 Welcome to Psychic Medium, Tony Green. I am Tony Green, the Psychic Medium, here once again to give you your answers to your questions or help you connect with loved ones on the other side. I really like doing that. Anyway, so we're going to get started in a second and before we get started, a couple of quick messages. You can call in, you can join the show live and call in at 845-277-9131. You can watch on YouTube live. I go live every Monday and Wednesday. I use YouTube and blog talk to record for the television stations, which are WSES and all of their streaming channels, and then Rude Rangers TV and all of their streaming channels. So that's what I have so far today. Now, a couple of people online are on YouTube. Hey, everybody on YouTube. Thanks for being here. One of the questions was songs and it came from Heather. And Heather, I am going to massacre this song, but it's something to the effect of, look, come with me now. Walk with me now or something like that. I hope you know the song. Hey, Patrick, how are you? I hope you know that song, Heather, because I do not. I know the song and the beat, but I feel like I might be getting the words wrong. Okay. And then Amy May, the song came in it. It goes, walk on. And I again, the beat, the tune, all of it, I'm massacring, but it's just walk on. I think it might be by YouTube, not YouTube. YouTube. YouTube. YouTube. Like the band, YouTube. Walk on is the name. Is the song I'm getting for you, Amy May. Hey, Anne. And then loved ones from the other side. Okay. So they are here. They are really, really here. So I'm going to say the name. It could be their name. It could be your name. It could be a name of someone you know. And then I will tell you if there's any messages from them. So the first name I'm hearing. Really? Okay. Thank you. I hear mom, mom and mom. Somebody just keeps saying mom. Okay. So and then I hear Louisa. Louisa. Now these could be two separate people to separate whatever Louisa. So Louisa could be somebody here or someone on the other side. You're going to know if Louisa is a message for you. The next thing that I'm hearing is Brad or Bradley. Now they could yes, they could be two different people. There could be a Bradley and a Brad. And then the next name that I'm hearing is Cooper. Like a mini Cooper, but not Cooper. Okay. And then the next name that I'm hearing from the other side is if this is your person, you are freaking going to know immediately. And I could be saying this wrong. Johanna vitz. And that perhaps that's a last name or first name like Johan, Johanna vitz. I don't know just saying the names. And then Salphator, Salphator, Salphator. And then there's one more coming through Amelia. Amelia. Okay, those are the names that I have for today. If these are your loved ones or a loved one reaching out to you, they just want you to know they're with you all the time. And they are watching out for you. Hey, Kate. Hi, Fawn. Margaret. Margaret, welcome to the show. Okay, I am going to let you guys know I have a very special guest joining me today. I love this girl, this woman. She's a woman. Her name is Marla Martenson. And she is the mystical matchmaker. She works with a she she is part owner of a company that she's a she's a matchmaker for wealthy men. But she's also a dating coach. And she is also very mystical. She is and I'm sorry, I so so bad botched, so botched her intro, but Marla is amazing and I adore her. And she is going to be joining us in a in just a second. And I'm reading as I'm giving her intro. So Sal from Sal said, Salphator is my grandfather. Well, he wants you to know he's always with you and he adores you and he loves you. And he wants you also to know, you're doing the right thing. Don't worry about it. You're doing the right thing. Okay. Aloha, Jay. How are you? Aloha, Jay from Canada is here. Okay. Heather's also here. Fawn is here. Ann is here. There's a number of other Terry tea is here. Amy May. There's so many wonderful people joining us on YouTube. So when I call your area code, please make sure whatever you're listening to me on, you have turned it all the way down. And when we call your area code, please have a specific question and or relative from the other side you would like to talk to. And I'm going to bring Marla on now and let her give herself a much better introduction than I did. Hey, Marla. So Marla. All right. I'll give my intro. Yes, please do. I'm an AK-8 maker, professional matchmaker for two decades. I have my own business with my partner, wonderful partner, Bradley. It's boutique. We work out of our home offices, the men are the pain clients. And so it's kind of like a millionaire matchmaker, very kind of high end. But we've had many marriages and babies born and all of that extremely very satisfying to know that we're bringing people together. And then, yes, I'm a coach. I'm a transformational life coach, I specialize in boundaries, reinventing your life, relationships and all that. I also read tarot cards, do energy healing. I'm a Gemini. And so there's not enough time in the day to do everything that you want to do. And I'm an author. I've written six books and my latest book is called The Magic Seeker. And that's a memoir. So I love to write as well, stay creative. I love that. So Marla, if somebody, I'm going to say this right away in the show because I tend to forget later on. If somebody wants to reach out and get a hold of you, what's the best way they can do that? Yeah, my website is MarlaMartinson.com and Martinson is M-A-R-T-E and S-O-N. And if you