 to get the life you want this year to be who you want this year you've got to say to hell with that i'm done with it i love you but i'm not going to anymore be that version of me and it starts small it starts with conversations like i won't be there for coffee on tuesday anymore i'm done with it don't be mailing me the drama i'm done i'm resigning i'm canceling my subscription to the drama whatsapp channel because we all have version of that in our lives i am not hanging around i'm not talking about anymore i'm done with the gossip i'm done with it i dare some of you this year start small start small don't go big if it scares the hell out of you start small but start somewhere small steps are better than none on setting out your trajectory for a new identity and a new outcome in 2023