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I like a zest and joy. How are you? Fine. Let's start. What is your good name? Hello viewers. I am Evelyn. I came here today. What do you do? Currently I am an interpreter. Oh. Yes. Look at you. I see you in your office after this. I am trying also to reach out. Can we find you on social media by any chance or maybe how can we contact you? Yes. How? I have my enterprise email address at Brati Enterprise. All right. Thank you. Thank you. Poor man. Poor man. Poor man. I didn't make a mess. I didn't make a mess. I want to see you. I want to see you on Christmas morning. What happened? Good morning. Good morning. Why do you look so good, guys? Okay. You look like a student. Yes. Do you want to come to my Instagram to double tap? Yes. You look like a student. Hi, Mom. How are you? I am fine. You look so sweet and innocent. Are you sweet and innocent? I want to be with you. I am. You are? Okay. We choose to believe you. What is your name? My name is Effie Diambo. I am from Fall River. Yes. I am planning to join high institution university. Look at the hope on her face. She doesn't know what's up. She doesn't. But I am not trying to describe it with just life. The ground. The day. The difference. All right. So today's topic is life lessons. There are three different. I don't want to say generations because generations are schools of thought. Some are students of school and some are students of campus. And we have someone who is going through a lot of their life. Maybe I think they are not used to it. So I think you can also advise me perhaps. And we have a couple of questions that we have. Engineers to help the conversation go better. So as soon as they are ready they will put for me a couple of slides. But I want the frequently asked questions. Frequently asked questions. So here we go. Girls talk. Oh my gosh. They say that there is a difference between men and women. Women tend to learn from other people's mistakes. As in, to say, if a woman says something wrong, she will attack you and you will get hurt. Nowhere you are more vigilant if you learn from her mistakes. But men just like making their own mistakes. I don't know. I'm not a man. There's nothing I can do to become one. So please tell me, is it true? Is that a statement true or not? I will bring a couple of things to you. What do you think is the most important thing to know as a lady? Just in general? Okay. As a lady, the first thing you're supposed to know is that you are a lady. And what you are required. Or how you are required to behave as a lady. But squeeze it in a bit. It's like, we don't want to be told what to do. And we want to be like them. I don't know if, because what a man can do, a woman can do better. So I am understanding there's a school of thought. What do you think is the most important thing? Okay. It is true that nowadays we tend to be equal. And we really value that. That what a man can do, we can do better. And always there is also a say, which goes that behind a successful man there is a woman. Well, well, we're in the right place. So we don't have any limits. We can go beyond men. We can make them succeed. So when men are powerful, ladies are also powerful. I like that. I like that very much. What do you think is the most important thing to know as a lady? Just know your worth in your place. What does your worth mean? You are mentioning? Like, since I didn't explain anything. It's a simple term. I think it's an experience. For example, Hey! Hey! Hey! At the heart. Hey! Alright. So your worth and know your place. What does knowing your place mean? Like, you should know your place in the society. You should know your place in the society. When I go out, I go out, I pick up the girls. I pick up the girls. And what about you? Do you pick up the girls? That's what I wanted. That's what I wanted. If you are a man at work, why isn't there a sign for women at work? Are we never working? What's the meaning of that? Women at work. Even women at work. Women at work. Even women at work. Even women at work. Hey! What? Women at work. Even women at work. Even women at work. Even women at work. Women at work. Sure. Alright. So what do you think in your experience or Malume Fikat is the most important thing to know as a lady? As a lady. A lady you should be strong. Like she said, you should know your capabilities. You should know where your best and your weaknesses. If you know your strengths and your weaknesses, at least you'll have the strength to fit into a society, to deal with other people. At least you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the you'll have the Maybe you have the answer to this question. You stay alone. We are not strangers. We are because ladies were our own western enemies. Sometimes we find ourselves with some randomness. I don't know, it's always a lady fighting, a lady over a man or something of this sort. Why? Why are we like this? Okay, naturally. And I mean naturally. Women are just rivals. We are just rivals. When Stella Leumbana is not doing that part of the Bible, that spirit of competition is always in us. So when I see myself, the star over others, I feel good. But when she's the one who is above me, that jealousy will just automatically come. But I've worked so hard for so many years to learn how to be happy for my friends. Because learning is what I mean. Okay, being that that one is inborn in all ladies, you and me, we are supposed to train ourselves to love. And to admire, to encourage our fellows to go ahead of us in order to be our stars, and we appreciate, yes. Okay, what do you think? I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. There are people who say, I've tried to be nice, but you've caused so much disrespect. I don't want to like you. I don't know how to say it. I think that to better live my life, maybe I was the one who Knowing it was not really a horoscope. Worthless.にちは yuy So like I've been following up the latest things, because I'm an주세요AKI since I'm癮癮, I've been a d-actylatrak, and in fact it's just hanging, it should be there won't be hanging, it's something in me, I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it How do we identify ourselves as who we are? Okay, I think right from childhood, when we get appreciated, right from the time you are on your mom's breast you know, mothers, we keep on embracing our children, you know, nice, my baby, what, what I think from there, when they keep on showing us how beautiful we are, how good we are I think it develops some character traits in us So when we grow, we'll believe that we are good Unless you divert from there, you begin your own world where you now look at yourself, look at others, she's better than me, she's nicer than me then we'll forget our identity Mommy is right actually And I guess my parents don't know anything So she's your mom, right? Yes, she's my mom of course, she's my mother-in-law But I think it depends, families do go through a lot of things For example, okay, I think it depends on you So we come from different kind of families, and the families do go through different things So you see, when my mom treats me, my mom treats me too There are some mothers who go through a lot, maybe even single mothers There are so many kids who take care of me So at that time I would say, mommy, you look good, you can do this, blah, blah, blah Then we would go outside, people around you, they would say some sort of things Like some of them demoralize internally So you're just growing up knowing that this is you And you can identify with it, you appreciate it, and it's that feeling in your heart So it begins from home Society can make you hate yourself fully You know, you grow and like, okay, your mommy is my child, my kid, my baby You're beautiful, you get But when you go outside You grow hating yourself, like my mom is like this And the society is all on me Let me tell you something, society is a mind-based set So society, you can change the society It's something, come on, they were able to colonize you to believe Jesus and exist Who are you now to colonize the society? Like I'm bringing the pure issue to society I see it as something, society is something you can decide, you can just decide and change it It's just that you have to be you, believe in you After you say, mommy, it's just to be you But then slowly by slowly what you want to change, you want to see even what you want to be Even what you want to be From the moment you see society being him or her That is the moment you now encourage You can colonize in another way to believe in you, that's how you are Let me give you a scenario I saw sometimes back, there was a kid, a young girl Every time when she walks out She'll tell you, I'm beautiful Mommy, I'm beautiful, I'm healthy She believed that And even to date, she believed in herself She's beautiful, she's okay She doesn't want somebody from outside to tell her that My mom, my mom told me I'm powerful, I'm beautiful So what happens to those people whose parents maybe did not express their love like that? Is there a possibility for me to come out and tell her that I'm beautiful And that I'm beautiful? Is there a chance for outside help? It's possible So it makes sense that we should just love everyone If you come out and appreciate If you come from where you come from and somebody from outside and you're appreciating You will feel much better than the person you love and appreciate Because you feel special Your special feelings Like I said, you will feel much better than the person you love No, just from where you're coming from I do as you may be Maybe I don't know what my name is I don't know what my name is I don't know what my name is No, no, no I don't know what my name is Oh, you're okay with not laughing at you You're laughing at the situation Okay, so on to the slides Is it me frequently asked questions To not have to go too far Then you must handle Because the topic is life lessons So one of them is handling your menstrual cycle I was, I don't know how deep I can explain this But okay, handling your menstrual cycle I remember the first time I got mine I was very confused Like, what is this answer What is happening to me What is happening to me And why is it so uncomfortable What is happening to me And then it's like Mommy, I love my mom I love my mom as a pair of tough love So, oh, I don't know Yeah, so you think You would have been better So I tell you Oh, I'm aware This is the first time I've seen someone like that I'm like, oh, I'm sorry I'm sorry But how was it for you Maybe your first time And then you learned For me For me It wasn't that difficult But I didn't know, by the way You know, like waking up And you're looking at yourself You think you're dying You're good You know that expression But But at least I had an elder sister And she told me, no Go bet Do this Bring your Bring your pads And everything And she did everything for me And I was like, oh, I'm good Wait, wait How did you handle yours How did you handle yours Hey, I'm good