 All right, so you know what's up you click the title I think I found a secret to lucid dreaming and in this video I will share it with you It's not what you think and it's actually a lot more subtle than you think you're probably expecting well It's gonna be a technique or it's gonna be something like a method or some supplement or something specific No, and I'm not and I'm not selling anything either. Okay. This is kind of a secret method It's well not method. It's a secret collection of mindset ideas and Something specific that you should focus on so let's just get right into it Okay, so the idea is this right lucid dreaming is something which is for most people. It's always out of reach It's always beyond the horizon. It's like this elusive thing where you try and do it you try and control the dream but what happens is you lay down you try and go to sleep and You just fall asleep and you wake up in the morning, right? This has happened thousands of times. You probably know exactly what I'm talking about and Many people when they wake up, they don't remember any of their dreams They don't remember anything even if they try you might set the intention the night before and you say Well, I want to try and remember my dreams, but then you wake up and you don't remember anything now Why is that? Why does that happen? Why do you not lose a dream when you try and lose the dream at night? There's a few mistakes you could be making I mean the first one is obviously if you try and have a waking juice lucid dream as you go to sleep It's very difficult. If the chances are you'll never be able to do that You need to really set your alarm for like 4 a.m. And then try and do it then but that's not what I'm talking about Okay, why do most people go to sleep? Don't remember any of their dreams and don't lose a dream It's really simple what it really comes down to is you're trying to do something with this mental intention or pressure you're trying to Make something happen which for most of your life has not happened If you're familiar with Isaac Newton one of the main kind of laws, right? Is that an object in motion stays in motion? So but what that means, you know on the other side is that if something is not in motion It's very difficult to get the thing to start being in motion So in practical terms with lucid dreaming right if you've never had a lucid dream It's pretty difficult to have that first one and especially a lot of beginners do this and it's you know No fault of your own but especially if you put this intention and pressure on it and you say I want to lucid dream now I have to lucid dream tonight. Now. Don't get me wrong. This can work It can work for some people But I would say it's about a 50-50 split and it's something that I really am Realizing more and more now is that when I try and teach people half of them will have a lucid dream purely based on the intention So if you say you're gonna lucid dream tonight, and then they try and do it Just because they have it in their mind and they have the intention to do it they do it, right? but the other 50% of people don't and Because what's happening with the other 50% of people is they're putting this pressure on themselves So that their minds are not relaxed and one of the main things about this is you need to be relaxed If you have this pressure even subconsciously, right? You have this idea that I have to do it tonight if I don't lose a dream tonight It's a failure that pressure is the exact thing that stops you lucid dream It stops you deeply relaxing It stops your subconscious mind from being able to fully, you know open up and express itself And that's what stops you lucid dreaming So the only answer here the key is if you are not that 50% of people who responds well to intention and pressure Meaning if you've tried to lucid dream and it's not worked or if you've tried multiple times and it's not worked The thing like the secret you need to be using is to stop trying to lucid dream You need to stop putting that pressure on yourself where you say, you know, I have to lucid dream tonight It has to work I'm gonna go to bed and lucid dream tonight and this goes against a lot of what I've even been saying Because it doesn't apply to everyone so I've been saying in the past, you know You need to do your affirmations, you know, which do help if all you're doing is you're doing affirmations all day And you're going to bed and you're setting the strong intention like I will do to dream tonight I will lucid dream if it doesn't work for you Then you need to change the approach and in this case the approach is to completely step back from that kind of Masculine action or like trying to make it happen completely step back and let it happen on its own And I know this is counter-intuitive. You're probably thinking well, that's not gonna work, but trust me It is it's a lot more subtle when you're involving the subconscious mind like this. It's a lot more subtle Here's another example, right? Let's say if you're trying to remember then someone's name Okay, and you're right in front of them You're just all this pressures on you. You're trying to remember their name and you just can't remember who they are Right, it's happened to all of us. What happens is the more you try and remember the thing the further away from you It gets the harder it is to remember it and then what happens well later on when you've you know gone home And you're relaxed you're not thinking about it Well now suddenly it just comes to you in an instant now, of course you remember the name You know and it's the same thing about like if you're trying to remember a fact or a certain thing or really anything If you're trying to remember something and you can't the harder you try and remember it the further away from you It gets and then later on you find out. Well when there's no pressure when you're relaxed, right? This is the key when you relax and you're not trying it just happens You remember it it just comes to you instantly like a download well for half of you This is how it works with lucid dreaming the harder you try and do it It's always you know just beyond the horizon. It just never quite happens But then what happens is when you stop trying to do it or when you stop Caring about whether it happens or not. Well now it just happens on its own This connects very well to how manifestation works if you are all day long constantly focusing on what you want you Don't give the universe space to actually give it to you focus and set the intention for what you want But be detached from the outcome you're not constantly chasing it and putting this pressure on yourself like I need to do this I have to do this when you're detached from the outcome. It usually happens on its own It's a bit like I mean, I don't want to use the analogy of an acorn Let's say if you planted an acorn it takes years to grow can keep checking on it every day But you won't see any progress. It's only when you leave it that it actually grows Well, it's kind of the same thing with lucid dreaming except it happens a lot faster than a tree growing Because all you really need to do is stop trying to force it The whole point of this video is to stop trying to force it in a specific set Rigid sort of way what you need to do is step back and just let it happen on its own So you can for example keep up with your reality checks and keep reading about lucid dreaming keep watching lucid dreaming videos For example and just set the soft intention like you know I will remember my dreams tonight and then let it go almost forget about it for now and let your Subconscious mind when it's completely relaxed just make it happen on its own I do go slightly more into this as well as into some specific techniques and all kinds of like bonuses and hacks and stuff in my free YouTube webinar thing but what I'm going to try and do is come back to this comments section So and kind of like talk to you guys and see how you're getting on because it's interesting What I found is that about 50% of people respond very well to intention and pressure with lucid dreaming But the other 50% they don't for those people You need to take the pressure off and just let it happen on its own