 Hello everyone Welcome again to another Nox about a live video. I just checked into this new room got a nice little view of the city Quite noisy out there. You can hear all the music all these parties in this one We are going to be talking about When the narcissist Realizes that playing you was wrong But in actuality They never really realize That playing you was wrong and a lot of them They may not even see it as though they were playing you at all They have such arrogance and entitlement They may have thought that it was well within their right Even though you are meant to be in a committed relationship They believe that they should have all of these things on the side And that they should be able to do whatever they want whenever they want to do it Because they're very entitled and to them it's just An insult They see it as an attack when you Accused them of playing you or when you see it as though You have been wronged you have been exploited they got went over on you They're not looking at it like that at all and they see it as though If they found a better situation A better opportunity with someone else then they look at it as though it was your fault You failed them You should have been good enough for them. You should have catered to their Emotional needs Made them feel better You should have performed well for them sexually You should have done all of these things for them You just should have made them feel good You should have made them feel alive Over the moon on top of the world and in their minds because you've failed to do that In their minds That is their cue That is their green light to just go and do whatever they want And typically yes, they will find someone Who is a lot younger? They may find someone who is half your age Because they look at it like It's this fresh new source of supply With tons of energy Someone who doesn't know who they are That's just grade a supply To a narcissist When they find someone who doesn't know what they're about Someone who doesn't know that they're just gonna tear that ass up They're just gonna give it to them They're gonna use and abuse them They're gonna have their way with them That is exactly What they want and what they're looking for Because you're old now They know you, they used to you You're boring Boring to a narcissist is when They've done things to you And now you see them in a bad light You don't look at them the same way anymore So you've cut off your emotions to them You may be grey-rocking them And they're not getting that supply like they used to get it So now you're boring Now you're dull, you're uninteresting You're not sexually arousing or enticing for them So much more fun for them to go and run off Find someone who is a lot younger than you Someone who is far less wiser and experienced So that's what they do They go off They run off And they play you It doesn't matter that you were loyal, you were devoted You gave everything you had to them You were there for them But they took that for granted, they abused you And then you distanced yourself from them You were no longer into them like you were before Because that's not enticing to you You don't like to be manipulated, abused and gaslighted So of course you became cold and distant You cut yourself off from them And there's nothing wrong with that I completely understand it I would do the same thing in that situation It's justified But when that happens the narcissist is not Thinking how we think They're not looking at themselves They're not taking accountability They're not self-loathing They're not thinking The reason why you're pulling back Because of something they've said or done They're not thinking like that All they're thinking is I'm not getting supply I'm not getting your emotional investment I'm not getting it like I used to So that means I've got to go and get it somewhere else That's how they think So they leave you behind They run off They find someone new They love bomb them Until finally That turns sour as well They abuse the new supply as they always do Maybe the new supply confronts them Or turns against them Or maybe the narcissist just gets bored It loses that newness that it had Initially So now they start to think Grass is greener on the other side They start to re-idealize you They start to think that things are better with you And then they decide to come back They may hoover you And sometimes they may play the victim They may act as though It was your fault you did these things to them You pushed them away You weren't giving it to them like you used to And that is why they had to leave Or they may do something else They may come back with the fake apologies The false epiphanies They may say that they're sorry They understand what they did wrong They never should have left you They never should have cheated on you They never should have done all of these things But even when they do that That is still manipulation They're still just trying to trick you They're trying to deceive you again By re-idealizing you And returning to the love bombing It's just because they think The grass is greener on the other side Again, back with you And they see that once you've had some time away from them You've had some time to heal You got better Mentally and emotionally And maybe you've established some success While you went away from them And now they're coming back Because they want some of that They want to partake In the success that you have built Since they were gone But what happens is If you let them back in All they're going to do Is use and abuse you all over again And they're going to sabotage And destroy The success That you have established since they were gone So they never really realize That playing you was wrong No narcissist is ever going to look at it like that They're only going to see it as though You did something to them You pushed them away And it was your fault that they left But then they may see it as though It's better with you again And that is why they will come back Which is why what you've got to do Is just keep that door shut Keep it locked Don't let them back in Because by doing that In that moment when they lose interest In the new supply And they re-idealize you Then they're going to experience a lot of disappointment Maybe not regret But they are going to feel like They've lost out on something good And it used to be very rare That narcissists would ever experience that But now because of these videos It is becoming more and more common Now people are starting to understand