want to connect with me on Instagram, it's at The Mystical Matchmaker. And I post pretty much every day little tips on put a reel up and you can connect with me there. I'd love to have you join our group there. I have a lot of people, the same followers, and we just have so much fun, you know, talking about different topics. A lot of it is based on boundaries, relationships. Narcissism is a theme that I talk about a lot, you know, healing from that, healing ourselves so that we can be whole, heal people to get into a relationship. Yes. Yes. So true. So true. Okay. So everybody, this is Marla. And again, one of seriously, one of my favorite people, she does so much good for so many and she is a very gifted person. So if you are thinking in any way this might be a good fit for you, please do reach out, look at our stuff, see if it is. But Marla, we're going to take callers, we're going to answer questions, we are going to yay and do whatever it is we do over the next little bit of time here. Again, so when I call your area code, please say your first name, only your first name and where you're calling from. And then from there, we will have an exact question or a loved one that you want to connect with. And here we go, 780, what's your name and where you're calling from? Hey, Tony, it's Jay Cole from Canada. Thanks for connecting with you again and Marla, thanks for talking with you too. Absolutely. Hi there. So Jay, how can we help you today? Is there a way to donate some money to you or something like that through the show or something like that on your page, on your website? Yeah, actually I do. In my bio, there's a link called solo.tony and in there there's a donate button and then all my favorite products in the world. Everything that I love to use from what I make my smoothies with to the shoes I love to, I mean, anything I love is in there and it's so weird because people have said like, where do you get your clothes? Where do you do this? Where do you do that? And so if there's something I love, I kind of put it in there except for the clothes thing because I haven't figured out how to link the clothes thing yet. But yes, in my bio, everything, there's a link called solo.t, I think it's solo.tony and there is a there is a donate button there and also on my webpage. But thank you. That's really kind of you. Thank you so much, Jay. Okay, now to your question. My question is with my mom, I think it's my mom who's been trying to get me moving on some things, especially with my apartment and things. I know why she's doing that. And if there's any other messages from my mother, be much appreciated. So thanks. Yeah, so Jay, can I please can Marlin, I please get your mom's first name? You meet. Okay. So the first message I'm getting, Jay, is it's time for you to move forward. It's really time for you to take your next step. And then I hear the word leaps and leaps and bounds, leaps and bounds. So it's time for you to get in a new energy, if you will. Now that can mean a new energy in your in the place you're already into like, make some changes, but I think it's a whole new place. Marla, what are you getting? I got I pulled some cards to and to tap in as well. And it feels like there's something that you're not don't want to look at or don't want to see and you feel a little bit, there's some feelings of a little bit. You went through a lot and you were kind of a hermit card comes up, you're kind of cocooning yourself. But just like you said, Tony, moving forward, get out there. The purposeful card comes in too. And in your life, there's some towards the end of the year and come into the next year. It feels like your mom's going to be helping you with some new project or something. I'm hearing the word art, artwork. There's something I really something to do with almost nature, getting out there more, connecting with nature, grounding yourself and getting getting getting on with with some of these projects that you want to do because there's no time to waste and you're talented. You have this, I'm feeling you have this deep, very deep spiritual side and deep philosophical side and you have a lot of wisdom. So enjoy that, appreciate yourself. You've really got a lot to share. Excellent. And Jay, one more quick thing. I think that the next place that you end up in, whether it be the place you live, the place you work, the place you spend some time, there's going to be somebody there for you. And I feel like this is partner-wise. Now, I don't like to say, oh, it's a love partner, but there's definitely a partner coming in that's going to be significant to you. This could be even a business partner. This could be somebody that's coming in to help you move forward with a certain side of your, this is going to sunk. I'm sorry for the way I'm about to say this, a certain side of yourself you haven't really exposed to the public yet. So get out there and expose yourself, Jay. No, seriously. But seriously, there's someone coming in and it could be a love interest, but if it is a love interest, they also help you expand your horizons and bring you to that next level of either your projects or your personal side. And I do feel like this is going to come in once you take those next steps. Now, whatever is going on with where you live, it's okay. That can be smoothed out, but I do feel like it's time for you to start if you're comfortable and you want. Now, again, I'm going to say this, if you love, if you love where you are, it's time to refresh your space. If you've been thinking about relocating, and