Oh, you experienced I love you How did you At some point When I was young I went to school I went to Kalka Sport And I went to the gym So I said, ma'am I'm good I don't know if it's to embarrass us Or purpose So I went to the gym I went to the gym Check it, check it I was sitting here I was sitting here So how have you kept yourself Visually Over the years Over the years Okay I went to the gyms Normally, I go to the gym What's the answer? That's very smart Where are you? I go to the gym I go to the idol With the handle like this Then I go to the gyms But normally, I go to the gym Because I go to the gym I go to the gym This is my opinion Oh, really? Sometimes I go to the gym To an extent And admit you are like Oh I go to the jungle And I go every month Every month I go to the gym I go to the gym I go to the gym I go to the gym I go to the gym I go to the gym I go to the gym My name is Olai Wow Wow Wow Okay This is a very special question Because I don't understand Until recently I was a child But I didn't know Sometimes You can just be minding your own business Explaining a point You know, to society E-Society That's what we discussed At that time I didn't know I didn't know I asked Why is it disturbing me now? Just I don't know Okay, let me give My Case Some years back It happened to me When I was I was not Even aware And then I grew in the village Where by then The parts that we are using today Were scarce They were It was in a particular High school maybe So the primary level They weren't there They were scarce And then it happened that To me And knowingly I never prepared psychologically And it happened I feared telling my mom I stood in the toilet The whole day In my school uniform I thought it would end After a few hours But it never ended It went Throughout the day until Evening When my friends Were looking for me Why is it late? They found me in the toilet And then When I went back home My mom had nothing to give me But rags You see Such an experience It's so deep Psychologically I was disturbed And when I was told It will run for More than three days Just imagine Panic I didn't go to school For like one week I feared And when I was told That it would be this way Every month Hey More stress I was really counting When the month Comes to an end We are now entering Another month Hey, not me People are looking for To football games So we are worried About next society With the time You see There are some life skills That we learn As time goes And then We adjust And now Come to terms with them We know how to cope up With the life And We become comfortable Yes I want to hug you That story was so deep I don't know You know I want that affection To reach there Yes Okay There you go So we have The next side is Things that we Maybe should talk about Also hygiene Which is conditions Or practices conducive To maintaining health And preventing disease Especially through cleanliness If there is a grooming I will cut To tidy And neat Basically So And Hygiene and grooming Is very important Yes Yes What do you know about Hygiene and grooming What is the level of hygiene and grooming Hygiene and grooming For a lady A lady must keep clean That's it Like We are talking about menstrual When you are undergoing I mean It's advisable A lady should Let me say it twice If But some can make it Three times Yes You have to keep clean Because you know If you have it for a long time That smell You understand Yes So A lady is one who should be You should know And you should know to groom yourself At least Looking smart Looking smart In front of people The audience and they'll say Wow This is good Yes Yes What no I am saying When you groom yourself Very smart looking And put it together Can you talk to me about Hygiene and grooming Now you see Hygiene and grooming When you go out I am full And go I am I am I am Hygiene Hygiene Hygiene I am I am I am It is my time I really want to marry But it's missed But this is road For me This is normal experience Daily I meet A lady And you know It is very hard To approach somebody I have a lot of thoughts about my approach I will be like, I will not be able to sleep Who are you? Something of sort When it comes to that I need to work on that This way she will maintain a nice smell I have a lot of thoughts about my role but it's still fine I have a lot of thoughts about my role and this has nothing to do with anything by the way but I have a lot of thoughts about my role I have a lot of thoughts about my role I have a lot of thoughts about my role I have a lot of thoughts about my role I have a lot of thoughts about my role There is a show Advertisement on Nivea I saw it sometimes back when you see three girls are walking then once they are scared and then she looks they are there they are in a place where she is suspicious she is suspicious about herself so to keep yourself fit it depends on where you are you don't feel suspicious you are not you are not a girl you are a girl you are a girl you are a girl you are not a girl but it is the one that I am you see keep yourself so that you yourself you don't get suspicious about yourself and that is the you will catch up with the grooming I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it I saw it that's not what but when I see it this is important because these smells that come out of our bodies we don't realize what's happening we don't know what's affected so when we see it then we are like I know that hairstyle is I know. Oh my gosh. You're personally to me. I can't even compare myself with