They're starting to get it So now these narcissists They can't get it like they used to People aren't putting up with it anymore And when they get played They get deceived They get manipulated They get used and abused They get cheated And they feel like they've lost something They feel regret They self-love They feel all of these negative emotions When people go through all of this stuff They're fed up They've had enough They don't want to deal with the narcissist anymore And then the narcissist is left To go somewhere else Their only option at that point Is to find someone who is unwise Find someone who is more susceptible Someone who is inexperienced Someone who To put it simply Doesn't know Because that is exactly what a narcissist wants They want someone who doesn't Know who they are Someone who doesn't know What they're about to do to them Because it's no fun When someone already knows For them The thrill, the excitement The pleasure and the satisfaction It comes from praying On an unsuspecting target Who doesn't know What is about to happen to them Because then they can really Partake And enjoy The emotional reactions That they're getting from their target And that is what really does it for them It's the reactions, that excitement In the target Where the target is a browser enticed Because they're still believing in that fantasy They're being love bombed They're being manipulated And that for the narcissist It is like a drug It makes them feel alive It makes them feel like they're worth something And that is why They typically go from one supply to the next They never settle down Because they are addicted to new beginnings They are addicted to the beginning Of a relationship It's just that high, that thrill Of dealing with an unsuspecting target Someone who doesn't know What they're about to do to them And they can pray in that person Manipulate them, love bomb them Do all these things to them And there is just no better feeling in the world Than that For a narcissist They love that But once you've been with them You've learned that You've seen what they're about They've done all of these things to you You know them It is all over for you after that You're never going to get that out of them again It is never Going to be the same You are never Going to be able to rekindle that relationship That spark is gone That spark is gone That spark is gone And you cannot reignite it This is why they always need new supply It has to be someone who doesn't know Someone who doesn't know what they're about to do to them Someone who doesn't know what they're about But once you know They know They cannot deal with you again They know it's all over for you Once you know But yes Someone like that They're never going to experience A real relationship With love A connection Growth Something long term Sustainable, a future A family Marriage They're never going to experience that What they will experience is a string of failed relationships Where it may be great in the beginning But it doesn't last for long because They've always got to tear up that supply They've got to use and abuse them and then destroy them Until the supply becomes very bitter and resentful towards them And then you never see them in the same way So that's typically what happens While you You can heal, you can move on And you can have that for real You can develop A sustainable relationship with someone But that's something you'll never have with them And it's also something that they'll never have with anyone else So I guess that is their karma But a lot of them they may not even see it that way As long as they've got new supply They've got an unsuspecting target That is all they really need So that's really it That's just how it goes with narcissists They'll never find long term satisfaction in relationships They're not ever going to think that playing you was a bad idea That it was wrong But when things go sour with their next supply They may then try to come back to you And that is when you have the opportunity to shut that door And keep them out And by doing that it will affect them It will hurt them They will wish that they could come back to you They will feel like they've lost something They may not feel regret But they're going to be missing out on you Everything that you are This wonderful person Everything that you have to offer Everything that you could have been to them They're going to miss out on all of that So just remember that And don't let it bring you down Let it help you To keep pushing forward To leave them behind To forget about them To not let it play on your mind Thank you Thank you for the donation Pete, don't repeat So yes, that's it They never realised that it was wrong In their minds everything they do is right But you don't have to worry about proving them wrong Or making them feel wrong Just worry about you and what you're going to do And just leave them in the past Leave them in the dust Forget about them And just keep moving on I don't know if you can see the city from here This window is a bit dirty Maybe it's just watermarks from the outside I think I just got here in this city And more towards the north of Vietnam now Sounds like there's a lot going on out there A great place for a narcissist to get supply Thanks for the donation Kelly But as you know with me I'm not really into all of that I'm quite happy just sitting on my own In my room Especially at night I don't usually stay out after eight I just enjoy being alone I love my own peace I enjoy solitude I don't really enjoy being around too many people Unless there's people who have empathy Like myself People who can share My feelings and experience And I do think that that Is what we should all be looking for Instead of these narcissists Who just come in They swipe in, they use and abuse and destroy I think we all deserve so much more than that But yes I'm going to have a shower now Get ready to sleep This as well be sleeping tonight And then maybe in the morning I've got a video That I need to finish So I'll be sitting here on my laptop Looking out at this view I've got a lot of good videos coming very soon Much longer videos as well Thanks for the donation Regina I appreciate it But yes that's it for this video I'm going to get ready for bed now But thank you all for joining me I hope it was helpful If it was you can show your support Down below By giving this video a thumbs up Let me know your thoughts in the comment section Share and subscribe And as always I will talk to you in another one Very soon