I hear a yes on that, and maybe the thought hasn't hit you yet, and it's about to come in because these are predictive readings. When that comes, if that comes, or if you've had it, it's time to really fall into the perfect space for you. Okay, Jay, Marla, any final thoughts on your part? I'm saying to expose himself. Evolve, the butterfly comes in, also earth again, and love. Yeah, there's just, open your heart. I'm seeing some green. Open up the heart chakra, do a little work there, and then moving up to the throat chakra, expressing yourself and healing that little bit. And I feel that they're saying that you also have mediumistic abilities if you wanted to, you could develop that. He does, everybody. He does, so she's there. She's there with it. She's picking it up. That's Marla, everybody. Marla Martinsen, who is very, very mystical and magical in everything she does. Jay, I hope this was helpful for you. Yes, it is. Excellent. You're welcome. Thank you, Jay, so much for calling in today. Thank you. Okay, everybody. It's Marla Martinsen, the mystical matchmaker and myself answering questions today. Now that you see, call in 845-277-9131. I'm gonna go to the very next caller, 630. What's your name and where are you calling from? Oh, yeah. My name is Dion. Hey, Dion. So you're on with Marla and I. It's nice to have somebody. I'm in Wisconsin too. So, yes. Dion, what's your question or your connection today? What would you like to know? What I'm gonna tell you is that two years ago, you told me that I was gonna be moving in May, and you're like, and it's gonna happen really fast when it happens. Well, I'm hoping I can still move this May, but the move is this May. So you actually saw that two years ago. So like, you see a far out. Just wanted to let you know. Nice, nice. That was, okay. Just so you know. And then my mom used to call my dad, Brad, but that's what she called him. That's funny. That is, I love that. And then your first boyfriend, you were gonna say? Interesting. This is, I've been hearing the name Cooper, seeing the name Cooper. And like, I literally haven't seen him since like high school, but I will tell you, anytime I run into anybody from high school, they're always like, do you ever hear from him? Like, they never asked about anybody else, but they always ask about him. But like, I don't, I don't know why he always comes up. And lately, his name's been coming up a lot. I don't know why. That is so funny. That is hilarious. Well, thank you for confirming. So two of the names in the beginning resonate with you. And that is amazing. I love it. I love it so much. Thank you for sharing that with us. Okay, Dianne, what's your question for Marla and I? Tell me if you can tell me. Okay. Can I please get your mom's first name? My mom's name is Carol. Carol, okay. So the first thing, okay, so I don't know, I know that people, the first thing I'm seeing is, and I know you said her name is Carol, and this has never happened before with a Carol. But the first thing I'm seeing is the Carol Burnett Burnett show, which is hilarious to me because I used to like crack up at that show, but let's, they won't take the vision of that out of my head now. So then the next thing that she would want to say is start. Okay, in order for, and okay, so this is the way she's saying, in order for anything to move, you have to take a step. So if you're moving, if you're moving, you have to push that and push it like now. The time to, oh my gosh, it's so crazy because I was just saying this to somebody, a friend of mine on the phone the other day, like when somebody is pregnant, and they say, you're going to want to push, but don't push yet. And then all of a sudden, they're making you hold the push. And then all of a sudden they're like, okay, now push. Well, they're saying to you, okay, now push, you've been holding, it's now, now is go time, it's push time, get it, get it out, get it out, whatever it is, just push and get it out. And then I'm just going to stop right there and let Marla talk because I'm laughing, I'm just cracking up at myself and I apologize, go ahead Marla. Was Carol, did she smoke at one time? Yeah, she's so, that's just a confirmation that she's here smoking, she's showing that, but spirit comes in, I'm told some amazing Oracle cards that just beautiful spirit, celestial and divinity come in all under the full moon. So she wants you to know that she was a very earthy kind of woman when she was here, she's having a cigarette, she's having a cup of coffee, she's like very, like chatty, like people very easy to talk to, but now she's in this real higher realm, she's really doing a lot of work up in that area, and she's very, very mystical and celestial and just kind of almost showering little sparkles on you and everything, so she loves what you're doing, she says, don't take things so personal, I don't know if that makes any sense, just let things go with anybody's, you know, difficult personality sometimes, you know, can come around us, so we don't have to take it on. And she says, you're doing great, and she's sending you lots of sparkles. Awesome. That's what I got. Thank you for that. I am doing, I feel like I'm doing everything I stand as far as pushing my move forward, but like the paperwork and other people's hands too, right, you know, and so I guess I can just go and start pushing that again, pushing that narrative again. Well, and when they say push, sometimes it's a matter of us making sure our boxes are packed and everything's ready so that when that go