you But you can't keep it for too long because it turns up to a roof, isn't it? We have African hair, okay, and we don't want to start being safe Yeah, even natural hair. It's by the it's a hobby. This is a lot of work But we gotta try and just keep it clean. We're not judging you. We're not condemning you No one was born knowing anything here Melan Kwanjia and this is why it's called life lessons. Alright, so another one I wanted to ask is academics It's a smart lady fared in society. It's a smart lady fared in Society and maybe in the corner but runs in the evening because Where I am understanding you grew up is it's very different from maybe what these two grew up. So is it is a lady fared Okay Not really Not really and as far as the society has come The girl child is not failed The girl child has identified herself She is on the right path She has herself driven towards her destiny. The girl child has not failed. Okay Like the way I said before that we get we get our Our power right from there that small unit that family Yeah, that's where we get the engine to drivers that far We want and then on on the way you should identify now who you are Yeah, you are that girl child look at your society Where do you want to to reach? What is your destination? Yeah, like me before then I wanted to be an IT on the way I found myself Doing education. Wow. They are after I wanted freedom. I wanted to do my own things I found myself in Entrepreneurship and I'm happy and I'm still aiming to be to be where I want Yeah, so the girl child has not failed Unless you miss the mark Then you will call yourself a failure, but until me I want because we are running out of time which is devastating at Kusumah videos of Facebook if they will allow me Maybe it's Malizia background What would you like to tell the young culture? Because when I look at you I can tell that number one on a jiu-jua now after my jiu-jiu So whether society likes it or not who out there she too much. I think I'm gonna come back here How did you get to that point? Maybe encourage them say many a jelly. We they want to be like everyone They see I don't know what's up. Oh, I see be on say Will I be like everyone I want to be like me now the best version of me so long Okay, like maybe from the start you go ahead come inside and I had to go through some cancelling At the high school like there's a kumbuka my deputy was one of my counsellors So I wanna be cancelled Because of something like okay, that's a thank you from sequel cell So you can I know But that moment she cornered me and then my cousin and kufa because of that so I get your mentality So like she used to talk to me and I introduced to cancer people and I am there If they are able to survive they're able to smile they want to do it. How about you? So from then you learn You learn to accept And I got me through and okay, I was smart in school So I'm just sometimes see at night Like you need some time as I end up one week like it's gonna one week to exam Now you're in the crisis in many she got so on as I imagine a kumbuka the all of the time I'm gonna home she'll a home she'll a home So nice and I admit you a one week you took a from what direct you can find exam still in school like These people like It's a true story Nice a kumbuk at our moment to make less turkey with a momma So My mom was also there my aunties my uncle They were there encouraging me telling you can do it. So I learned through and I believe whatever they say No, you're also gonna challenge me look one a face from other people No, I took on John up and I can get excuse me So I come back. Hey, she's taken him to an asylum. I just be you believe in yourself No, I just want to come back. You're smart You can do this so me from there I didn't mean casually. I have a place And I must believe in myself because I'm also somebody in this world Let me I want you I wanted to ask what you expect from now this life now that you finished with high school But instead I want you to ask Evelyn one question. Just one it can be any question of your choice He quit who assume me in hangar and she's going to give you a stone Just one question Okay, how is it like? As in the cool socialize to not to in Guinea-Bangie some people just tough You know some are tough. So How do you couple? Okay in the social life or Social skills, which is very essential for a person to have It has ideas on Yeah Ask yourself if you want people to respect you what about you do you respect them? You see and have Some emotional control. Yeah, I'm harsh I'm unfriendly Do you know to cope up with me to get something good from me? You see Are you an empathetic you yourself and Sympathetic to others You see just shape yourself Fast socially and then you'll just fit in Into the society with the people you'd wish to to live Yes Do not say yes if it hurts you Whatever anyone ever asks you who's kubalika in a commissar Land plant say no. This is something I learned very late Now I can say All right, so about video but there's all Facebook remember it's white for for Facebook at white for channel on Twitter Hashtag is white in the morning or Queens Wednesday. We have a Vicky Rojasafi. Good morning. Valkyrie Muko charming. That's what happens when Queens come together Watching from Ember massive the show is on fire and the topic is good for me Never trust anyone. Oh DJ play for me. Lola Kelvin. Mundana says hello to them from Mago Vihiga County I request Sugua and man James. Good morning. 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