 So the gift is one of my fundamental lenses through which I understand the world, and through which I understand human beings. So I can look at you, Paul, and I can shift my attention and see you as a bearer of sacred gifts. The more I immerse myself in that perception, the more I invoke those gifts, because many of us go through life never really being seen that way. And it's not because our fellow companions here are malicious or bad or ignorant, but we live in a system that blinds us to each other's true divine nature. So when somebody actually sees you and you have that feeling of being seen in your divinity, that is a powerful call to step into that divinity. And in that moment, you don't need any kind of willpower, you don't need any kind of shaming, you don't need any kind of bribery to become who you are. Because you're held in that reality. That is how we can, that's what we can do for each other. And to even recognize with some gentleness that this is not something to like fulfill your potential to break through the glass ceiling. That's not something that you can or have to achieve through your own willpower. We are inter-beings and our becoming is a function of relationship. So, yeah, like we can accept help and accept that we are not alone here. And it's not all up to each one of us individually. And there's more paradox underneath that. It's not like you do nothing, but your capacity, your will, your discipline even, is called into action by the way that others see us. Like where does courage come from? Where does kindness come from? I personally find it, I find myself being a lot braver when people are seeing me as brave. I find myself a lot kinder when people are seeing me as kind. This is the collective story that we can hold for the world. And the more intently that we hold that story, the more the world steps into that and makes it real. Very inspiring. So how do we help encourage each other to be able to offer that to another human being? I mean, as you were saying earlier, this is something Ben does naturally. That's why the film is a success. He knows and sees you and this allowed that all to pour out of you and he structured the film and so forth so that those gifts are there to be seen. And then we're all sharing those gifts. How do we help each other? How do we help each other in a day to day basis? Yeah, so this is a how question that you're asking, but it's, but the real question is not a how question. It's, it's sometimes when we say, how do I, how do I, how do I, that is like this screen over top your knowledge that you already know how you already know what to do. So what I really hear in the, how do I do this for others? How do I encourage them is a yearning to be that and to do that. And so I would give attention to the sincerity of that, of that watching, like your, your generosity, your kindness, your goodwill toward your fellow human being. And that in itself is the invitation is the encouragement that you're asking about. And as you own that, you will find yourself acting from that with great skill in situations where no one even told you how. Yeah. Yeah, so like, don't make it too hard.