comes through or that approval comes through, all we have to do is load up and move on. What I am going to say to you, there are other areas of your life you're about to push through on. There's a project or a career move you're about to make. Now a career move doesn't always have to be about a job, it can be about something else, but there's something coming through, like I get there are three things coming in and these three things are going to be simultaneous, and they're going like one right after the other, and you might feel a little bit overwhelmed, but when they do come in, they're going to happen very, very quickly, almost all at once, but one right after the other, and then you're going to move into this space where you feel relieved. It's almost like, okay, Dionne, what I'm seeing, the vision that they're showing me for you is like when a child waits all year for their birthday, and then months before their birthday, they're really hoping they get these certain birthday gifts, and then the day comes, and they have to wait until the end of the party to open their gifts, and then the three big things they wanted are right there, and they get to open them one at a time, and it's almost overwhelming, but with happiness, and that's the analogy that they're showing for me, so the three things coming in one right after the other are all things that you want, and you've been working on almost manifesting, but you keep saying, I want, I want instead of I have, I have, or it is, it is, and then it's finally coming to fruition, but all of it is coming together, but not like one right after the other in the same time period, so get ready for that, and it's almost like moving out of where you are, and I say this all the time, and I know Marla will one million percent agree with me, the energy that you sit in, whether it's your home, your neighborhood, your city, your state, even your country can change what you can bring into your life, and how you bring it in, because every single thing carries energy, but when you get out of where you are now, you're going to move into a more manifesting energy, an energy where things just flow better, make sure you jump into that energy really quickly, okay love? Okay, I hear you, and I agree with you. I hope it makes it. Thank you, I thank you both. Our pleasure. You're welcome. Yes, yes, okay, Dion, thank you so much for calling in, it was amazing having you on today, thank you so much, and thank you for the confirmation too, thank you. You're welcome. Okay, and folks, and that is the way, sometimes with my predictions and stuff, it does happen a little further out, it doesn't always happen the next day, and that's okay, it happens when it's supposed to, I want to say hi to some of the people that are on YouTube, so Anastasia joined us, welcome to the show Anastasia, Genevieve, hi, how are you, Marla, you've got to meet Genevieve, Genevieve is awesome, oh my gosh, yeah, and then there's Princeton, Bellarina, I just feel like somebody with that name I need to meet, Princeton, Princeton Bellarina, I feel like we need to meet that person, Marla, in person, I don't know why, I just feel like that name, yeah, I know, right, and then Anastasia is so magical, okay, we're going to go to the next caller, and there was something else I wanted to, oh, if you do have a question and you want to put it into YouTube, go right ahead and put it into YouTube, we'll be, oh, Princeton Bellarina, we know each other, Tony, well then I have met you, my beautiful friend, but I don't know, I don't think I know you by that name, Caroline, oh Caroline, oh my gosh, okay, Marla, Caroline is one of the like sweetest women, one of the sweetest, smartest, like ingenuative women too, yeah, I say thanks for clarifying Caroline, yes, okay, we're going to go to the next caller, if you do have a question and you're on YouTube, please post it in, the next caller is 908, 908, what's your name and where are you calling from? Hi, hi, can you hear me? We can. Hello? Yes, hi, thank you ladies for taking my call, my name is Bessna and I'm from New Jersey. Okay, I'm sorry, can you say your first name again? Bessna, B-E-S-N-A. Okay, excellent. Bessna, beautiful name. Yes, how can we help you today, love? So I'm calling about my health issues right now, nothing serious, but I feel like I'm recovering a little bit from health issues and I want to make sure that I'm making the right decision. Okay, so neither one of us are doctors or medical professionals, but we will give you whatever we get based on what Spirit is saying. Now I'm going to say this, whatever we get, you have free will, you can choose to use it, not use it, practice it, not practice it, but the first thing I'm going to do is I'm going to do a clearing and or healing for you, anybody listening, re-listening, we are healthy, I get a known, we are healing, I also get a know, all that caused this. Now this is the big one, folks, it's good to clear something, but we need to get to why did this happen in the first place? All that caused this, all that has kept this, all the reasons that this showed up in my life have healed, cleared, and released, and I get a know. And I feel like the number one thing I'm hearing, sweet girl, is stress, that of course every illness has an element of stress, but also that this goes back to when you were two years old. I don't know, like I'm not trying to say that, that just flew out of my mouth because my mind was on a completely different track. So either something that happened at two or something that came in when you were two, that's where this is rooted. And like a big sunflower or a dandelion, I'm seeing them like it's in your right, not it, you might not feel this in your right leg, but what I'm going to do is I see it rooted through the way just I'm visioning this, it doesn't mean it's literal, they're pulling the roots out from beneath your right leg, like if this was a big flower, it would be down your right side and they're pulling it all out and taking it. And then the other thing that I'm getting is you are on the right track. There's one thing you're doing that needs to be tweaked just a little bit, just a little bit, it needs to be tweaked. And I'm not sure of everything you're doing to fix this, but if you want to, well first let Marla talk and then we'll ask if you, you're comfortable sharing and I can tell you which thing might need to be tweaked. Marla, go time. Yeah, it was fair and money comes up. So have you been stressed of money? Was there money issue at some point? You guys, you ladies have had everything on the nail. This happened to me when I was around, well when I was born, this happened to me. And then I have been like, you know, dealing with it ever since, but when I was two, I was in a full body cast in the hospital for about 18 months. And when she said my right foot, that's what's happening right now. I twisted, I tore a tendon in my ankle and I've been trying to fix it so I don't have to have surgery again. I don't want enough surgery. Marla, everything you're saying right now is on point. In fact, I'm shaking. Oh my gosh. So Marla, give me one quick second. I'm going to let you get back. Does anybody watching knows my face is just as shocked at all of her confirming this as probably you guys are because when I get things, I'm like, Oh my gosh, I hope I'm not sounding like I'm back crap crazy right now. So thank you for confirming that. And while Marla's reading for you, I'm going to do some more. One of the things I'm hearing is PRP for your ankle. They do PRP protein rich plasma injections and that goes, our protein goes straight to that plasma goes straight to the injury. And then if you can find somebody who will do stem cells that are not in too invasive or painful, that's the other thing I'm hearing. Okay, Marla, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, Marla. Go ahead. I'm going to do more clearings and healings while Marla's going. Go Marla. I'm so sorry. Yeah. So the money thing, it just feels like you there's some I don't know some beliefs that they want you to let go of and know that grounding yourself very important to calming down the nervous system, doing some kind of meditation or whether it's hitting in some heat, whether that's hot yoga or sauna or something to just to sweat to release some of these energies around it. I think that that's what happens to you at two being in that body cast that you've carried. That's traumatic. It's you don't know what's happening for that young child. And so it's kind of stayed with you in the body. And so releasing that body wise or doing some kind of body work that you could do and knowing it's safe to release. I'm safe. Everything is safe to be in my body. It's safe to be on the earth. It's safe to to live and to thrive. And it feels like you are going to be manifest anymore. Once you can do that and release some of this stuff and Tony's working on that, it feels like money's going to flow a little bit easier. I don't know if somebody's sending you a quiche. I don't know if that's something from the other side or something that's sending you a quiche. And they're saying husband kisses. That's what that's my message. Okay, I want to say the the clearings that I'm doing for you and everybody listening just so everybody knows is I started with and I hope I can remember them. I started with it's okay to be healthy. And I get a no. And we get into this pattern where again it's it's not natural and we're just waiting for the other you have shoot a drop if you will. So we're clearing all of that. We're also keep clearing it's okay to be okay. And then I'm always injured. I get a yes on or I'm always like I'm this frail little thing or injured for you and everybody listening we're going to clear all of that out. And then we're going to the root of this again going down that right leg and pulling all of that out but but it's from the whole body because if I if I were to explain what I saw don't take it as dark bad things but energy is a multitude of colors and when we have energy that's no longer like healthy for us it gets to that like storm cloud color look so there are there's storm cloud color energy on your left mixed with the pure white energy but then on the right is all the roots so as they pull the root of this they're also pulling all that storm cloud energy and if you feel it that's great but if you don't it's it's okay too. So all the beliefs and programs about being injured and ill for you anybody listening watching re-listening re-watching I have been healed and cleared and I'm just gonna like just by the way I can't even talk I'm gonna go with that's a solid no and we're gonna heal clear and release that and it's safe to be safe and okay and again we're gonna heal clear and release all of that to a yes all that causes kept this started it all that has brought this in we're clearing healing and releasing that and then we're going to do something different today all the beliefs and programs that have kept this in place have been deleted from our computer and we're just gonna all just hold out a palm of our hand and push the imaginary delete button on there and then and then like watch how that feels in your head as you push that imaginary delete button everybody do it with me even if you don't believe in it and watch the feeling you get in your head like it's almost like a tingling in my head so there we go sweetie I hope this was helpful um is what else would you like to say about this with the oh yeah and the plasma treatments are going to be or the yeah the prp treatments are going to be so so important and they are going to help and they are going to work and then the other thing is to make sure you're getting minerals that's the word mineral all the minerals take seamos and burdock root take all the minerals of full vic mineral as much minerals as you can get into your body you need into your body okay yes and I absolutely agree with what you're saying about uh of my my my beliefs my subconscious beliefs I think that is what's happening and I think that I have to let let it go look the clearing like the clearing work does that it pulls it right out and Marla can attest to that Marla does this work to you it just pulls it right out without you having to worry about it now if you do need something a little bit more I also do hypnosis we can go in without going back and looking at everything we can go in and clear this if you feel like you need a little bit more to clear it but this is very powerful come back and listen to it again and let all of this clear while you're not on the phone but you're just participating in the clearing if that makes sense to you love yes that makes a little sense and thank you so much and I know I have some angels that are watching over me and I'm wondering if you hear anything from them or um they're just saying keep going you're on the right track go ahead Marla you definitely we all have a guardian angel we all have spirit guide and so I am just gonna pull oh rejoice your spirit guide says there's three things that they want to say you rejoice the rejoice that we have the spirit guide rejoice that you lived when you were a kid and that you have grown into this amazing woman and they're saying that they're wanting they want to help you bring out your gifts more it feels like I don't know if you used to write poetry or do a little bit of writing but they want you to do that and uh have express your creativity they're showing me some colors like almost like a box of crayons I'm seeing some beautiful purples lavender's and and a little bit of like rosy red so maybe you want to bring those colors in and uh definitely the red is the root chakra so ground yourself to the earth and it is like we said it's safe to be in the body and they're saying nurture yourself and then they want you to once you kind of release this and feel more grounded and safe you're going to have some adventures in your life because life is about adventures maybe you're going to take a road trip or you're going to do something that you haven't done before and so you might want to get out your little journal and put down some kind of bucket list uh things things that you haven't done or seen that it's um important maybe that's taken that Spanish class or learning how to you know uh do some pottery or going on uh going to see Sedona or the Grand Canyon whatever it is write it down and bring it into reality because I do see in the next two three years you having some adventures and that's your spirit guys are right there with you um applauding you and and helping thank you so much and I can tell you in the last minute or so I just feel so much calmer I feel so much calmer I don't know what's going on but I feel so much calmer I can't believe it so thank you from the bottom of my heart thank you you are so welcome thank you for calling in and remember thank you you're so oh my goodness you're so welcome and don't forget to re-listen to the show because you will get even more release every time you listen and we are I'm I'm here every Monday and Wednesday I know Marla will be coming back Genevieve will be joining us at some point doing healings with us too not today but at some point in the future also so thank you for calling in love thank you thank you you are welcome okay I am going we are going to go we are going to go to a couple of online or YouTube questions Talia Talia thank you for joining um welcome to the show I'm sorry if I'm pronouncing your name wrong please forgive me um I've had a couple questions the first one I'm gonna let Marla take Joy wants to know um about romance am I ready for new love so I wanted to know about creating that and starting a family okay so Joy you're always ready for new love remember whoever shows up is there to show us what we like about ourselves what we don't like about ourselves what we're ready for what we don't what we need to heal what we don't and I feel like June is going to be a really big month for everybody for romance but also for you Joy somebody has the potential to come in in June and uh rock your world and let's hope that's in a good way Marla what are you getting I'm feeling like you had a betrayal in the past it's it's almost a little bit hard to trust and that you've had some blocks up um somebody from your past maybe the energy is still around and trying to get in so yeah my throat is all it's like you didn't speak your truth type or somebody that didn't let you speak or you never felt you could speak now's the time to get a body work it's so important to be over a year and being this these emotions