 Why narcissists play games? Narcissists play games Because they enjoy drama and chaos a healthy functional environment is Very boring for them and they need constant entertainment So they will manipulate you They will trick and deceive you they will play games with you They will mess with your mind If you let them which is why you must set strong boundaries When you are dealing with a narcissist You must set a standard for what you expect from them Otherwise, they will think they can treat you however they like It will be very arrogant and entitled And they will start making these unrealistic demands because they have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance So they will have you doing all kinds of things for them. They will have you jumping through hoops They will have you following their lead While they're breaking you down, but they can't take anything from you They're too weak Which is why they have to manipulate you And to doing things for them They have to play games They can't make you give them attention They can't make you give them your money They have to manipulate you into doing that Because they need to extract resources from you first they will pretend that they like you They will pretend like they're on your team They will give you future faking they will give you false promises but then Once they've got what they want from you They're out of there because you let them manipulate you. You didn't set a standard Narcissist play games Because they want power and control They want the ability to direct and influence your behavior and the cause of events Because they're very insecure Which is why they depend on you To provide them with a sense of security and stability Narcissists enjoy controlling their targets. It gives them a thrill to see you chasing after them To see you jumping the hoops So that you never realize that they're just wasting your time Which is why if they're not doing what you want them to do You need to get rid of them because life is too short To be dealing with people who are just wasting your time People who are playing you They're not going to be any good for you But as soon as you stop giving them your attention They will come running back. It's a game It's a competition and your attention Is the price Your attention is their currency It is the most valuable thing that you can give to a narcissist But it would be better invested into yourself And into your own life. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you Please like Comment share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching Inquiries You can email me at coaching at rtvverda.co.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon