry but nothing calms them down i personally have seen myself in the فاتحات when someone passes away and you go to condolences them on the martyrdom one of them was a sister and the sheikh was reading about say زيناب عليه السلام so he was reading about how she loved her brother and how she lost him and all those stories about say زيناب when she cries she's taking it out because she is flashbacking to what she lost but when she hears say the زيناب's words her story how she lost him on her say it's nothing compared to hers so it helps a lot and it like it's good for everyone who has lost the loved one whether it was a brother a sister a child an uncle to remember أهل البيت's martyrdoms because they experience a lot more عليه السلام indeed they are my blessed aren't we to have such role models and examples in our lives because again referring back taking seeking lessons from them learning from them daily in our daily lives not just during their martyrdom or their birth anniversaries but inshallah daily thank you very much sister you're welcome that was such an insightful knowledge thank you you're welcome and inshallah we will see you soon thank you Dave Hewes for watching our i remember umal benin series السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته