 And this is the story of the historical figure in many of our cultures and civilization called Juhah. One time he was walking with his son and they they had a donkey. Juhah the father was sitting on the donkey and his son was walking and they passed by some people and the people looked at Juhah and he said what a heartless father he's making his child walk. So Juhah said oh man so then he he got off the donkey and he put his son to sit and then they passed some other people. The people said look at that son with no edab he's sitting on the donkey and he's making his father walk. What kind of edab is that? No manners. So Juhah said okay we're both sitting on the donkey so the father sits on the donkey the son sits on the donkey and they continue walking and then they passed by another group of people and they look at Juhah and his son and they say look at that heartless family putting all that weight on that poor donkey. What bad manners. So Juhah says okay let's get off the donkey. Juhah and the son start walking next to the donkey and then they walk by another group of people and the people say look at those imbeciles they have a donkey and neither no one's riding it. So then Juhah takes the donkey and carries the donkey above his head and starts walking and the moral of the story is if we're chasing the approval and the pleasure of people we're making ourselves lower than donkeys.