we get trapped from previous relationships in the body and we've got to release it so whatever you can do to do move the body you know stretch the body detox the body and do the breath work would help too and and then you're going to be ready so you want to make sure that you're in a place that you don't compare any new guy to an old guy um have lists down what are your values what are the top uh what are the top five things that you need to find you are looking for in a person and then look do you have those qualities yourself and then you can energetically call in this person by having that list um you can even put all it knowing and visualize so um that's what I'm getting okay Marla I'm also going to do a clearing like anything stopping or blocking us from a healthy loving relationship let's clear that now and then um we've let go of all past ick with relationships and let's clear that now and then Talia Talia yep I think it's Talia I'm just going to say that um I um as she's saying she feels a huge negative energy around me I want to know where this is coming from we don't need to we don't need we don't want to actually uh and we don't need to the the the more important thing don't give it any power or like any oh my god it's so big and it's so bad because that just defeats us or you in this case and she's experiencing sleep paralysis so for you Talia everybody listening everybody re-listening watching we're going to say I'm clear I get a no I'm clear let's clear that and I'm going to do houses today my house is clear I get a no my house is unclear let's clear all of this to where it's supposed to be now the way this works is your angels come in your angels are pulling all of this energy out Talia please leave me a comment if you're feeling something and if or when you feel lighter some people feel it some people don't everybody experiences it in their very own oh wait I feel like getting lighter already there was a lot of pressure there um I'm please comment Talia so I remember to check on it before we end the show today I'm going to go to five two zero five two zero you are on with Marla and myself how can we help you today oh my god you are welcome what's from Arizona I said this is going to ask you about my uh relationship can I give you the initial please sure yeah the letter D is David okay so you're in a relationship with David and you want to know what do you want to know about it love well how long have you been with with since October energy male energy around him I'm just getting work off of something a little preoccupation that's all I'm getting what about you Tony now I'm gonna say this and I'm gonna ask you first have you you called in and asked about this prior right love have you called in and asked about this relationship we go two days in CNI okay so what I the first word I hear and if I'm wrong I'm I apologize if I'm this could be past energy but I feel like it's still present energy the first word I hear is friends I think he really values this friendship I feel like he really he does not want to jeopardize the friendship but I do feel like and my love if you're I don't know why I keep feeling like you two have different goals for this situation and it's weird that they're using the word situation with me but I feel like the two of you may have some different goals for this or some different timelines for it okay um I feel like what I'm going to say is keep what I'm going to say I don't want to let out of my mouth I don't want to let it out of my mouth you know I have people who will tell me like when they want the truth they call me because they know no matter how much it hurts that the answers I give are so accurate but I don't you're not ready to hear what they have been trying to tell you is the message that I am and I don't okay this is the way I'm going to say it no matter where your relationship is no matter what's going on with it in this moment he's not the one for you he's not the one for you he's he I'm sorry they they have jumped in there's a new captain on board take it over my little mouth here he's not the one for you he's not going to ever be the one who gives you what you want the way you want it when you want it if that's what you're looking for if this is not the person the person that you are wanting here's the person in front of you and in front of you he looks like um he's there so he's convenient and he's good and you have these these emotions for him but now what you want doesn't sit inside of this person if you want to get what you want out of a relationship you have to kind of completely back away from this person separate your energy from this person and go to somebody else who is waiting there is somebody else right like let's put this guy D in a little circle in a little circle and right outside that circle there's another guy and he's going to be able to give you what you want in a relationship the way you want it he's going to be able to he matches your relationship energy now i'm going to tell you something that that takes a moment to to get okay sometimes and and i i'm gonna try to explain this uh sometimes someone will come into our lives and we're so focused on making it work or hoping having that hope or i don't want to use the word winning because we're not desperate we just meet somebody and we really there's something about them that we just really you know and then but we're only thinking about what we're projecting on them our feelings and we're not even realizing or stepping back and looking at what are they showing