 All right, so, got a question from a member. He says, hey Lloyd, I just purchased the approaching system and I've just started going out and approaching women these last couple of days. Unfortunately, I usually just ask them how they are doing and then leave. I am not sure how to tell if the girl likes me or not. If I knew she was interested, I would keep talking to her but because I don't, I usually just end it very quickly. Okay, cool. Yeah, so I'm assuming he's asking how to know if the girl likes him or not. It's just a great question. And by the way, dude, congratulations on purchasing the approaching system. Congratulations on, first of all, taking action. Like you thinking, you're saying unfortunately it sounds like you're kind of beating yourself up for not being where you want to be but dude, you've only been going out for two days. The fact that you're already walking up and talking to women is amazing. You know, in the approaching system, I usually talk about like first just walking out and making eye contact with people and saying hi and like working your way up slowly but surely but dude, you're already going in and having conversations so congrats. Like you should give yourself a pat on the back. Okay, so let's try and answer your question and help you out. First of all, this is something that I'm covering in the approaching system so you probably haven't gotten all the way through it and I cover it more extensively in playboy conversations and sexual escalation where I actually teach you how to, the things to look for whether a woman wants to have sex with you or not, okay? So what I'm gonna talk about here is just one thing that I think this guy could look for more. And hopefully this will help you guys out too. So for those of you who are wondering, hey, how do I know if a girl likes me or not when I'm talking to her? What I would recommend that you don't do is I would recommend that you don't look at her, like you don't wanna pay attention to the words that she says too much. Okay, I don't mean don't listen to her. You should listen to what she's saying but I don't think that you should think, oh, if she's smiling and she says that, oh cool, yeah, let's hang out, that sounds great. Oh my God, that's awesome. Oh thank you, like she's being super nice that that immediately means that she likes you. It's good, I'm not saying it's bad but what I've found is that talk is cheap. It's very easy for someone to act friendly. Maybe she doesn't wanna offend you, maybe she doesn't know who you know and sometimes if you approach a strange woman, the first thing is that she's maybe a little, you know, women try to be more agreeable, definitely for sure and she doesn't wanna upset you and she doesn't also know who you are and she might be a little afraid of you and so naturally she's just gonna be very nice and friendly towards you, doesn't wanna turn you down. I think that's a big reason why women will give their phone number out and then just not text the guys because they're just being friendly. You know, this used to happen to me a lot actually when I first started going out before I didn't have much confidence and then I worked up the courage to actually go out and talk to women and when I did this I noticed that when I would have a conversation sometimes I would think it'd go really, really well, I would even get the phone number sometimes or I would walk away thinking, wow, that girl was really into me and then I would text her and I would get nothing and obviously what it took me time to learn and what this guy's gonna learn too is that those things are not really what's going to indicate that she's interested in you, okay, because talk is cheap. I'm not saying it's bad and sometimes you'll get that and it's great but what you should be looking for is actions. Actions speak much louder than words. Now what kinds of actions should you look for? And I talk about a bunch in the approaching system but I'll focus on one that's a big one. I actually don't know if you should be focusing too much on the little ones, like if she maybe is playing with her hair. Some women do that if they're interested in a guy, some don't, or maybe she's like touching her, adjusting something, you know, that's usually a pretty good sign but not every woman does that when she's interested in a guy. The main ones that I've seen is if she wants to move with you, okay? You know, I've had situations where I talked with a girl who I thought was attractive and I thought she thought I was attractive or at the very least liked me enough to text me back. And what I noticed is that even though she's being friendly, she was smiling and a lot of times she would be like, yeah, let's hang out, I'd love to or whatever, you know? And then I wouldn't get a text back from her. What I should have done was I should have tested to see if she moved with me, okay? People will lie with their mouths all the time but they rarely lie with their actions. If she had moved with me, then that would have indicated that she wanted to stay close to me. And that's ultimately the kind of person that you want. You want someone who's gonna follow you, you want someone who's gonna move with you, okay? And so what I ended up doing was that for a lot of the people that I was talking to, even if they were looking down, even if they were looking away, or if they maybe were saying things that I thought were kind of negative or things that were signs that she wasn't interested, if this person moved with me, it didn't matter. She was interested. So what you need to start doing, man, and what you'll get to is you get farther into the approaching system is pay attention to the tests that I give you to figure out if this girl is interested in you. Invite her to move with you. Do those kinds of things and see if she follows. If she follows you, if she comes with you, then that's a great sign. She's definitely interested. Women don't move. Women don't especially leave their friends for a guy that they're not interested in, okay? You know, you're at the bar or whatever or a club or something like that and she leaves with you, leaves her friends to come hang out with you or talk with you, whatever. Doesn't matter where, bar, smoking section, something like that. If she does that, that is a really, probably the biggest sign that a girl's actually interested and she actually likes you. So if you get that, if you do some of these tests and they're willing to move with you, then I will continue to have the conversation, push her farther, you know? Find out what she, what kind of her interests are, find out what she's doing later, get her phone number and find out something fun for you guys to do, okay? Or maybe just do something fun right then and there. She's free. All of those options are there for you. But yes, dude, the way to do it is I would say move her. Okay, cool. And by the way, you guys, if you want to purchase the approaching system, we have the lowest pricing for the next 24 hours and also too, you are going to get the ability to book a free consultation call with me. This is only gonna happen within the next 24 hours. So if you decide that, oh, after Thursday or on Friday this weekend that you want to purchase, you will not be able to book a free consultation call with me. I'm only doing that for people that book it within the next 24 hours. So if you want to take advantage of that, I highly recommend that you purchase the, purchase the approaching system and I look forward to seeing you in the members area. Thanks a lot you guys and good luck out there.