 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narx Fiber live video. I'm just out here walking by the lake as you can see it's very sunny. I'm sweating a little bit already so I don't know how long this video is going to be but yeah this is a topic I've talked about before and I'd like to brush in it again so here it is, narcissists are no fun. Now what do I mean by no fun? I mean a lot of us may find enjoyment in certain light-hearted things, certain activities and interests but the narcissist doesn't find any joy or amusement in those things. They have their own version of fun and their fun tends to be at your expense. In most cases it's usually something where they're poking fun at you, where they're trying to say that something is wrong with you or you did something wrong or you're not good enough. That's usually what it tends to be, it's normally them insulting you and putting you down, making you feel less than who you actually are and while that may be fun for them, it certainly isn't fun for you but yeah that's their idea of fun, that's what they like to do but when you are in a functional environment and everything's calm and peaceful, everything's relaxed, maybe you're having a bit of fun, you're having a good time but they cannot feel comfortable in that environment, they cannot participate in that, they can't have a peaceful or fun time with you because they just don't feel comfortable in a functional environment, they have to make it dysfunctional and they will do that by starting trouble, causing drama and chaos, they'll start a fight with you, they'll start an argument and this can be very confusing for you because you will look at it and think why, why can't you just be happy? We're involved in a fun, enjoyable activity, what is wrong with that? Why can't you enjoy it too? And yeah it may make you wonder but the reason is that they just can't find joy in the things that we do, I mean they can often be very grandiose and everything has to be big and impressive but they just can't find joy in the little things in life and that's really why they can never be happy because they always want more, nothing's ever good enough but that has nothing to do with you or the activity or interest that you're involved in has nothing to do with that at all, the problem is they can't be satisfied and no matter how hard you try you're never going to please them, you're never going to make them happy and that's just something that you have to accept, narcissists are no fun, they're party poopers, they will reign on your parade, they will spoil, ruin the fun, they can take the life of any situation and I'm sure you all remember many times when they did that, they like to do it on special occasions, on times when you're meant to be happy and having a good time but they know that they can't participate in that, it does nothing for them and then they get jealous of your fun so then they want to ruin it and they will do it on special occasions like Christmas time or on your birthday and it's also so that it has a great impact on you, it affects you more that way because it's not just a normal day, it's meant to be something special and of course if they do it on Christmas time or on your birthday then that's going to be something you remember for a long time and not only that but you may anticipate it the next Christmas or birthday so you just automatically have these bad feelings around certain times of year and a lot of this is premeditated, they know exactly what they're doing, they enjoy winding you up because that is their idea of fun, their idea of fun is hurting you because that's what makes them feel better about themselves, they find pleasure in your pain, just walking by the lake here, lots of nice flowers and trees, it's a peaceful walk but yeah it's really hot and sunny out here as well but it's a good day for this, it's not raining, it's good weather, you've got the fountains here too, narcissists can't do stuff like this, just going out with you for a walk by the river or on the beach, it's boring put on, they can't find any fun in that, let's go to involve getting supply, getting attention, that's their idea of fun, back to the car now, get some shade from the sun, got the Mercedes, C63S, great car, very fast, they can't find any fun in that, their idea of fun is bringing you down, I'd like to hear from you in the comments below, tell me about the time when they spoiled your fun, let me know below and I'll read it out and respond, I'd like to hear about your individual situations so let me know now, it's going to start the car, got the air conditioning on, Soufflé and Latte says my mom always spoiled my fun and my siblings joy, yeah that's it, I mean even your own parents sometimes, they can be jealous of you and any kind of fun, when enjoyment you're having or if you achieve anything, they have to bring that down, they have to find a way to make you miserable because they're miserable and misery likes company so if they can make you feel down then suddenly they feel better about themselves, yeah that's how they regulate their emotions because you'll notice as soon as they insult you and put you down then they become calm, then the argument ends, it's done so that's what it's all about and that's why it's their idea of fun, they can't find fulfillment in normal things that normal people like to do, that doesn't do anything for them, they get bored because maybe then they have to think, they reflect and they don't want to do that, they're nicks and miserable, that's why they always need constant noise to drown out the thoughts so yeah narcissists are no fun, don't expect them to enjoy participating in things that you like because if you invite them to participate in anything they'll probably just try to ruin it so keep that in mind but anyway I would just like to thank you all for joining me on another Narx Fiber Live video, as always please hit that thumbs up button down below then we can get this message out there, make people aware that narcissists are no fun again thank you all and I'll talk to you in another one very soon