or giving are these just is this just all my feelings that i'm feeling when i'm with this person and what i'm going to skip all of that i'm just going to skip all of that and i'm going to jump to again there's somebody there's somebody that you could be on the cusp of meeting and i i don't like sometimes people don't want to hear this when they're in something that they're trying to make work but there's somebody you're on the cusp of meeting that could be the person if you are ready to like get this out of your energy this could be the person that that would give you the relationship the way you want it okay that's that's what i'm gonna say and i'm gonna let that be there i am really gonna let that be there for you um okay marla any final words on that also you know i've been a matchmaker for over 20 years and i'm a coach and and and you know like if you go into your just breathe and go into your center your solar plexus your heart center and you know what the energy is if you're asking if you're calling a psychic to ask about the energy in your relationship you know that something's not right so so you you actually know you're just looking for confirmation which is totally um totally uh understandable and so what tony was sharing i'm totally on board with and uh hey it's he's not for you it's not it feels like he's not giving going to give you are capable of giving you what you would really like in a long-term relationship and so it's up to you to decide to continue or not it doesn't feel like it's going somewhere that you want it to go and so what uh you are worthy you're worthy of having everything you want in a relationship and self love is going to help that raising your frequency and deciding you know as they take that that little broom and sweep out any dust that's no longer serving you and start fresh in spring coming into summer that's what i got okay sweetie i know that this is not in some ways it's an amazing message because you get to know there's somebody right there waiting for for this relationship that's going to match your energy match your love and i'm gonna say um marla actually sent me an interview this weekend that she listened to between two people and one of them was a pastor and i don't remember his name but one of the things he said was you know that first person and i'm gonna i'm gonna ruin this statement the first person that we feel felt rejected by we will find that in somebody else and try to win that that approval and that statement is coming in so large for you in this moment you're the way and then i'm i'm gonna let you um sit with this but what i'm gonna clear for you is why are you waiting for this guy you're waiting for this guy and i'm gonna clear that because no one should ever sit at if you think you're in a relationship with this guy and you're waiting on him that should never happen to any person who believes they're in a relationship with someone we shouldn't be waiting on them or waiting for them or it should be a mutual coming together and wanting of each other okay and if you're not there the question isn't does he want me the or where is this going the question is why am i sitting in this waiting for somebody to pick me or to want me or to take this further why and this is the most important thing i'm going to say to everybody listening why am i giving up all my power to him to make up this choice okay swede that's what i have for you i hope this was helpful no i appreciate what you said i can't oh i thought i thought she all right i'm so sorry swede i thought you had hung up so i like i thought she really had hung up on us at that point so i like started the muting process i think she's taking it all in yeah i think so but but the clock is running down also tilia i need to know how do you feel patrick thank you for telling everybody to do that um j francis hey um okay as as we go i'm gonna check everybody is clear unclear the houses are clear unclear all that's with tilia has been cleared and released i don't feel much really okay she's not feeling it yet don't worry um this has been okay clear it you will i'm hearing you will i know other people well one other person commented that they felt it i'm going to tell you whatever this is okay yeah then then take it okay um the show is coming to a close please i'm here every monday and wednesday at noon come back wednesday we will continue to work on it if it's not gone by then okay swede um i'm going to let you know how you can get a hold of me and then marla will let you know how you can get a hold of her my business numbers four one four eight nine seven two eight six nine if you want a reading hypnosis or a clearing you can reach me there or my website t o n i g dot i n f o marla go ahead partnership dot com and i just put it in the chat and um or at the mystical matchmaker on instagram and it's been a pleasure you guys and thanks tony for all the amazing clearings and wonderful messages today thanks for having me on 90 seconds absolutely my pleasure yeah just in case i ever forget the the phone that might my my countdown will let me know thank you guys so much for being here i love each and every one of you so stinking much if i did not get to your call today i really do apologize i will be back on wednesday at noon central time and um thank you thank you thank you so much for joining us and remember make some miracles in your life today okay it and tomorrow and every day just get out there and create miracles for yourself okay until next time thanks and have an amazing rest of the day