 Jesus just wants you to wait to do the deed until you're married, but he's totally okay with everything else Is this a biblical statement to find out? Let's go to Matthew 5 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart To last is to think sexually about someone that you're not married to believe it or not There's no exception given to boyfriends or girlfriends. Jesus is not just concerned with your physical activity He's concerned with your thought life for this is the will of God your Sanctification that you abstain from sexual immorality that each one of you know how to control his own body in Holiness and honor not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God seek to develop godly boundaries with your Significant other this isn't God just trying to ruin your fun. He truly has your best interest in mind